Running away
Yeah, I did once and it really sucked. I was cold, had no money, no food, nowhere to sleep. I was alone outside in the dark and realized that it was the stupidest idea ever. Man, was I glad to get home! Also, it really hurt my Mom and I still feel sorr...
My mum is overweight but does not want to lose weight (100.00%)
If she doesn't want to do anything about her weight it will be bit difficult to convince her but you can still try and encourage her. I think you have to find a way to tell (and convince) her how important it is to you without being insensitive or pus...
What should I do?
Well then gunner your are an extra lucky guy! You shouldn't worry about being a virgin or what she might say, you have a great girlfriend and you guys will do things together when you are ready. I think being happy and learning with someone about love,...
What happens after death?
No one really knows but people believe all sorts of things. Here are some things that some people believe:
1-Nothing happens. You die, your body decomposes. That's it. The end.
2-You go to heaven or hell. Simply put, this usually revolves believing i...
Period trouble
Most girls start their period between 8 and 15 years old. There is no right time to start your period since very girls body is different. This being said their are signs that it will start soon, usually two years after breast growth and it can be accom...
My leg really hurts bad
I'm not quite sure I understand your mothers reasoning. She could take you to a woman doctor if she is afraid of men. It sounds like you might have a strained muscle or worse. You really should go see a doctor, I would insist that her if not someone el...
She betrayed my trust
Well she probably didn't mean any harm in it but you should definitely tell her that she really hurt your feelings and that you feel betrayed. She was probably trying to help but she needs to learn that you need her to keep secrets not try to get you a...
Is it love?
I don't understand what "miss calls in front of his friends" means but either way my advice still stands. Ask a friend or family member to talk to him about "proposing" to you again. The best would be if you would start talking to him and get to know h...
Best positions for the first time?
Some girls prefer being on top the first time that way then can control the penetration better. Not everyone bleeds their first time so it's normal.
Finding a job
In a way your parents are doing you a favor by letting you become resourceful and independent on your own! Who says you need to drive a car to work? You can walk, cycle, skateboard or Rollerblade instead. Good thing you aren't dependent on the car beca...
Does he love me?
Is this the same guy that is "forcing" you to have sex? If it is, I wouldn't be so sure since you don't force people you love into doing things they don't want to do.
Otherwise, he's been around for 3 months, he certainly has feelings for you and if...
Am I a side chick to him?
Well the fact that you are the main girl in his life doesn't make you the side chick (he sees you everyday and her only once in a while). BUT the fact that he doesn't break up with her and tells her everything while not promising you anything makes him...
Threesome Problems
You shouldn't be forced to have sex with anyone you don't want to. Your boyfriend is being really insensitive, selfish and stupid about this. He needs a wake up call. You got to put your foot down and tell him to stop or you'll not being doing him eith...
Is he gone from my life forever?
Only time will tell if you guys will still want to be together in the long run. Still that doesn't mean you can't chat, talk and keep in contact with each other. Also, you can still visit each other every once in a while. You also don't need to break u...
Don't want my Dad to jump on me again
Talk about it with your Mom and other family members that you trust. Tell them you are scared and ask them for help. If your Dad is physically abusing you, you really need to tell people about it so they can help you.
Can you get pregnant from dry sex?
No, you can not get pregnant from dry sex with clothes on. You can only get pregnant if sperm gets in or close to your vagina. But if your friend is scared and doesn't feel comfortable about having dry sex then you should not pressure her into doing it.
Blood the first time?
Yes but not always. The bleeding is caused by a thin skin (the hymen)in the vagina that has been torn because of penetration. It can also have been torn prior to sex and therefore not bleed.
Do he think he will cheat on me
You shouldn't listen to people that put you down and make you worry. You trust your man than stand by him. If you need to be reassured then talk to him. Just because your ex-boyfriends cheated doesn't mean he will. Having your own apartment has nothing...
My girlfriend wants nothing to do with my parents
I agree with pinkpearl. This problem isn't going to go away and the longer you let it go on without addressing it the worse it will get. Just think if you guys have children, she might turn them against your parents! Your girlfriend has some really imp...
Could I be pregnant if I just started my birth control?
Read the packaging and booklet that come with your birth control. I should be specific as to when you can have unprotected sex. OR call the doctor who prescribe it to find out asap. Light spotting or light period can happen when you take the pill. Dizz...
How to get him to propose?
