How can I tell my parents that I'm 14 and 6 months pregnant?

I was dating this guy for 3 wks. and we had s*x and when he found out, he left me. Now im dating someone else who said he would raise the baby, but the problem is im having twins two boys, but yet have I told my parents that I was even pregnant, what should I do

you have to tell your parents cause sooner or later there going to find out and they'll be extremely mad at you for not telling them in the first place so your better off telling them and of course they'll be mad but then they will be at your side

Just tell them. If you're pregnant, you need to eat right, take your vitamins, go to the doctor, etc. If you're only 14 years old, all of that stuff will be easier to do with their help.

They could also help you decide if you are going to put the babies up for adoption or not. Personally, I would highly recommend adoption. A 14 year old cannot raise two children even if they do have help from their boyfriend. Children cost money, they take time, they need health care, dental care, etc. 14 year olds just do not have the time, money, and knowledge to give a child a good home. So in my opinion, adoption would probably be the only way you could give your babies what they actually need and deserve. Some parents actually decide to adopt their grandchildren when their teen gets pregnant, so that's always a possibility too.

In the future, if you're having intercourse make sure you're using protection. If you don't know about protection or how to use it, then you're not ready for intercourse.

first of all im not given the baby up how dare you even say that your advice SUCKED

Helpasap, please do not attack people who are trying to help you. The above poster was giving you options to think about.

You need to sit down with your parents and just tell them. They will stand by you, you are their child. They will be mad and hurt at first, but they will come around. What's done is done, and everyone needs to band together to raise your children. Yes, you are young, but I'm pretty sure your parents will want to help you raise your twins. They won't want two grandchildren out in the world that they don't know.

One thing I would suggest, and please don't try to attack me for this, but I would suggest you not be jumping from guy to guy at your age. You said your boyfriend left you, and you have a new guy. The last thing I would be thinking about at this point are more guys. Your unborn children need your total focus. Get to the doctor, get some vitamins, and get your family rallying around you. Good luck.

P.S. I'm assuming since you haven't spoken to your parents, and you are just 14, that you probably haven't been to a doctor. If thats the case, how do you know you are having twins??

helpasap>your comment was VERY rude. You came here for advice, so you need to be open to whatever comes! It was her opinion...and it doesnt mean you have to listen to it!
Shes right on her last comment. If your old enough to have sex...then you should be old enough to know what protection is. That is the first step to being responsible! Next step would be to tell your parents as hard as that may be. At your age...I really dont think you are going to get through this without them! The sooner the better...then you can all decide what to do from there.

I think you need to tell your parents.

this is for the texaskimmie okay whatever to u!! I dont agree with giveing up sum thing that I help created!! im not attacking anone I just idint like her advice and you dont have to tell me what to do or what not to do!!and I having been staying with my cousin and her mom has takin me to da doctors!! by the way I can go to any guy that I can go to
!! you dont have to tell me to stop worring about guys when evry baby needs a father no matter if its not its biologically father or not!!1

This is fo0r Angelfire2708-I dont think my comment was rude at all it was MY OPINION.. be open to it!! My boyfriend said nothing goes up there but HIM.. amd an occasion tampon!! And maybe I wanted to get pregnant just not tell my parents

omg! these people are trying to help you! you were the one asking for their advice! are you hormonal or sumthing! its your fault your pregnent. and you obviously need help. you havent told your parents. the people who you should trust the most in the world. you need to tell them. and if you've seen a doctor, a responsible doctor would have told your parents whether you liked it or not. and if your pregnency hasnt shown yet, what will you do when the babies are born and you still havent told them. so, for the sake of your children talk to your parents, theyve done this before and WILL help.

okay every one need's to chill out if she not want to give up her babie then she dont hve to , and why would ya'll tell her to!!

thank you preah I agree with you so much at least some one understands

ok, so maybe I was harsh. since your living with your aunt, I guess you dont NEED to tell your rents. but you should tell them because you want to. imagine how they'd feel when they find out they were grandparents and werent there to experience that with you. they'd b heart broken.

okay so your 24 right? your pareants have asay so over you until the day you turn 18 or move out completely which ever comes first. not saying am a saint I've done things not to great ut come on your 14 an talking bout keeping the kids(not that its a bad thing) but if your on here pickin fights with everyone you asked for help then your not ready for a child or two. you say your aunt is doing everything then what are you to do when it ALL up to you to take care of the twins. and as for this new cat thats supose to be helping you take care of them even if there not his, how old is he? what does he know bout kids? and having a lil sister or brother doesn't even count!! trust me nothing will prepare you for the full time parenting unless your parents are there to help you along the way. I mean at 14 your not even old enough to get a job so where is the money coming from, go a head and say your aunt but soon enough it will be all on u. just know krama has a way of getting you in the A** tell your parents because you want to because you want your kids to know there grandparents, waitting this long will only make it worse. I dont take to kind to smart remarks from child espeacially one who asked for help

ok first of all you were way to young to even be doing those kinds of things. now you have to take care of your kids when you could be having fun with you friends! WAY TO YOUNG!

how have your parents not noticed? your 6 months pregnant wit twins?!?!?! do your parents live under a rock?!?! hun I dont think you need to tell them lol THEY KNOW

YOU GUY'S lay off she dosent want to give her baby's up!! I know she cant be too picky about the advice but it's natural to take offenc to that!

noe I never c them so they dont know and for the ones saying to give it up drop that im not going to!! by the way my parents are gong to take it hard so ill let the guy who got me pregnant tell them not me!!1111

How the hell don't your parents notice you're 6 months pregnant with twins?

hey,
im probably a little late but here's my advice: I think you should tell your parents.
your baby needs the correct nutrion and as its mother you'll want to give it to it. although it is still unborn your baby must have certain things, and not all of these things are accesible to you. if you are not able to talk to your parents talk to a trusted adult friend that can help you or a friend's parent you can trust.

although you may not want to think of it . adoption is a choice. you may not be able to take care of the baby and as its mother you want to do whats best for your baby. BUT IT IS YOUR CHOICE ALONE!!

good luck,
miss7604

stupid, so so stupid. come on thats not his place and you said he left you and some other guy suspose to be helpin you keep the other guy out of it. but I give up you asked for help them dogged us all out. so do what ever the hell you want it's not going to be easy so get help where you cn and take nothing for granted!

Everyone leave her alone!
she can do what she likes.
I've had S e x and im 13!
we chose what we like ..
were not babyies anymore.
Good luck with your twins Babe xx :D