Has anyone been to Nigeria before?(100.00%)
I've never been to Nigeria but since no one answered your question I thought I'd just give you some advice about how to find out more about Nigeria. There are many good websites like wikipedia (for a general overview) or lonelyplanet (for travel advice...
Terrified to travel
Try reading about your destination and buying a guide book like Lonely Planet. This will help you be better prepared to get around once you are there and it will also get you excited about getting there. I've flown a million times and I still remember ...
Is smoking a turn off?
I think it really depends if the person is a smoker or not. When I used to smoke I appreciated being able to share my addiction and not get lectured about it. But now that I'm smoke free, I would never want to kiss or be with a guy that smokes. So for ...
Is it ok to experiment?(100.00%)
There is a risk of getting an STD through oral sex. This is true whether the person receiving is female or male. You could therefore transmit it to another partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting but you should try to be safe. So ...
Need a orgasm and can't have one
You just need to learn more about your body and discover how it works. Don't be shy to look at yourself in the mirror, try new things and mostly take your time! Here is an excellent site to learn more about female sexuality:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/
How to put a tampon in?
Only the string should stick out and good news, being in water stops the bleeding! until you get out that is...
Do I have an eating disorder?
Listen to your friends. They care and they want to help you. Even if you aren't sure, consult a doctor just to be sure.
Trying to get pregnant and nothings working(100.00%)
First of all, don't get down, you're just starting to have fun! Seriously, you have to make this fun if not what's the point? You'll just stress the hell out of yourself and your poor fiancé. Stop the pressure girl and learn to relax!
So, if you were ...
ladies, how long should sex last?
Everyone is different and has different tastes. Every woman is different and have different desires. So there is absolutely no set rules to sex! That's why it's so important to communicate with your partner, ask them what they like and try different st...
Should I be worried?
If he came close to your vaginal opening then you could be pregnant. You should buy a test at the pharmacy to find out.
Serious Car Accident
Tell him what comes from your heart. The last thing he needs is for you to make something up or pretend to be soemthing your not. You can say: I don't know what to say" but mostly say " I care and I'm here for you"
How to deal with my ex and father of my children?
Well most relationships go through a phase where you do hate the person you love because let's face it, it sucks to be hurting! I'm not saying it's your fault or his fault, it's nobodies fault. It didn't work out that's all but going from being your bo...
My best friends boyfriend flirts with me
You got to learn to put your foot down and tell him to stop. Don't answer to his flirting anymore or you will confuse him and lead him on. Just be honest and tell him "Ok that's enough with the flirting because seriously I love my best friend to death ...
A few questions for women.
I had a good friend who was a bit like you. He always was having a hard time hooking up with girls even though he was the greatest guy on earth. I found that the problem was he intimidated women because he was really intelligent, sensitive and honest. ...
Can I get pregnant from anal?
If sperm went into or close to the opening of the vagina then there is a chance that you could get pregnant.
I need girls who have experence in pleasuring themselves
Most girls find playing with their clitoris gives them an orgasm and some need to have vaginal penetration to orgasm. The little hood, button at the top of your vagina is indeed your clitoris.You can try rubbing it or running warm water on it. Trying ...
Toonces had Leukemia(100.00%)
Hi Carol. I'm sending you a big cyber hug to make you feel better. I know how hard it is to let go of a good friend. I'll be thinking of you and sending you good vibes to help you cry for Toonces but also remember how he made you laugh and feel good. ...
Should my dog be put to sleep?
We feel for you. You are doing the best for Him. Be Brave. Cry and grieve but try to remember him happy. And this might sound premature but adopting another dog can really help you get over your grief.
How do I ask a girl out?
The best way is to walk up to her when she isn't too busy or in a hurry and casually ask her if she wants to go out with you. Yeah, no real secret to it. Try to invite her to something fun or different. I know its terrifying but it's the only way to ge...
Why would I be late?
I know it takes a bit of courage to take the test but eventually you'll have to find out one way or another! The fact that you were extra careful means that the chances a really low. Best thing is to get the doubt out of your mind that way you can move...
Thinning hair and weak bones, what's wrong with me?
Hi Iss890!