Ask a friend or family member to talk to him about you and see if he is interested. Tell this friend to suggest you as good person to marry. When you see him smile at him and try to show you like him. And if possible, try finding an excuse to talk to h...
What should I do?
What's the rush? If you haven't found the right girl then why do it? It's not some sort of competition! And who knows your friends might be lying because they are insecure about sex too. It's normal to be nervous about having sex for the first time and...
Is it ok to experiment?
There is more chance of getting an STD if you swallow your partners semen or cum.
Is my vagina odour normal?
It sounds like you are a hundred percent normal! Every woman has her own distinct smell and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are suppose to have your own smell!
Should I let him?
No definite no! He doesn't stop then just break up. Nobody should pressure anybody into doing something they don't want to do. He's being really immature and a jerk about it. Tell him if he doesn't stop you'll find someone who can actually respect your...
How to give someone a hickey?
I hate hickies. They are so ugly and look like a bruise. They are actually caused from a person sucking on another persons skin until their veins explode (just like a bruise, yuck). You should never ever give a hickie to someone unless they want one. A...
What is the answer?
He's juts trying to intimidate you and make you feel bad in other words he's being a first class jerk. You should be extra happy about ending your relationship with him since he is just proving to you that he didn't really love you (if you really love ...
My friend has a problem (her vagina smells bad)
It's normal for a vagina to have a smell that's distinct to each woman and can be more or less intense depending on wheither they are ovulating or not. Sometimes people are so obsessed with smelling "good" they think they smell bad when they just smell...
Cat Problems(100.00%)
Definitely change his food! I can't believe the vet didn't tell you this (was he counting on the money form the cortisone shots?).
He could have developed allergies to something in his food (compagnies sometimes change the ingredients without prior n...
The perfect guy vs criminal ex(100.00%)
Neither one sounds to be exactly what you are looking for. I think you need to get rid of both of them and find the real perfect guy. Start over again!
Juvi ex is bad news and will just keep on getting into trouble until he grows up. If he can stay ou...
Is it ok to experiment?
Oh and if you aren't going to use a condom then you should also avoid taking your partners fluids into your mouth! And you should always wash yourself before and after reducing the risk of infection. Hope this helps.
Is it ok to experiment?
If your partner is clean and so are you then there isn't much to worry about when giving or receiving oral sex (except of course if you have a cold sore then avoid oral sex since cold sores are caused by the herpes virus!). There is a risk if you or yo...
Help in wedding night
Most men are just as nervous as woman on the wedding night. I suggest you talk to your new husband before having sex and ask him to take his time, be soft and careful.
If you are a virgin, you should try to relax and take lots of time for touching an...
Has this ever happened to anyone?
Maybe since you you played such an important role in his life (protecting him by pretending to be his girlfriend) he also wishes he could have done the same for you (by being your first and showing you everything). BUT I don't think it's right for him ...
A few questions for women.
I forgot to say that my friend was and is a real hit now that he's a bit older...I bet you'll be too!
Reduce, reuse, recycle...
I think your question is really important AND extremely difficult to answer. As far as I can see noone has really answered the HOW TO part of it. How do you convince a "toss away Society" to re-use and reduce? The problem is in the structure and the mi...
Still no sex
Is he hard enough? He should be really excited that way he will be hard enough to go in if not the penis just bends and it's difficult to get it in. Also more foreplay is always good!
Breaking up, does this mean he still likes you?
He's hurting, which means he cares but he's angry because he's hurting and your his punching bag. I think it's abusive and you shouldn't be with someone who can't respect you.
I need help, he is forcing me into sex
If your boyfriend is forcing you to have sex against your will then this would be considered rape. You should tell your parents and contact the police. Rape or forcing someone to have sex is against the law.
Pregnant and need help telling my parents.
My first advice is find out for sure before giving yourself so much grief! If they do confirm your pregnancy tomorrow then ask them if you can talk to someone at the health office. They should have a nurse or someone that can give you advice and option...
Has anyone been to Nigeria before?(100.00%)
I've never been to Nigeria but since no one answered your question I thought I'd just give you some advice about how to find out more about Nigeria. There are many good websites like wikipedia (for a general overview) or lonelyplanet (for travel advice...
Terrified to travel
Try reading about your destination and buying a guide book like Lonely Planet. This will help you be better prepared to get around once you are there and it will also get you excited about getting there. I've flown a million times and I still remember ...
Is smoking a turn off?
