18 and a virgin

im 18 and a virgin. do guys like that? the thing is people would never guess im a virgin.. I like to wear tight clothes.. im fit, guys think im hot, etc. girls have called me slut and guys have tried to sleep with me but I told them im not easy etc. I...

never even gave head and I havent had a boyfriend for more than a month.. I only had one boyfriend in my life. and so many guys asked me out and liked me (hot guys) and I always rejected them.. im very shy, and I dont know why but im kind of scared to have a boyfriend, I always think they want me for my looks and that theyre too good for me. if you see how I look you would think I had many boyfriends and that im not a virgin.. I dont like how people judge you for the way you look.. because I have been called names, for no reason, and I've never even touched a guy. I kind of regret it though because so many girls had sex at 15 and have bfs and are in love.. and I've never had any of that.. and im 18 years old. I feel like time is passing by and im getting old.. I cant have a boyfriend for more than maybe 2 weeks because they all want sex.. its impossible to find a guy my age and a virgin.. I honestly really want to have sex... I always think about it.. im not being pressured or anything, but the problem is I cant find the guy... should I just go out with the next guy who asks me out... because so many have but I rejecte them all.. I think im just to picky and very shy.. im not shy with people but just with guys if I like them... what should I do?

I would pick a nice guy who wouldn't take advantage of you,
If you want to sleep with him talk to him..You don't even have to tell him your a virgin you could maybe just say you haven't slept with many guys or that you dont always feel comfortable sleeping with guys so soon in the relationship.

On the other hand some guys might like the fact that they would be your first..
You just have to do what you feel.
And you have to make sure you dont sleep with a guy just because you feel you have to cause your 18.

xx

thanks so much for answering! im very close with my friends but I never really tell them my personal life.. because most of them are sexually active and dont understand me
thanks again

I got a couple of mate that are over 18 and virgin, unlike other guys, they can wait for the right girl and don't just want sex with evry girl they see ( I pick good friends)

ok I'm a guy I love sports nand a lot of girls come asking me out but I don't know a lot of them so I get to know them first then tell them to let's be friends so try tellin guys to be friends get to be close friends then if you feel comfortable go out with him I don't like having sex and breaking up or I'm not having sex period

whoever went out with you was lucky I will do anything to have that chance

tell me if this helps

Thers nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18 I actually admire the fact that your waiting for the rite guy, when you find someone that you trust enough than that's that, you made a good choice

Hope that helps

thanks everyone so much for your help, I appreciate it

OH my. gos you and me must be brotha and sister.lol
I dont have prblem with girls but as soon as I am with a girl I realy realy love.
I become all weird.and shy.
Well if your 18 and a virgin. Its very very good.
Dont sell yourself short.
those guys who only want sex are dumb... some words I cant say here.
If a guy cant respect you enough not to demand sex then he doesnt deserve you.
And yes we are all craving for sex its human nature.
The dif between sluts and gorgeos woman is whether you choose to act on your hart and soul.
or your visical disiere.
Guys 2. but dont know what to call them. deamons reapers man*** or something like that.lol

You aren't doing anything wrong; its okay to be a virgin at your age, and its good that you're waiting for the right person.

The 'dating' part is a way for you to get to know the person you're with. With new guys, don't even be concerned about the sexual part. Instead, focus your time on finding out how much the two of you have in common. This sort of thing takes weeks, and multiple dates. If you get along, enjoy your time with them, etc.
...then you can begin to consider the idea of a serious relationship.

If the guys you've been dating only seem interested in sex, or your physical appearance; maybe you should try dating a different kind of guy...

And whn you do it please be save. you dont want a unplanned baby.
And I really dont want a girl like you to pick up some disease.

im 18 im a guy
and still a virgin... but I chose to stay virgin
religious reasons though