Don't be nervous about the doctor, it's all good. The doc there to help you feel less tired and make sure you're feeling ok. First things first, get that calory intake up and put some fuel into your body. Then sleep more. Last but not least...
Can you kill termites without chemicals?
yes you can. there are many methods to kill termites without chemicals but most of them are used I organic farming. If you break their mounds and remove the queen, it will help reduce the damage and be quite efficient in killing the colony. You can als...
Am I pregnant?
The fact that you tested negative and are having menstrual symptoms could indicate that you are not pregnant. However, you should continue having protected sex and wait until your next period to be sure. Normally, women do not have pregnancy symptoms (...
Should my dog be put to sleep?(100.00%)
I've been through similar situations with my pets and I know how hard it is. The thing is you have to be strong right now for Dozer and try to do your best to think of him first. If he is in great pain and not doing good at all, then you have to help h...
Why would I be late?
The fact that you are very worried about not having your period, getting "fat", being pregnant and that you are "scared to death" about labor pains could be considered "stressful". This is why my advise to you is to find out first if you are really pre...
Why would I be late?
You could be late from stress or a hormonal imbalance. You normally will not be showing signs of pregnancy during your first month. Before freaking out, find out if you are pregnant and then talk about it to a doctor.
Anarchy anyone?
Anarchy is a big scary word that people think means all loss of reason and utter chaos. But it's actually a philosophy with many interesting philosophers at that!
I think that if one understands anarchy, it actually empowers people and frees them fro...
Why is abortion bad and war isn't?
Dear Anna,
I know how you feel because I've felt exactly the same way. My advice is to learn that as much torment and suffering that may be in this world, there is also goodness and happiness. The news only shows you the bad stuff and forgets to sho...
People mistake my friendliness with flirting
There is nothing wrong with being friendly. However if you make sexual remarks or jokes, sit on your guy friends and tell them how cute they are then people might consider that flirting. Maybe you just need to tone it down a bit. Ask your guy friends w...
What is the best way to relieve stress from liking someone?
Hi biggi!
Start by talking about with a good friend or someone you trust. Sometimes just havig someone listen to us and help us feel better can really do the job. Also try to do stuff that makes you happy. Spend some extra time with your friends or do...
What should I tell her?
first question:
Be straight with her and tell her the truth. She's your friend and she deserves to know first. Of course she'll be sad but she's got other options right?
second question:
ignore ignore ignore. Don't even give him the opportunity to g...
We like the same boy
Tell her the truth about your feelings. I think pretending and lying to her is worse the just telling her the truth. Confront the boy about his feelings for you and find out if he wants to be with you or not. meanwhile, you are both wasting your time o...
Well There's This Girl
If you liked her, you'd start talking to her and stop hiding behind smoke bombs. The fact that you don't know her that well makes you imagine someone that may not be up to your imagination. I think it infatuates you that she could like you and it make...
Will I grow to love him?
If give yourself time to get to know your current boyfriend you might discover that he is all you ever dreamed for in a guy or you might discover that you guys have nothing in common. So both possibilities can happen but you will only know in time.
Morning pains and pregnancy
Lower abdominal pains are not normal. It could be something else like an STD. You should go to the doctor as soon as possible.
He lied to me, he had sex with his ex girlfriend
Dear soniasum,
Before despairing and doing something irrational, you must find out what is the truth from your boyfriend. Is he with you to marry you or is he just using you? I think that now you must be strong and confront this situation in order to t...
Unplanned pregnancy
Dear Manju15,
Don't you think you are getting a bit ahead of yourself? My advice is stop having unprotected sex immediately and to get a pregnancy test at the pharmacy to see if the result comes out positive. Your menstruation could be late for a numb...
Is it love?
If you "think" you are in love BUT you are "not sure" then wait a bit before declaring your undying love and passion. You want to be sure before you tell someone that you love them. Also, if she has a boyfriend, she obviously is in love with him which ...
Should Nelson Mandela be on the USA terrorist list?
This situation makes me think of another ironic and ridiculous one:
Did you guys also hear about the Aljazeera Camera man that's finally been released after nearly 7 years in Guantanamo?