I think it really depends if the person is a smoker or not. When I used to smoke I appreciated being able to share my addiction and not get lectured about it. But now that I'm smoke free, I would never want to kiss or be with a guy that smokes. So for ...
Is it ok to experiment?(100.00%)
There is a risk of getting an STD through oral sex. This is true whether the person receiving is female or male. You could therefore transmit it to another partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting but you should try to be safe. So ...
Need a orgasm and can't have one
You just need to learn more about your body and discover how it works. Don't be shy to look at yourself in the mirror, try new things and mostly take your time! Here is an excellent site to learn more about female sexuality:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/
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Yeah, I did once and it really sucked. I was cold, had no money, no food, nowhere to sleep. I was alone outside in the dark and realized that it was the stupidest idea ever. Man, was I glad to get home! Also, it really hurt my Mom and I still feel sorr...
If she doesn't want to do anything about her weight it will be bit difficult to convince her but you can still try and encourage her. I think you have to find a way to tell (and convince) her how important it is to you without being insensitive or pus...
Well then gunner your are an extra lucky guy! You shouldn't worry about being a virgin or what she might say, you have a great girlfriend and you guys will do things together when you are ready. I think being happy and learning with someone about love,...
No one really knows but people believe all sorts of things. Here are some things that some people believe: 1-Nothing happens. You die, your body decomposes. That's it. The end. 2-You go to heaven or hell. Simply put, this usually revolves believing i...
Most girls start their period between 8 and 15 years old. There is no right time to start your period since very girls body is different. This being said their are signs that it will start soon, usually two years after breast growth and it can be accom...
I'm not quite sure I understand your mothers reasoning. She could take you to a woman doctor if she is afraid of men. It sounds like you might have a strained muscle or worse. You really should go see a doctor, I would insist that her if not someone el...
Well she probably didn't mean any harm in it but you should definitely tell her that she really hurt your feelings and that you feel betrayed. She was probably trying to help but she needs to learn that you need her to keep secrets not try to get you a...
I don't understand what "miss calls in front of his friends" means but either way my advice still stands. Ask a friend or family member to talk to him about "proposing" to you again. The best would be if you would start talking to him and get to know h...
Some girls prefer being on top the first time that way then can control the penetration better. Not everyone bleeds their first time so it's normal.
In a way your parents are doing you a favor by letting you become resourceful and independent on your own! Who says you need to drive a car to work? You can walk, cycle, skateboard or Rollerblade instead. Good thing you aren't dependent on the car beca...
Is this the same guy that is "forcing" you to have sex? If it is, I wouldn't be so sure since you don't force people you love into doing things they don't want to do. Otherwise, he's been around for 3 months, he certainly has feelings for you and if...
Well the fact that you are the main girl in his life doesn't make you the side chick (he sees you everyday and her only once in a while). BUT the fact that he doesn't break up with her and tells her everything while not promising you anything makes him...
You shouldn't be forced to have sex with anyone you don't want to. Your boyfriend is being really insensitive, selfish and stupid about this. He needs a wake up call. You got to put your foot down and tell him to stop or you'll not being doing him eith...
Only time will tell if you guys will still want to be together in the long run. Still that doesn't mean you can't chat, talk and keep in contact with each other. Also, you can still visit each other every once in a while. You also don't need to break u...
Talk about it with your Mom and other family members that you trust. Tell them you are scared and ask them for help. If your Dad is physically abusing you, you really need to tell people about it so they can help you.
No, you can not get pregnant from dry sex with clothes on. You can only get pregnant if sperm gets in or close to your vagina. But if your friend is scared and doesn't feel comfortable about having dry sex then you should not pressure her into doing it.
Yes but not always. The bleeding is caused by a thin skin (the hymen)in the vagina that has been torn because of penetration. It can also have been torn prior to sex and therefore not bleed.
You shouldn't listen to people that put you down and make you worry. You trust your man than stand by him. If you need to be reassured then talk to him. Just because your ex-boyfriends cheated doesn't mean he will. Having your own apartment has nothing...
no, you can not make your di*k bigger with any type of work out nor any type of pills
I agree with pinkpearl. This problem isn't going to go away and the longer you let it go on without addressing it the worse it will get. Just think if you guys have children, she might turn them against your parents! Your girlfriend has some really imp...
Read the packaging and booklet that come with your birth control. I should be specific as to when you can have unprotected sex. OR call the doctor who prescribe it to find out asap. Light spotting or light period can happen when you take the pill. Dizz...
