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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.

babybump's questions
Im thinking of going to see my GP to help me lose weight, no matter howmuch excercise I do or if I eat sensible I still have a little belly on me!! I never had this before my son and believe me it is fat! I can just about squeeze into a ten, how will ...
Can Anyone tell me how to set a ringtone on my iphone ? so its not a tune from the phone its a song of my choice that I downloaded onto my iphone??
Does anyone know how to download the Facebook application onto my Iphone?? So instead of going onto the internet on my Iphone then onto facebook theres a application on my Menu? :) It is possible because my friend used to have it but she cant remember ...
My son is 2months as most of you know, im thinking about having his left ear pierced, just a tiny diamond stud nothing huge, tacky or chavvy, personally I think it will look really cute. What do you guys think?
My baby father is trying to get full custody of my 22day old son =[ Claiming I am an ''unfit mother'' when I really do try my hardest and breaks my heart to hear him say it because I havent ate for 4Days putting all my money towards feeding my son an...
On the 13/10/2008 one of my close mates died he got knocked off his moped at the young age of 17 and died a hour later :(, im missing him soo much already its only the 3rd day today! :( Yesterday I had a better day with my friend and had a laugh. Is ...
Four days ago, me my two friends and my son was involved in a very bad car crash, we swerved a car head on, went through a fence and into a 8ft deep canal with the car landing on its roof, we are all very lucky to be here today and for all of us to jus...
so my son is 3months old and when im in the bath I put his carseat/ little chair in the bathroom so he can still see me and hear my voice, and is fine, my sister said the other day I shouldnt do that as it might affect him when hes older and shouldnt e...
Right so, since I had told my mum I was pregnant her and the rest of the family have fell out with me and apart from my sister none of them have ever seen my son or even called to check up on me or him, anyway, my dad is coming round to my flat at the...
My nana is unfortunatly dying =[ , shes in hospital at the moment under alsorts of medication, I know she hasnt got long left =[, The other day however upsetting it was, she asked me to sing at her funeral one last time, I used to sing all the time, do...
I'm having a tatto on my right wrist on saturday =]. I've already have my sons name on my lower back with his date of birth underneath, im not sure what to have on my wrist? maybe a little butterfly or something? what do you guys have? Have you seen an...
My son is now 2months old. Isit normal for him to still wake up for his night time feed? Or should he be sleeping through untill the morning by now? Ill talk to my health visitor when I next see her, I was just curious??
Well one of my close friends got put on Tag in may for a very serious offence he is on it for 6months, he is also doing community service 3days a week, Youth offending everyday 9-12am. He has breached his order 3times by not being home by 10pm. He wa...
My bestfriend is pregnant and she has only just found out, she is 11 weeks pregnant. She doesnt want to keep her little one as she has just made a big break in her Dancing and doesnt feel it's the right time. I know shes not too late for an abortion, b...
I'm going to this really posh hotel for an overnight stay on friday as it is my Son's Godfathers ,Sisters wedding,, Confused? Me too haha.. Well anyway im really close with him and his family so me and my son have been invited to go and stay over at th...
Well heres the thing, since I told my mum I was pregnant, like 2 days before I was due to give birth..none of my family apart from my sister want anything to do with me they wont answer the phones etc, so 2months on they still havent seen my little one...
Soo.. I have a Skin Type two.. Which basically means I have Sensitive Skin Typically fair to light brown hair, blue eyes, light to medium skin. I hate being pale skinned, when I used to Dance I always had Spray tans becuase the costumes were so revea...
Where can I get this song from does anybody know.. I can't seem to find it on youtube or limewire.. Delinquent ft kcat - I got u
My son is now nearly 2 months old, I have recently applied for a job etc just to see what the hours and money was like, they said the job is mine if I want it.. I would be working 21hours a week 8pm-2am. As a waitress. I really want to take this job ...
My breasts are REALLY sore, tender and aching =|. Why?? I'm not breastfeeding my son. Help please im worried.
I am calling my son Tyreace, What would be a good middle name for him??
My friends have somehow got the idea me and my babys godfather who is also my best friend.. are together =S. They are being really funny with me about it aswell but I dont want to change the way me and him are around each other just to keep them happ...
Does anybody of any good foundation that stays on without wearing off?? Im currently using a mousse foundation I think its rimmel, but it doesnt give off a very good natural effect, help?? Most creamed foundations dont work for me as they wear off.. ...
