Should she stay, or leave, because of her first love?

My friend needs advice about a relationship..when she was younger, there was this guy. He took her virginity away and she really loved him and he really loved her. but the thing is, he was older. and was her step aunts son. but they new that there was no...

way that they were alowed to be together. so she found another guy at school. he was in eighth grade and she was in 7th. They fell in love and been together for a really long time. But this pass summer, she broke up with her boy from school and went to the guy who took her V. they hit it off again and fell in Love even more cause they were older. he was with his girl for a really long time and he was planning on leaving her for my friend cause she had broken up with her boyfriend. but that never happend. the summer ended and she got back with the boy from school. and has been with him ever since and she still has feelings for the other guy. because he was her first and she knows that he still loves her. but her relationship with her boyfriend is like really serious and he loves her a lot and would probley kill himself over her. is it wrong for her to be having these feelings?? what should she do?? should she just stay with who she's with and see how everything goes, or just end it???

you only get one first love, once youve found something that special you're lifes never going to be the same. she's just settling for this guy shes with right now. NEVER settle for the one you can live with..go for the one you CANT LIVE WITHOUT. I would tell her with ALL of my heart, GO BACK TO HER FIRST LOVE. no one will EVER replace him in her mind and she has every right to be perfectly happy- as much as it mighthurt in the beginning...ten years from now if she didnt, would she look back and regret? do it NOW...xxx

"You don't know what you got till its gone." Don't let what you have now go, cause if you do you'll regret it later.

first of all, she should tell her first boyfriend that when she broke up with him the first time, she found someone else. She should tell the first guy the whole story. No secrets between first love. NEVER. As for the other guy, she should just listen to her heart on that one.

Tell her to move on. She's way too young to be commited. And please to god use protection.