Are we over forever?

"So my ex of a year and a half broke up with me six months ago the first two months he said he didnt no what was going to happen and I text harassed and acted really crazy he called my friends and told them to get me to stop but I couldnt one day he was...

like I hate you I have no feelings for you and there is no chance in hell for us I freaked out and sent him prob 100 messages finally I said ok and stopped said goodbye and then he asked me to come see him I talked him into giving us another chance he said ok but just a chance not together things were ok for a week but I couldnt handle not knowing so I went crazy again one day he said it was over forever and I over dosed on pills and ended up in the hospital we agreed to be friends but thats it and I accepted re: the pill thing we talked everyday and he started telling me he cared enough to give it another try but not yet it was to soon we were having sex and hanging out but not often at all I freaked out again and we went on like that for months then he said he didnt even want to be friends or whatever we were I begged him to be my friend and he said I was acting pathetic I agree he ended up changing his number but a week later called me blocked and we started e mailing each other I took it to far and sent so many emails he stopped replying to all of them and replies only to say mean things its weird and confusing because he still calls every week or so and says its to say hi or stop emailing me I saw him on valentines day for sex but that was it we havent talked or emailed since what do you think I should do im so in love with him do think we can ever work this out he says theres no chance but he said that before and we kind of had one is this relationship done"

I think you should not give them a nother chance because first they say they don't like you then they say they like what do you think they will say next???

I think you need to move on.
Honestly if all that happened in a year, I can just imagine what would happen in the future. You obviously weren't as happy as you thought. If he truly cared about you he would be certain. Your relationship is on and off and thats not good, it means that it isn't a stable relationship and probley isn't worth the time and effort. You are obviously going to miss him, but it doesn't mean you should go back to him. You just need to stay strong, staying away from him is going to prevent a lot of pain, trust me
**I saw him on valentines day for sex**
Tisk tisk, do you not see anything wrong with that? You are letting him hurt you and use you, get your act together and hopefully you will have a more promising future. When something goes wrong, don't take pills or stupid things like that, be an adult. If you are mad/frustrated/upset about something, take a nice relaxing bath or go for a walk.

Dear blairfaith,
There is nothing more UNappealing then a women who begs. Unless it's a man who gets his jollies by abusing and using a women with low self-esteem. You both need some very intense counselling. You both need to stop all contact with each other...and I do mean all. You need to gain some self-esteem before you even consider dating again. As for him he also needs to see a therapist. I have no doubt he is doing this with on purpose and I believe he may have some type of personality disorder or worse. Get some help ASAP.
Sue...good luck

It's important that you don't get obsessed about the ex. Many people tend to do that and you want to avoid that because well, it's not healthy and it's a little creepy. Hes only using you for sex!

If your relationship is over the one thing that will keep you stuck is; the on-again-off-again dance that so many people do. If it's over, then make a clean break and move on. You will be glad you did.

If it's over...it's over!

Deep down in your heart you know it, but many people hope against
hope that if they go back just one more time, things will work out.
So...they go back and try. 99% of the time it's the same sad outcome,
minus a couple of precious months that would have been better spent
in trying to heal themselves.

Don't try to be friends. Don't meet for dinner to see them one more time.
Don't talk on the phone and rehash the past and don't let them continue
to be a part of your life when they're not.

All of our choices come with consequences. When you choose to see him one
more time or talk to him again and again, the consequence is: you
will begin to heal later rather than sooner. You will waste more of your
precious time and you will hold onto the hope that things might work out,
which will only be a disappointment to you in the long run.

"Tis better to be alone than in bad company." -George Washington