It makes me think of the irony of the situation because today ...
problem with america is, what do you think?(0.00%)
Your answer is ok but it didn't really cover everything that the other person said. I mean if you wanted to retort to every point and defend another point of view it wasn't a hundred percent successful. For example, I don't see what people being worrie...
Why am I not upset about her death?(100.00%)
People react all kinds of ways to death. Sometimes it depends how close you were to the person, sometimes you feel it is more of a relief since the person was so sick, other times you are just I shock and can't really believe that the other person is d...
zorbot's Advice page 7
I've never been to Nigeria but since no one answered your question I thought I'd just give you some advice about how to find out more about Nigeria. There are many good websites like wikipedia (for a general overview) or lonelyplanet (for travel advice...
Try reading about your destination and buying a guide book like Lonely Planet. This will help you be better prepared to get around once you are there and it will also get you excited about getting there. I've flown a million times and I still remember ...
I think it really depends if the person is a smoker or not. When I used to smoke I appreciated being able to share my addiction and not get lectured about it. But now that I'm smoke free, I would never want to kiss or be with a guy that smokes. So for ...
There is a risk of getting an STD through oral sex. This is true whether the person receiving is female or male. You could therefore transmit it to another partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting but you should try to be safe. So ...
You just need to learn more about your body and discover how it works. Don't be shy to look at yourself in the mirror, try new things and mostly take your time! Here is an excellent site to learn more about female sexuality: http://www.the-clitoris.com/
I really have no idea.
Only the string should stick out and good news, being in water stops the bleeding! until you get out that is...
Listen to your friends. They care and they want to help you. Even if you aren't sure, consult a doctor just to be sure.
First of all, don't get down, you're just starting to have fun! Seriously, you have to make this fun if not what's the point? You'll just stress the hell out of yourself and your poor fiancé. Stop the pressure girl and learn to relax! So, if you were ...
Everyone is different and has different tastes. Every woman is different and have different desires. So there is absolutely no set rules to sex! That's why it's so important to communicate with your partner, ask them what they like and try different st...
If he came close to your vaginal opening then you could be pregnant. You should buy a test at the pharmacy to find out.
Tell him what comes from your heart. The last thing he needs is for you to make something up or pretend to be soemthing your not. You can say: I don't know what to say" but mostly say " I care and I'm here for you"
Well most relationships go through a phase where you do hate the person you love because let's face it, it sucks to be hurting! I'm not saying it's your fault or his fault, it's nobodies fault. It didn't work out that's all but going from being your bo...
You got to learn to put your foot down and tell him to stop. Don't answer to his flirting anymore or you will confuse him and lead him on. Just be honest and tell him "Ok that's enough with the flirting because seriously I love my best friend to death ...
I had a good friend who was a bit like you. He always was having a hard time hooking up with girls even though he was the greatest guy on earth. I found that the problem was he intimidated women because he was really intelligent, sensitive and honest. ...
If sperm went into or close to the opening of the vagina then there is a chance that you could get pregnant.
Most girls find playing with their clitoris gives them an orgasm and some need to have vaginal penetration to orgasm. The little hood, button at the top of your vagina is indeed your clitoris.You can try rubbing it or running warm water on it. Trying ...
I agree with Editor.
IDEM
Hi Carol. I'm sending you a big cyber hug to make you feel better. I know how hard it is to let go of a good friend. I'll be thinking of you and sending you good vibes to help you cry for Toonces but also remember how he made you laugh and feel good. ...
We feel for you. You are doing the best for Him. Be Brave. Cry and grieve but try to remember him happy. And this might sound premature but adopting another dog can really help you get over your grief.
The best way is to walk up to her when she isn't too busy or in a hurry and casually ask her if she wants to go out with you. Yeah, no real secret to it. Try to invite her to something fun or different. I know its terrifying but it's the only way to ge...
I know it takes a bit of courage to take the test but eventually you'll have to find out one way or another! The fact that you were extra careful means that the chances a really low. Best thing is to get the doubt out of your mind that way you can move...
