A guy 3 years younger has a crush on me!

I'm 20 years old and this guy that I've known since we were little kids has had a crush on me for the last 2 years. He's 17 and we go to the same church and both went to the same school. We used to be really good friends until I realized...

he liked me. Then I kinda ignored him. He asked me if I was interested in him when I was a senior in high school and I told him he is too young and maybe he should try again in a couple years. Now that its been a "couple years" we started talking again. I've had several girls from his school come up to me and tell me that its not right that I've "stolen" their smart, quarterback, and class president. But I'm not keeping him from dating. Now I'm afraid that I'm starting to 'like' him. I've only dated guys that were older than me.

What should I do? I don't want our relationship or church to get 'weird' and don't know if I should talk to him about it. Would it be wrong if we dated?

Absolutely Not!!!!!!!! It is not wrong if you like someone 3 years younger and it is not wrong if he likes you. I think you should give it a try and date him. Who knows maybe you'll be happy-happier than you've ever been with a guy that was older. Now if he acts immature it will be too hard but if he acts like an adult why shouldn't he be treated like an adult. He has feelings like any other male with hormones and everything. If girls come up to you tell them it's not wrong to like him and im sorry but I can't help if he likes me. Let everyone else know it's natural too. Besides why should you care about what everyone else thinks? I wouldn't let it bother me this bad. Good Luck, God Bless and I hope I was of some help-notinlove66

i totally agree with the previous person. age is only a number. he could be mature for his age, but you wont know unless you give him a try. if it is meant to be then it will work out. hope that helps

well you are a good person but my step sister always told me age isn't nothing but a number i know you are gonna think its weird to go out with a guy thats younger than you but when you spend time with him you will probley have the time of your life and you r gonna forget all about this age so its up t you if you want him to be with you so make it happen

Good Luck!!!