13 year old having sex with 17 year old?

is that bad???

he told me the next time he sees me he's going to have sex with me or hit me if I don't. I want to do whatever he wants to be a good girlfrinds. will it hurt???

Wow,
You need to get out of the relationship right now before you get injured. He sounds like a pathetic scum bag.

Well if hes going to hit you if you dont have sex with him, find someone else to be with. Your setting yourself up for a bad relationship.
But if its your first time, then it may hurt. But please promise that you wont have sex with him, just because he wants it. You have to want to have sex, and you also have to be ready.

DONT DO IT.
Tell an adult you trust, this is just a bad situation, not to mention illegal.
He isnt worth your time if he forces you to do anything or threatens/abuses you.

Dont do it you need to tell an adult before you get hurt forcing you to have sex is called rape and he can get into so much trouble for that! Dont give urself up because of some stupid boy!

You want to be a good girlfriend? How about wanting a good boyfriend? NOBODY should ever make you do something you dont want to do!!! That is called rape. You need to tell an adult. Someone you trust!

Never give up yourself for a relationship.

Never dismiss or ignore inappropriate, indecent, or abusive behavior in a partner.

Never base your self worth on a man's opinion of you.

A good man will bring out the best in you. He will support you, care for you, honor and respect you.

A good man will appreciate your unique talents, abilities, and gifts. He will never try to make you into someone you are not.

He will not force you to do what is unhealthy or harmful. He will not demand you behave in ways foreign to your nature. He will not ridicule, condemn, or denigrate you.
A good man will never try to silence you or dismiss you.

You do not need an unhealthy relationship. You do not need a life of degradation and emotional heartache.

Find yourself. Honor who you are. Know you are of value to this world.

*Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.*

Hun, go tell your parents. It does not make you any less good as a girlfriend if you dont have sex with him. This is not a good situation and should be handled with drastic measures. Hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me. ~kaitlyn~

This is not a good relationship, it's abusive. If he's threatening to hit you because you won't have sex with him, ditch him. He doesn't care about you nor does he respect you, he's probably just wanting to have a quick lay and then dump you himself. Talk to your parents if you don't feel comfortable telling him no. FunMail me if you want more advice.

dont do it if he threatens U!!! and if you don't want to "do" it that is considered rape... that isnt a good boyfriend if he says stuff like that