I read my boyfriend's texts

Ok so the other day I asked how to catch my boyfriend cheating!!! well tonight while he was in the shower I checked his cell phone and he txted his friend and was like damn the girls at abercromie are bangin...then I read another txt from I guess the...

other day and he said to the same friend omg I just saw the hottest girl in really tight sweat pants and I want herrr!!! so I called him out and asked him about it and hes like it was a joke I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you!!! So I don't know what to do ... HELP ...I mean I love him sooo much but Im so disgusted and pissed off HELP HELP pleaseee

he obviously wasn't joking, you really need to drop him.

in the first place, if you felt like you needed to snoop and all that, there wasn't really enough trust there for a relationship to stay healthy and to succeed.

you need to tell him you really don't think it was a joke. if it was, then he would have known you would read it. and if he meant he was just joking around with his friends, why would he have sent a text TO his friend about seeing the girl in the sweatpants? he wouldn't have.

he sounds like a horndog to me...

It is probably just a gug being a typical guy around his mates.

Does not necissarily mean that he dont love you or that he would act on his comments.

Guys generally think differently to girls around such issues. It would be a shame for you to break up over what may just be typical macho behaviour with one of his mates.

Now, if he had been texting a girl direct, that is a different matter.

Please dont make a hasty decision over this. You may end up regretting it. After all, there is no evidence that he has actually been unfaithful to you.

Guys will always notice a pretty girl regardless of if they are in a relationship or not.

Men can be so cruel. They have no regard for the feelings of women. All they think about is sex and if they spot a girl that is better looking then you they will start cheating on you.

Dump him. You'll hurt, but you will end up hurting more anyway, with the doubt that will complicate your mind. you sound young- lots of good fish in the sea that will worship you and will never even cause you to want to look in the cell phone messages. The text messages to his pals; maybe innocent banter, but does he have also phone numbers of girls- did you check that. Once you have snooped why not go all the way. now he knows you spy on him- probably not going to work out anyway as guys generally do not like it.

Depending on the guy sometimes they will say things to other guy friends to up their cool. It probably wasn''t a joke, he may have found that they were attractive, which is also normal. If you catch him texting other girls and talking about having been with them then drop him.

well he hasnt txted or called any girls because I checked that and I know its bad but since he gave me his cell phone code for voicemail I check it and there hasnt been anything...so we decided to just be together and work on our relationship... thanks so much for your advice everyone!!! God Bless!!!