What part of Montreal is the best place to live?
In a few years? That should give you enough time to visit and learn more about where you want to live. You know it depends on lots of things: how much can you pay? are you studying or working? would you rather live in an English neighborhood, mostly Fr...
Moving to london
OMG you need some real advice asap. London is complicated. People write books about how to find a flat in London! Check out amazon.com to see if you can find a good one (sorry forgot the title).
The one very important piece of advice I can give you...
Does he like me?
What are you waiting for. You've liked him for three years! You should have asked him out by now. The problem is you are in a relationship and you said you loved this new person. You shouldn't lead this person on if this is not true. You should decide ...
Friends
This is a tough one. I guess if you really want to spend time with your friends you should make them promise to come for a sleep over or go over for a sleepover. Tell them you really want to hang out and try to convince them to either come over or you ...
How To
give her time. she needs to build her self confidence and know she can trust others.
I dont know what to do anymore??
You have take take a chance and talk to some new poeple to make some friends. Maybe join a club that does something you like...art, music, sports. It's a good way to meet people. Don't worry what people say or don't say about you, everyone is insecure ...
Making out but not dating, can you relate?
shallow and immature...your playing with his feelings and might really hurt him. be honest if you aren't interested and don't lead him on.
I like my friend's cousin
I'm sure that when he looks at you he doens't see the black heads and pimples...he porbably sees a pretty young girl with a huge crush. You have to put your fears aside and just ask him out. If he says no, that will suck but at least you'll know how he...
Is this considered cheating?
Maybe for the relationship and Yes for the behavior. If he has used you and lied to you then why would he do it to someone else (and to you again!!!). The fact that he has sexual conversations with you and not her, is practically the same thing as chea...
She knows I like him!
She is not a good friend. You should reconsider if this friendship is worth keeping. As for the guy, why don't you ask him out? Obviously, if you don't, someone else will. And who cares about the cousin...it,s none of his business.
Child custody
I'm no expert in legal custody battles but one thing is for sure, the courts will NOT give custody to a mother that has not shown up for any court dates and who is using. You need to get some good legal advice ASAP. Find a good lawyer that can give you...
I think that now she's not interested anymore.
Ok, she's not responding...that's a pretty definite (though cowardly) way of saying she isn't interested. Sorry about that. But hey that doesn't mean you are out of the game! Come on, you going to let one date get you down? You have to try to go out wi...
TOO MANY GUYS 2 HANDLE
Tell them to give you space. Be firm, stand up for yourself, you are not some piece of meat to gnaw at. Ask for some respect. Don't flirt, don't be too friendly and hang out with your girlfriends.
How can I convince a friend that I'm not depressed?
You can't. She's your friend and she cares. If you lie to her, she might pretend to believe you but she will always know deep down that it's not true. Why not ask her to help you get over this depression instead of pretending it doesn't exist? I'm sure...
Islamically married but love a coworker
Work on your marriage and try to make it happier. Maybe you should spend more time with your wife and try to get to know her better. You are married to her, she deserves to come first.
Should I tell dad I'm depressed?
You should go tell someone who won't judge you first. I wouldn't tell your Dad just yet. Not until you've talked about it with someone like a friend, counselor, therapist or psychologist. If your Dad has prejudiced against people with depressions, I do...
How to say no without hurting him?
You should be honest with A especially if he is your friend. He shouldn't pressure you into to saying yes nor make you feel guilty about saying no (goos friends don't act that way). Maybe he will be hurt and need some time away from you but this does n...
nightmares.
I agree with xxsunkistd. You have the right to a life without nightmares and never ending counseling (especialy one that isn't concentrated on this major issue). What if talking about this could help with other problems in your life? Your Mom gave birt...
Controlling boyfriend
Unfortunately, people who are in abusive relationships don't always want to leave their partners. She is totally dependant on this man and he is totally in control of her life. It isn't healthy but despite what her family or friends say she goes back t...
Do you think hes mad(100.00%)
No. He probably just didn't feel like moaning. Not everyone moans. that's just movie stuff.
Boyfriends in prison for three years
The fact that he's been using for a long time means it's going to be a hell of a battle for him not to go down that road again. This is something you have to strongly take into consideration (he might be using in prison). This doesn't mean he doens't c...
