3 years & he cheated

Well for start's I've been with someone for about 3 year's...and well on new year's I found out he was cheating on me...I gave him all hell...but since then it's been hell for me emotionally because I would think he learned from the 1st time but no 2...

month's later I got into his yahoo account and he was associating with another girl she send him pic's so that was a bit desturbing...there were about 2 other girls at that point he was talkin to as well but this one in particular he told he liked..and she belived him I told her everything and she gave him a piece of her mind and he told me I dont want her I want you look at her and look at you..then I thought what n @ss hole like how could you sit there and play with ppls emotions like that well anyone in a long relationship seeing that the person that they have been with for that long is writting that they like that other person would grow angry and infuriated...so were 6 months down the same line its argument after argument and I know what I should do but its hard I mainly think I stuck through this for this long because I may still want to throw what he did to me in his face and im not over it even though he wants forgiveness im not that type of person to 4 give and 4 get and I guess being with him for so long there is an attachment but he swear's he wants to work thing's out I really dont believe him of course... I got into his myspace and yes myspace lol its not myspace thats the trouble maker its the people who have it and the way they act upon it but anyway's well hes about 21 friend requestin lil 17yr olds that he claims he knows he deleted em so I would'nt get upset...so I saw he wrote one of them and well hey I got mad of course but like I said theres just this little string holding up together and its not that thick of a thread sigh...im not sucha easy person to deal with but still all in all if he was to do this why have me hanging around for...pluss im a virgin and I just shut him out sexually maybe thats what frustrates him and he does what he does but talking to girls online I mean its not worth it... Figure hes just young minded and isn't ready for a relationship but hey why not let me go... I know the responses I will get lol but I would like to hear from all of you on what I should do thank you

ma he aint worth it Dump his muthafuc*kin a$$
of course its gunna hurt but you know your gunna be glad you did it!
cheating in a relationship is Sh!t!
sorry but it is what it is & hes just using you its not right 4 you 2 be getting hurt
if he truely loved you he wouldnt be cheating on you
dont degrade urself because of love
have self respect be strong & moveon
I wish you the best if you need anything funmail me!

iight well im tired but..

DUMP HIS A$S! come on!!!
3 years listen I know its hard to let go 3 years but honestly if he loved you and you guys were meant to be, you guys wouldn't be in this problem where cheating is invloved. Maybe since your a virgin he wants to hit on lil 17 year olds but hey fu*k him! I know you can go out der and find a better guy that ACCEPTS EVERYTHING and your virginity. And someone you can trust.
Trust me you desereve better and girl to girl...
Let him go and show him that you are not going to let him do sh*t like that to you because he seems immature to me..
Your rite.. maybe hes not ready for a relationship so do him a favor and just let him butt go

hope I helped...

Love is never easy is it? Been there done that! lol Havent we all? Seriously, I will say what I think anyone else would. Leave him. This is the best thing you could do for urself emotionally and mentally. you will have no regrets and will find urself and who you really are in all this. When ever did you become the person who was willing to accept infidelity in a relationship? when is it ever really ok? are you really ok w/your past w/him and the fact that 3yrs have passed and your still questioning your relationship...well I say get on w/your life as you deserve much better and yes, after 3 years of no sex... I dont believe a man can really wait around for it. Its ok that your holding out for whatever reasons but I've never come across a man that wasnt cheating while waiting. Do right by you and if this situation were your friends...then how would you advise them? wouldnt you tell them they deserve better? and can do better? and should leave and have more respect for themselves? well, hope you can find the right way to go and funmail me if you like anytime tc