19 (to be 20) and never dated

I'm a 19 year old male virgin. Not only that, but a never-been-kissed, never-been-on-a-date virgin. It's not that I'm a horrible freak no one wants to be around, or even that no one has ever expressed interest, but I've honestly just never seeked this...

stuff out. At some point I got it through my head that high school dating wasn't worth it, and decided not to bother until later. Now I wonder if I made the right choice, especcially given that I'm now in my last year at a small, alternative school that runs for five years (instead of the usual four). Hell, I'll be turning 20 around the time I finally start college, and in the meantime, I don't get around much as I don't have much access to transportation, nor are there many real oppurtunities left at my school.

To be frank, it's going to be a little mortifying being that rare 20 year old dude in the dorms who's never so much as kissed another person, assuming it comes to that. The question is, how do I work around this? Do I be upfront to any potential girlfriend about my total lack of experience at dating (and not to mention everything else)? Do I keep quiet about it until I reach the point with someone that they'll simply have to know? Will my inexperience at that point even be a real problem outside of awkward, late-night "when did you lose your virginity" discussions with the guys?

Hello fellow virgin. I am a nineteen year old, never been kissed, never dated, female. ITs not as bad as it sounds. The stigma may be you think you are not a man because you havent spent so much time on meaningless relationships. If you have lived through it for this long then it wont kill you. Just wait. A palm reader told me that i would find love (fortune tellers are hokey, dont believe them most of the time) because everyone does. If Madame Hoochiscami told me this, then I will tell it to you. Dude it will happen. Freak or no freak, everyone finds love.

honestly dont worry about it ok girls like guys that havent made it their number one priority to have sex with the first girl they see im sure that some girl is gonna happy to find out you waited and then that'll make em feel special knowing your not infected with std's and to know that you dont want to date em just to get in their bed or knock em up and leave em behind

you're not the only 19 yr old virgin. I assure you there are plenty of others out there.

And I dont think a woman will mind. If she's experienced maybe she'll be intrigued to teach you! And who knows maybe she's on the same level as you!

hey man dont worry bout it, must girls wont mind and the guy might give you a hard time about it at first but that will all blow over. just start looking around for anyone who you may want to date and even if you cant find you at the school your at now once you get to college there will be literily hounreds of girls to pick from.

Listen, it is totally ok! Good for you! Girls don't want a guy who has really been around the block, and despite popular belief, what I hear is there really aren't a whole lot of "when did you loose yours" conversations at college.
Best of luck and don't worry!
xoxo

PS- My room mate thinks you sound great...haha

I'd say don't worry. I'm in a similar situation (never dated and never kissed) and I'm 22. I have about 6 months left of college and nobody's asked me about sex. Maybe they just look at me and make an assumption. Anyway, just be concerned about your own life, not how others perceive it.

Hi! (I'm a girl) I will be 19 in two days and to be honest....i have never been kissed, never had a taste of alcohol or never gone out on a date...so obviously I'm a virgin. I am a pre-professional ballerina, and the reason for never having a boyfriend is most likely because I am a ballet dancer and it takes up SO much of my time. Sometimes I feel like such a loser, but most of the time I realize that there are so few pure people like us...so it kind of means that we have something really special about us! Don't worry about it, seriously. The right girl will come along one day, and you will find the love of your life!

ok if your not gay its a good thing to not be a virgin because the definition of virgin is to be penetrated by a male

i can't really give you any advice that would be worthwhile seeing as i'm in the same situation turning 20 in 2 weeks (especially since this post has been up too long) but whatever... you are not the only person on the boat

haha... Don't worry about. it..
Most girls perfer guys who haven't been everywhere.. if you know what I mean..
I wouldn't mind a virgin.. In fact I'd love that... Tehehe

Haha that sucks. I'm 19 and I'm a virgin too. I've kissed a girl before though. who cares what other people think. just do what you want to do whenever you want to do it. IIGHT

Haha that sucks. I'm 19 and I'm a virgin too. I've kissed a girl before though. who cares what other people think. just do what you want to do whenever you want to do it. IIGHT

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