When I put my son to sleep I usually rock him and nurse him till he is asleep, I am thinking now he is getting that bit older would it be better to give him his bottle, wind him, then lay him down to get himself to sleep? And leave the monitor next t...
Ok so tomorrow I thought I would treat myself and take myself and my son swimming, my sister and my nephew was going to come along too, we was going to go swimming because I wana lose a bit of weight and would be fun for my 1year old nephew, but its...
I've left a post before about this and how my 'friend' lied about being pregnant / overdue etc. and she wasnt, I stood by her when no body else did becuase I told her id always be there for her, except now she has just tried 2 take me and a few other...
It is my birthday 2morow and I'll be leaving my 17day old son behind for a few hours, im really nervous about doing this.. do you think he is still way too young to be left? I do trust the guy who's looking after him as he is his godfather and will g...
This is going to sound REALLY dumb but you know im naturally blonde haha ... If I want the song without the lyrics what isit called so I can download it?? My friend is singing time to grow at the school leavers assembly ..Isit just called the tune??...
I am constantly awake in the night checking my baby is still breathing I get so paranoid when I cant hear him, so I check he is still breathing and sleep with the light on low so I can look over in his cot from my bed. Am I too paranoid??
How do I change my screen name on here because I dont have a baby bump anymore haha =] help please!?
So my great nanna is paying for my Tattoo so I can have my son's name, but where should I have it? I was thinking my hip? Its going to say ''Tyreace'' in italics ..Help please =] And yes I have thought about it before I get it done I wanted it a while ...
Do natural waves look ok and dressed up enough for a party? Its my friends 18th and not sure if they do or not or whether just to curl my hair or leave it straight. I'll be wearing a cocktail dress as it is a cocktail party.
Just lately I've been feeling really weird.. it isnt all the time but all of a sudden I feel really spaced out and dizzy I feel faint and sometimes my eyes black out so I cant see anything and I feel like im spinning.. then a few minutes later im fine....
I'm fairly pale but I do tan in the sun and go fairly brown, so my skin isnt that fair, im starting to go on the sunbeds to get a basetan and a little brown before my holidays in 16days =D How many minutes a week do you think I should do? I was thinkin...
I am going to Cyprus in 16 days and taking my Son with me he will be 1month, obviously I will keep him in the shade and keep him topped up in cream and Hydrated but how often should I apply suncream and what factor? Thanks
Recently my friend lied to me about being pregnant, she didnt just lie about it pretending she thought she was though, she carried it on for 9 months =| She even said she was overdue etc etc. She has lost EVERYONE nobody wants to know her now I think...
How should I have my hair for when I go out 2morrow nightt?? Its quite long, down my back... I dont just want it straight... Ideas pleasee
It is my 16th on Saturday and I am going out with my friends for a few hours for something to eat and a little to drink.. I still have to be careful of what I am wearing as I still have baby flab on my belly from my son. What should I wear but I want ...
This one is for the mums!! I've just had my little boy, I want to lose a little bit of weight across my belly which is the only place I gained, how should I go about this as I dont really have the time of day!!
I am 15 and Due to give birth to my son in 2days... I am terrified about giving birth. I will have no one there at the birth as my best friend is on holiday too! =[ Advice please
There is around 40 of us teens that are always 2getha you cant part us! We are like one big family we can talk 2 each other about anything even girls to the boys! There is one that I always rely on ( I go 2 him if I dont want 2 cry and if I do then my ...
my selfish mum left my brand new pushchair out in the rain last night claiming she forgot 2 bring it back in after she tidyed up, it was worth £400 and worked so hard to afford it and save up,she is very selfish as im only 15 I have no other money an...
I need an outfit for a wedding 2moro! I completly forget .. What should I wear as I dont want my baby bump 2 show too much? I am also 2days overdue so its bad enough im going haha! Help please
Over due and Fed up!! Now what!? what can I do in these few days to keep me occupied? that doesnt take too much effort beause I havent much energy!!!
Im 15 years old and I'm 9months pregnant. I only have 3Days left! The only thing is.. my mum doesnt know! I dont know how to tell her as she will go mad! HELP PLEASE! As my Son could arrive at any time now as his head is fully engaged!! Helpp