What should i tell my friend about her older crush?

my friend is 17 and she is talkin to this older dude thats 34they just friends. hes married and not with his wife but not divorced, he has 3 kids. they have been talkin for about four months now over the phone. and they seen each other off but not a lot...

and on but nothing sexual. and hes not the a usual guy that would want to "do it" and then leave her they realy connect and its not like he a molester or anythang cause I've meet him and he cool to me but shes telling me that shes havin more that firends fellings about him. she put meon 3 way and he realy realy cares about he and her problems that she is dealing with. I dont think that that is kool but her feelins is gettin stronger. WHAT SHUD I TELL HER?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Tell her to go anyway. ha ha ha!!!

Sometimes these things work out sometimes they don't. If she's determined to be with him all you can do is be there for her as a friend, and if it does fall through don't say i told you so, just say you're there for her if she needs you.

As a mother i wouldn't be happy but i've dated younger than me and to be honest as the older part of the couple gets older then the age gap does show, but it does work for some couples.