Why doesn't it feel good when he touches me?

What do you do when a guy fingers you if it don't feel good?

Tell him. Communication is the best thing in any kind of relationship whether its physical or not! Let him know what you like and dont like. It will help improve things physically and emotionally!

well ash23 thankx a lot for the advice, but unfortunatley that doesn't work all da tyme

I agree with ash. I can't imagine how telling the guy wouldn't work. I mean, if you say, "Hun, that doesn't feel so good. Why don't you try it like this instead?" then why wouldn't he?

If it doesn't feel good then maybe you are not comfortable with this guy and are tense therefore it doesn't feel good..have you felt good about this before.. or is this your first?

because a guy needs to be gentle..and if your trusting with him you should enjoy it.. if not, just try to get him to do something else through body language like taking his hand and putting it else where..no need to talk if you can't..but communicating is a must in a relationship.

first of all don't let him do it unless you want it and tell him how you want it and what feels good if it does not feel good he needs to stop. Let him know. talk to him it will help. I don't think he wants to hurt you and I thinkt that he wants it to feel good so tell him how to make it good.