14 years old and pregnant cause of being raped. t-t

iamlost Asked by iamlost over 2 years ago, 42 answers.

Ok I'm 14 and pregnant. I was raped by one of my brothers 19 year old friend. I need to know what to do.My mom already tells me that if I get pregnant she'll send me to a boarding school and make me live there and have the kid. Its so confusing to me....

I'm only 14. I'm not ready. I don't even have sex with my boyfriend cause I know things happen and yeah.
Please help,
Jessie

Answered by blessed_vocals18 on Jul 31, 2007, 06:30PM
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Hun you need to tell you mom what happened.. She'll understand.. I think that she meant if you get pregnant from you choosing to have sex but since you where forced to have sex with this guy you should tell her and tell her the name of the guy so that he goes to jail... The choice to keep it is your but If I was you I would not have a abortion because to have an abortion is really bad but you could have that baby and give it away to some one who will love it, even though it can from something bad happening, you will bless some one who can not have a baby with the most precious gift!! And you can always go back to school and repeat that grade and graduate after you have the baby. I don't know if you want to watch this but I am against having an abortion but I would understand in your situation because you where raped. but This is what it dose to the baby.. yes an abortion hurts both emotionally and physically . but don't be scared to do what you think is right.. I am sorry that, that guy did that to you... GOD BLESS.. So here's the video I hope you can handle it..

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Answered by funadvice on Apr 07, 2006, 10:22PM
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Does your mother know that you're pregnant because you were raped? The fact that your pregnancy is a result of rape will most likely make a world of a difference to her. She's not going to punish you for being forced to have sex with someone because it wasn't your fault. Have a talk with her about the entire situation; she'll probably be able to come up with some options about handling your pregnancy. Good luck with everything.

Answered by dyingtokillx on Apr 08, 2006, 07:10PM

Ok this is my new account and yes she does know. I did talk to her about it.And I want an abortion but then I don't. Its so confusing. I mean 14 is too young to have 2 kids. Cause its twins. I just don't know what to do.

Answered by rebelchick on Apr 08, 2006, 10:07PM
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Ok well if I were u I would have an abortion. Cause 14 is too young to have a baby especially twins. U can sew the guy who did this to u because it just wrong!! But it's ur decision to have the abortion or not. Just saying though that if u dicide to have the baby then it might wreck ur body completly and ur life... Well good luck on ur decision!!

Answered by rebelchick on Apr 08, 2006, 10:09PM
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Ok well if I were u I would have an abortion. Cause 14 is too young to have a baby especially twins. U can sew the guy who did this to u because it just wrong!! But it's ur decision to have the abortion or not. Just saying though that if u dicide to have the baby then it might wreck ur body completly and ur life... Well good luck on ur decision!!

Answered by rebelchick on Apr 08, 2006, 10:10PM
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Ok well if I were u I would have an abortion. Cause 14 is too young to have a baby especially twins. U can sew the guy who did this to u because it just wrong!! But it's ur decision to have the abortion or not. Just saying though that if u dicide to have the baby then it might wreck ur body completly and ur life... Well good luck on ur decision!!

Answered by sweetteengirl on Apr 09, 2006, 01:18PM

Jessie, is up to you to have an abortion or not. But think about it. there is couples in this world that are dying to have a child but can't. If i was you I wouldn't have an abortion, I would've have the twins and give them to another set of couple that would pay to have kids... haven't you thought about that option?

Answered by babymommalove on Apr 09, 2006, 04:48PM
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well does ure mom know u were raped...if not u really should tell her because being raped shouldnt be taken lightly! Thingzz like that should be taken to the law. Having a child because i=of rape will be hard becuase it wasnt spossed to happen but my friend was 15 and she was raped and got pregnant! She went throgh with it and named her baby miracle! It will be hard to raise a baby i know! im 14 and im about to be 6 months prego!!! all you need is a few great friends and family to get you through!

Answered by cantbeatajohndeere09 on Apr 10, 2006, 11:33AM
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you need to tell your mom that it was not your fault you got pregnant!!! that you were raped and tell her by who so he can be punished for what he wrongly did!!!!! she will understand and be more comforting if you tell her you were raped!!! just tell her the truth!!! i hope everything works out please keep in touch!!! GOOD LUCK!!!

Answered by dramaqueen on Apr 10, 2006, 12:29PM
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What ever you do don't think it is your fault, because it wasn't your fault. Does your mom know what happened to you? You really shouldn't keep it from your parents if they don't already know.

Answered by jmdaj on Apr 29, 2006, 02:51PM

you do not need to tell her cuz i 13 and i is too and i scared and he said he will kill me i need help too

Answered by jmdaj on Apr 29, 2006, 03:17PM

you do not need to tell her cuz i 13 and i is too and i scared and he said he will kill me i need help too

Answered by www_bestfriend on Jul 10, 2006, 10:26AM

i think you should make your own choice babies are lovely and i dont agree in abortions so ...? go with what you feel.

Answered by snowboarder on Aug 18, 2006, 04:57PM
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Its rape hun you are not going to get in trouble for this, you need to tell your brother that his friend did this, and tell the police dont let this go unpunished so then he can do this to other girls your age and ruin there life!!!!!!!!!!!

Jason

Answered by vannilla702 on Aug 18, 2006, 07:55PM
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first of all remember this is your choice and no obne elses.thats what the womens right movement was all about.weigh the pros and cons of abortion,havin the child ,and even adoption.also keep in mind that you are a rape victim and even the conservative party is pro abortion as the result of rape.you must take your story to the proper authorities!a rape cannot go unpunished!!!and even if you were playing along or kissin him if you said no ven once it constitutes as rape.also are you shure ure pregnant??ushually if your option is still abortion it is too early to tell what sex the baby is not to mention wheather its twins or not.please dont let this crime go unpunished...i no it will be terrible hard to confront him but you must be stron.....be stron for the millions of girls...and boys...out there who cant or no longer have the chance...be their voice but most immportantly be your own voice.and if you are pregnant go to www.planned... parenthood.com
they will help ok
good luck
and im so sorry uve had to go through this
and if you ever need a friend im here
always
-vianey-

Answered by vannilla702 on Aug 18, 2006, 07:56PM
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p.s.
sorry i cant type worth shit...lol

Answered by mariah9384287 on May 15, 2007, 07:08PM
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God bless you and your baby.
I hope you are both doing well.
=]

Answered by lovedoctor08 on Jul 25, 2007, 11:52AM
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you need to tell your parents what he did to you and confront him he needs to be behind bars where he belongs your parents will understand that they will be by your side and you should alsootell your brother the best thing to do is say something now before its to late

Answered by fau on Jul 31, 2007, 08:03PM
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hink you should tell mom what happenm she understand...u gpotta tell your momshe wonmt send you away if wasnt your fallut

Answered by badgurl on Aug 11, 2007, 05:05AM
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i dont understand it why doesnt enione ever look at dates? this was posted april 2006 it aug 2007!!! its 17 months later~!!! im sure if she dint tell her parents they would know by now somehow!!

Answered by snoozie17 on Aug 23, 2007, 07:29PM
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rape is a serious crime. your mother probably will not think badly of you because you were raped. she should feel sad for you because of it. its not like it was your chioce. im sure you can find sombody who is supportive of you and will help you raise the baby, give it up for adoption, or abort it. be strong. although rape is a terrible thing, you can get past it if you just have hope.

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