Am I obsessive about this guy?

So thers this guy. I know you've heard it a million times before. But I had a big crush on him like last year and got off with him once at my birthday party, I've never mentioned it to him because I dont think he remembers (we were both really drunk). I...

mean I've been with other guys since then but every time I am with someone else I compare it to him. I don't think he likes me like that and we're losing touch with each other. I want him to like me but I dont want to be too obvious and get shot down. Hes really shy if he did like me im not sure that he'd tell me. HELP! Its so overly complicated because he did like me but his best mate did too so he wouldn't make any moves because he didnt want to hurt his mate. So you can see my dilemma please help this has been bothering me for a long time.

WELL JUST TELL HIM HOW you FEL. ITS BETTER OFF THAT WAY THEN MAYBE you TWO CAN BE TOGETHER OR AT LEAST IF HE DOESNT LIKE you LIKE THAT IT WILL HELP you MOVE ON BECAUSE you KNOW FOR SURE THAT HE FEELS DIFFERENTLY