Nope...we just do it because be like helping people.
Ask a friend or family member to talk to him about you and see if he is interested. Tell this friend to suggest you as good person to marry. When you see him smile at him and try to show you like him. And if possible, try finding an excuse to talk to h...
What's the rush? If you haven't found the right girl then why do it? It's not some sort of competition! And who knows your friends might be lying because they are insecure about sex too. It's normal to be nervous about having sex for the first time and...
There is more chance of getting an STD if you swallow your partners semen or cum.
It sounds like you are a hundred percent normal! Every woman has her own distinct smell and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are suppose to have your own smell!
Go see a doctor or pharmacist before the three days are up!
No definite no! He doesn't stop then just break up. Nobody should pressure anybody into doing something they don't want to do. He's being really immature and a jerk about it. Tell him if he doesn't stop you'll find someone who can actually respect your...
I hate hickies. They are so ugly and look like a bruise. They are actually caused from a person sucking on another persons skin until their veins explode (just like a bruise, yuck). You should never ever give a hickie to someone unless they want one. A...
He's juts trying to intimidate you and make you feel bad in other words he's being a first class jerk. You should be extra happy about ending your relationship with him since he is just proving to you that he didn't really love you (if you really love ...
It's normal for a vagina to have a smell that's distinct to each woman and can be more or less intense depending on wheither they are ovulating or not. Sometimes people are so obsessed with smelling "good" they think they smell bad when they just smell...
Definitely change his food! I can't believe the vet didn't tell you this (was he counting on the money form the cortisone shots?). He could have developed allergies to something in his food (compagnies sometimes change the ingredients without prior n...
Neither one sounds to be exactly what you are looking for. I think you need to get rid of both of them and find the real perfect guy. Start over again! Juvi ex is bad news and will just keep on getting into trouble until he grows up. If he can stay ou...
Oh and if you aren't going to use a condom then you should also avoid taking your partners fluids into your mouth! And you should always wash yourself before and after reducing the risk of infection. Hope this helps.
If your partner is clean and so are you then there isn't much to worry about when giving or receiving oral sex (except of course if you have a cold sore then avoid oral sex since cold sores are caused by the herpes virus!). There is a risk if you or yo...
Most men are just as nervous as woman on the wedding night. I suggest you talk to your new husband before having sex and ask him to take his time, be soft and careful. If you are a virgin, you should try to relax and take lots of time for touching an...
Maybe since you you played such an important role in his life (protecting him by pretending to be his girlfriend) he also wishes he could have done the same for you (by being your first and showing you everything). BUT I don't think it's right for him ...
I forgot to say that my friend was and is a real hit now that he's a bit older...I bet you'll be too!
I think your question is really important AND extremely difficult to answer. As far as I can see noone has really answered the HOW TO part of it. How do you convince a "toss away Society" to re-use and reduce? The problem is in the structure and the mi...
Wait and see which one really interests you.
Experiment
Is he hard enough? He should be really excited that way he will be hard enough to go in if not the penis just bends and it's difficult to get it in. Also more foreplay is always good!
He's hurting, which means he cares but he's angry because he's hurting and your his punching bag. I think it's abusive and you shouldn't be with someone who can't respect you.
If your boyfriend is forcing you to have sex against your will then this would be considered rape. You should tell your parents and contact the police. Rape or forcing someone to have sex is against the law.
My first advice is find out for sure before giving yourself so much grief! If they do confirm your pregnancy tomorrow then ask them if you can talk to someone at the health office. They should have a nurse or someone that can give you advice and option...
I've never been to Nigeria but since no one answered your question I thought I'd just give you some advice about how to find out more about Nigeria. There are many good websites like wikipedia (for a general overview) or lonelyplanet (for travel advice...
Try reading about your destination and buying a guide book like Lonely Planet. This will help you be better prepared to get around once you are there and it will also get you excited about getting there. I've flown a million times and I still remember ...
I think it really depends if the person is a smoker or not. When I used to smoke I appreciated being able to share my addiction and not get lectured about it. But now that I'm smoke free, I would never want to kiss or be with a guy that smokes. So for ...
There is a risk of getting an STD through oral sex. This is true whether the person receiving is female or male. You could therefore transmit it to another partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting but you should try to be safe. So ...
You just need to learn more about your body and discover how it works. Don't be shy to look at yourself in the mirror, try new things and mostly take your time! Here is an excellent site to learn more about female sexuality: http://www.the-clitoris.com/