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I'm a happily married mother of 3 (my hubby is the user 'thecowgod'). I work as a Chef/ Pastry Chef and I write in my spare time.
My religion is Buddhist, my political preference is apathetic.
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I really like the movie Step Up. It was a wonderful movie. I was so glued onto the movie. It really excellent. Has anybody went to see the movie yet.It was so awesome. The dances on the movie was awesome. Did anybody else watch Step Up? It is such awes...
Wwe raw was so good tonight. I was so thrilled of the way it was. I can't believe how mad Edge was for losing the championship tonight. I am glad that he is mad. He didn't deserve it for anything. If anyone thinks that I am right about this let me know...
I have been losing weight. I now weigh 188 pounds right now. I have been eating right and exercising mostly. I do watch out what I eat. I have been eating some sugar free food. But I am not a diabetic. But that is helping me anyways since I have been...
There is a guy that I like. But I know that we are just friends. I have been talking to him on myspace. He doesn't have a girlfriend now. I don't have a boyfriend. He is 25 years old and I am 31 years old. We are only six years apart in age. Would th...
I don't know what to do anymore. Jeff is too busy for me now. He works a lot and he has college and has three hours on the internet. He says that he does loves me. But I can't go on like this.This doesn't look like a relationship with him anymore. Wher...
Should I tell Jeff how I feel about him. Knowing how much I am so much in love with him. I do want to be honest. I do want to do the right thing here. Should I tell him how I feel. I want to feel if it is the right thing to do. I don't want to make a b...
I have been writing my own poems. But I have want them published now. But how I do that. What would be safe to publish poems. What would be the right company to publish my poems? I just want to know and how. I am just wondering what companies that I co...
If there is anyone out there like wrestling and watched it last night. Vince and Shane McMahon is so unbelievable. Why are they being like jerks. Seems like they are taking it so seriously. Why do those fake cops have to be on there like they are prete...
I don't know what to do. I am so much into this guy. His name is Ken. But I do have feelings for him all this time. I am missing him so much right now just for two weeks. But I don't know if he does feel for me that way or not. But we do click so much....
I don't what to do anymore. I am so trapped. Whenever I get a two weeks vacation, my vacation always has to be Oklahoma. But I don't want to go. I don't want to hear alot of complaining like I did the last time. Last year I did say this is the last tim...
I do have a boyfriend to love. But there is another guy that I have been into now. It is crazy. I am going insane. My boyfriend's name is Jace. The guy that I am really really into now is Bryan. I don't know why. Bryan is having a divorce from his wife...
I am clouding my own judgement. I don't know what to do anymore. I know that I do have a life that I should enjoy. But being between two guys is so being whacked up. I can't do this anymore. I love Jeff way to much. I have Jeff in my heart so much more...
I do love Jeff alot. Jeff is the one that I want to be with. But I am wondering would age matter. There are people out there saying that I am too old for Jeff. I think that is way to stupid. Age difference is age difference. Someone please help on this...
I don't know why I feel this way for. I have been waiting for Donnie for all of my life. I keep saying over and over that he is the one. I have been talking to someone on the phone anyways. This friend said to me that I am afraid to ask Donnie out. I d...
I knew what you said before. But how can I put this situation on the side. I hardly ever see my cousin Laura as much. What should I do about that. There will always be talk. I can't go to the next room to not hear it. I will keep hearing it anyways. Be...
I do have a cousin named Laura. But I don't like what she is doing to herself. Me and my family wants to have back in church. But she won't do it. I know she has her own life. Because of work and her friends and dating. But what I am saying my family a...
I can't stand how my parents bother me when I am sleeping. Mom asked me if I was going to be out of the house and tells me to my close down. Stupid enough to bother when I was a sleep. My dad comes in telling me that it is going to be bad weather and a...
I have been watching Grey's Anatomy around 8:00 every Thursday night and also been watching tna wrestling around 10:00 every Thursday night. Which the time for tna wrestling is on around 8:00 now which that is the time for Grey's Anatomy. When I watch ...
Fun advice thinks I am male. I am not male. I am a woman. What am I going to do. This is such a dilemma for me. What am I susposed to do? I thought I could for signup again to where I could change that to female. But I can't . What can I do? I am not a...
I really do like this guy so much. We are so attracted to each other. He is only 23 years old and I am only 28 years old. But some people think that I am to old for him. Honestly We are only 5 or 6 years apart in age. I do really want him a lot. I hope...
America has talent is a great show. It really has a lot of great acts. I was watching it last night. It was so good. I really liked that guy because of what he did with that napkin. All he did was cutting it and put it in a glass of water and then thre...
Has anyone out there been watching The One. People living together competing against each other knowing who would get the dream of their own life. It has been on Abc. It has been cancelled. I love that show. Only had four more episodes to go and took i...
When will be the right time to kiss Jeff. I really want it so romantic and make it so right. But what would be the right place and time to kiss Jeff. I don't want to go all the way. I don't want the sex with him yet. I want to take it slow. I really wa...
I don't know what to think of my sister. I want my sister to be with a good guy. I don't want to see her hurt by a guy again. She had been with a guy named Dewanye. But they were so good together. But something happen. Dewanye was like out in about lik...
I don't know if I should tell anyone. I have a good friend named Rocky. But he is going with my best friend Amy right now. But he said that he really liked me so much. He said that he would want to go out with me. But my sister and my mom likes Rocky. ...