Hi Iss890! Don't be nervous about the doctor, it's all good. The doc there to help you feel less tired and make sure you're feeling ok. First things first, get that calory intake up and put some fuel into your body. Then sleep more. Last but not least...
yes you can. there are many methods to kill termites without chemicals but most of them are used I organic farming. If you break their mounds and remove the queen, it will help reduce the damage and be quite efficient in killing the colony. You can als...
The fact that you tested negative and are having menstrual symptoms could indicate that you are not pregnant. However, you should continue having protected sex and wait until your next period to be sure. Normally, women do not have pregnancy symptoms (...
I've been through similar situations with my pets and I know how hard it is. The thing is you have to be strong right now for Dozer and try to do your best to think of him first. If he is in great pain and not doing good at all, then you have to help h...
The fact that you are very worried about not having your period, getting "fat", being pregnant and that you are "scared to death" about labor pains could be considered "stressful". This is why my advise to you is to find out first if you are really pre...
don't put the dressing on right away. it keeps better without dressing.
You could be late from stress or a hormonal imbalance. You normally will not be showing signs of pregnancy during your first month. Before freaking out, find out if you are pregnant and then talk about it to a doctor.
Anarchy is a big scary word that people think means all loss of reason and utter chaos. But it's actually a philosophy with many interesting philosophers at that! I think that if one understands anarchy, it actually empowers people and frees them fro...
Dear Anna, I know how you feel because I've felt exactly the same way. My advice is to learn that as much torment and suffering that may be in this world, there is also goodness and happiness. The news only shows you the bad stuff and forgets to sho...
It depends on the guy! Some love curvy women some like then really thin. Most importantly is to love the one you got!
There is nothing wrong with being friendly. However if you make sexual remarks or jokes, sit on your guy friends and tell them how cute they are then people might consider that flirting. Maybe you just need to tone it down a bit. Ask your guy friends w...
Hi biggi! Start by talking about with a good friend or someone you trust. Sometimes just havig someone listen to us and help us feel better can really do the job. Also try to do stuff that makes you happy. Spend some extra time with your friends or do...
first question: Be straight with her and tell her the truth. She's your friend and she deserves to know first. Of course she'll be sad but she's got other options right? second question: ignore ignore ignore. Don't even give him the opportunity to g...
Tell her the truth about your feelings. I think pretending and lying to her is worse the just telling her the truth. Confront the boy about his feelings for you and find out if he wants to be with you or not. meanwhile, you are both wasting your time o...
If you liked her, you'd start talking to her and stop hiding behind smoke bombs. The fact that you don't know her that well makes you imagine someone that may not be up to your imagination. I think it infatuates you that she could like you and it make...
If give yourself time to get to know your current boyfriend you might discover that he is all you ever dreamed for in a guy or you might discover that you guys have nothing in common. So both possibilities can happen but you will only know in time.
Dear wellbbis, Everything is possible.
Lower abdominal pains are not normal. It could be something else like an STD. You should go to the doctor as soon as possible.
Dear soniasum, Before despairing and doing something irrational, you must find out what is the truth from your boyfriend. Is he with you to marry you or is he just using you? I think that now you must be strong and confront this situation in order to t...
Dear Manju15, Don't you think you are getting a bit ahead of yourself? My advice is stop having unprotected sex immediately and to get a pregnancy test at the pharmacy to see if the result comes out positive. Your menstruation could be late for a numb...
Yes. Keep using some type of birth control if you don't wish to get pregnant.
Nope.
If you "think" you are in love BUT you are "not sure" then wait a bit before declaring your undying love and passion. You want to be sure before you tell someone that you love them. Also, if she has a boyfriend, she obviously is in love with him which ...
That should be considered a hate crime.
This situation makes me think of another ironic and ridiculous one: Did you guys also hear about the Aljazeera Camera man that's finally been released after nearly 7 years in Guantanamo? It makes me think of the irony of the situation because today ...
Your answer is ok but it didn't really cover everything that the other person said. I mean if you wanted to retort to every point and defend another point of view it wasn't a hundred percent successful. For example, I don't see what people being worrie...
People react all kinds of ways to death. Sometimes it depends how close you were to the person, sometimes you feel it is more of a relief since the person was so sick, other times you are just I shock and can't really believe that the other person is d...