A baby not ours

I am 23 years old and I have been seeing this guy now off and on for 7 years. We have 2 kids and another on the way. Last winter we split up for a few months and he started seeing a girl he had cheated on me with in the past. This girl became pregnant...

and he came back to me.(of course denying this child). Well 2 days ago she went into labor and he admitted that it was his kid and he needed to be there. I wanted to then leave but he begged me to stay and try to work on us, that the baby wouldnt get in the way of our relationship and our kids. I have hardly seen him since. What do I do?

this must be very hard for you and i really dont know what you should do... its up to you maybe you should just give it a go ith him (again) and see how things work out.

Being the "other woman" I want to tell you that it will not be easy. I met this guy who was single(so he said)and little to my suprise his "girlfriend" was at home pregnant. He told me that they were not together and he wanted to be with me(can't believe i fell for that shit!) So I kept seeing him and of course we became intimate, and now I'm 8mths pregnant! And where is he now? Girl, unless the "other woman" wants nothing to do with him then he's all yours and that's unless he's not trying to be a "Playa". He made some bad choices and I'm sure he's just confused but from where I'm standing no "other woman" can make a man love her even if she has his child. So hold your head up girl, he'll come around and maybe things will be different this time! Good luck and keep me posted!