I was wondering about this one. Is Jeff and I making each other jealous because of two different relationships that we are in? I would like to know that. Does he have the feelings for me still and don't want the other girl. I am trying to get my facts ...
Am I still in love with Jeff just because of the way I feel. He has that girl that he is dating. I just don't think that they will be dating long. Because the way I am feeling and the feelings that I am thinking that she might do. I don't want to keep ...
What should I do with my life? I do want to move on so much away from Jeff. I hardly see Jeff alot. I know that I don't want to see Jeff hurt because the feelings I am having that his girlfriend might do. I don't want to keep going on with this. I do r...
I am trying to move on. I know it will take time to move on from Jeff. But it is so hard. Because it feels like that I have been dumped by him for another woman. But I don't think that relationship would work. Because he works a lot. I loved Jeff with ...
What in the world can I do? I don't see Jeff to able to talk to him. How can I tell him the way I feel? The only way we talk to each other is through people that we know. That is what is so hard. So what can I do about this. This breaks my heart. Seems...
I love Jeff so much. I do want to be with Jeff. He is the one I want to be with so bad. But why would I be caught up into Bradley? That is way to tremendous to me. I don't know why I keep thinking of this over and over in my mind. I don't need that. Wh...
What can I do for my cat. He is diabetic. We did have problems of him peeing on the floor. But what can we do about that. My cat goes into my bathroom peeing on the floor. But we have been keeping the door shut from my bathroom to where he can't go in ...
Jeff is the one I love. I feel so deeply in love with Jeff. At first I didn't know what to do. I just felt like something that really hit me in the stomach. Why would I have Bradley on my mind since I really do love Jeff so much.What else should I do? ...
I know that I am so totally into Jeff. But how can I get Bradley out of the way of all this. I do want Jeff. How can I go far in a relationship with Jeff. Because I hardly see Jeff as much as I use to. But I miss him way to much. Maybe that is why I go...
I do not know what to do. I like two guys now. I do like Jeff Morton way too much to let him down. I just recently met a guy in Searcy. His name is Bradley. He told me that he lives in Jonesboro. We introduced each other and then we got into talking mo...
I don't want to do still. I am so confused about liking two guys at the same time. I know that I just met Bradley for not to long. He does live in Jonesboro. I have been so in love with Jeff since last year. I have known Jeff Morton longer than Bradley...
Why would age matter? I have a guy that I do love a lot. His name is Jeff Morton. I do love him so much. I don't know what to do. Matowng said that I have a crush on him. I know it is not a crush. It is love. I love him. I love him alot. He is the one ...
I am so much in love with Jeff. Jeff and I are so much into each other so much. I do love him alot. He means so much to me. I do care about him alot to. I get to see him sometimes. But I hardly see him as much as I use to. I still want to go on with my...
I do really love Jeff a lot. I do want to stay with Jeff. But how do I tell my mother the truth about Jeff and I. All she would say to me that there is no Jeff and I. But I know there is a me and Jeff alright. But how do I tell my mom. It is so hard. I...
I am only doing this for a friend. She is the one that is having a problem. She did have a boyfriend named Jason Tippit. But they are not together anymore. Because she found out he is with a another girl. But I did give my best friend Kristi good advic...
I am so much in love with Jeff. I really want to be with Jeff. He is only 23 years old and I am only 29 years old. We are only 6 years apart in age. That is not a lot to me. I think that is just a little. But Mactowng and 08Mafia don't agree with that....
I do love Jeff so much. My sister can't stand it. She told me to stop writing down Jeff's name. I was only thinking about him over Thanksgiving. She had me so upset. Because how I really feel about Jeff so much. I am being so honest. I didn't know how ...
I have been wondering about this a lot lately. I don't want to put Jeff on the spot like this. I have always been a good vibrant woman. I know to save sex before marriage. I didn't want to say this to anybody in my family. What if Jeff and I want to h...
I do want to make my move on Jeff. But how can I do that. I do want it special and romantic like. But how do I make it right. He really likes me a lot and I do really like him a lot. I really do love him.I really don't want to push him having sex with ...
What would be a good time to kiss Jeff? I want to be sure that doing the right thing. I don't want to have sex with him right now. I do want to take it slow. I really want it so romantic. What would be a good romantic spot? Forget all about the other o...
I can't help how much more in love that I am in with Jeff. I have a feeling that it is going to happen.I just have a good feeling of it. I was at the bowling alley in Walnut Ridge,Arkansas. Jeff and I are really close. Which that Jeff and I were sittin...
I do have feelings for Jeff so much.But should I go ahead to tell my my feelings to Jeff now.I really do want to be honest.But I do hope I am doing the right thing.How do I let him know how to tell my feelings to him. Should Jeff and I kiss to find out...
I am so much deep in love with Jeff. Jeff and I have all of these feelings for each other. Yesterday we eyed each other and it looked like that he really wanted to kiss me. But Kim is so jealous of Jeff and I. I am wondering why is Kim so jealous of Je...
Jeff and I really do want each other a lot.We always think about each other and talk about each other so much. Would that be love. I want to be sure if it is love.I do want Jeff so much. Jeff wants me so much. We really do have so much feelings for eac...
I am so much in love with Jeff.How should I let Jeff know how much that I do love him so much?He means so much to me.We really have so much chemistry for each other.This is love isn't it. I do think about him a lot and dream about him a lot. I do miss ...