She says no, then would you hate her?(100.00%)
Let's see...if you asked your friend to hang out at the mall and she said no would you hate her? No. Why would this be any different. I mean if you really like the person you aren't going to hate them for saying no. You might be dissapointed or sad but...
Is something wrong?
It's normal too feel pain the first time and it's also normal to be sore and bleed. If it was very painful then maybe you weren't wet enough, very nervous and-or he wasn't gentle enough. Also some women have a very thick hymen which could make the expe...
I feel so alone and unhappy
Hey, take it easy on yourself! You know we all have our good days and bad days. I feel like crap sometimes but I don't let t get me down because it's important to remember what actualy makes us love life. And there are TONS of stuff that I know you lov...
Could I be pregnant?
If you are having doubts then get a pregnancy test. Having irregular periods can happen but you should definetly make sure. You ight also want to go see a doctor to see what's up with your periods and get tested for STDs.
What is cybersex?
Talking about sex or simulating sex on the internet either by chatting or by emails, etc.
Should I tell him I cheated?
Well if you can't stand looking at him because you cheated you might want to get it off your chest. Feeling guilty about it isn't going to fix or help the situation. You better just face up too it and talk it over to see if your relationship is still w...
Why women only see me like a friend.
Hi Fito! I don't know how old you are but if you just started dating a few years ago you might want to just blame on not finding the right person yet. It takes time to connect with poeple and find the person who'll see you more as a potentiel partner t...
I Need Mom Help!
This is a really bad situation. I feel for you. I think you really do have to confront her because from what you wrote, you are losing her and she isn't being a good Mom.
I think you need to talk to her about it. Try not to get into a fight but jus...
I would like to hear comments on something I am doing
I would have my guards up BIG TIME
He might have a fetish and that's fine but I wouldn't trust him.
He can say and do as he pleases you can not know the truth (does he sell them over the internet? does he really have an attorney? why did he want ...
Am I an idiot for wanting to move in together?
An idiot? NO, definitely not! But of course, there are many thing to take into account..like first, how he feels about it and also all the things it will change.
Example of the negative aspects: no more personal space, dividing house work, bringing f...
How to say no without hurting him?(100.00%)
You have no other choice but to be honest about your feelings to A. Imagine if you don't tell him and go out with him and then he'll get his hopes up and think you might really like him...and then, you'll have to tell him you were just to chicken to te...
Could I be infertile?
Getting pregnant can take some time. Just because you haven't gotten pregnant yet it does not mean you or your boyfriend are infertile!
You can and should definitely go see your gynecologist since they are a great resource and can give you tips as ...
is this a sign of pregnancy?
If you were pregnant, it would probably be too early to have any signs. What you've described sounds more like your period about to start. Either way, you could still get pregnant from your last sexual encounter (sept 11) so I suggest a quick stop at t...
If someone stands you up, how can you confront them?
In my opinion, standing up someone is disrespectful and hurtful. It's not that hard to call someone to cancel is it? Would you do it without explanation? Just tell him how you feel about it and find some kind of agreement so you don't find yourself in ...
new in town
Join some kind of club or group like a sports club or a theater group. The best way to meet people is by being active and creative. You could take some art lessons or start playing volleyball. Check out the closest community center or local newspaper t...
nightmares.
Whenever I had really hard stuff to deal with in my life, I always talked about it (sometimes to psychologists!) and it really helped. This is why I think you should talk to someone about it. The best might be to start with talking about it with someon...
How to make international calls?
Phone number are divided into different codes.
From england, to make an international call, you have to first dial 00
then you have to dial the Canada country code which is 1
then you should have three digits that represent the city where your frie...
how do I help a friend with her mother dying in a coma?
Being there is already so much...they'll never forget that and you can't imagine the confort it is to know someone cares. One thing is for sure, grieving takes time and though you might want to make the pain go away, you just can't. Everyone just has t...
Homemade sex toys
There's actual tons of ways to make home made sex toys for men and women...nothing new here, sex toys existed before electricity! So, many people might find it strange but actually it's quite normal, especially since a lot of people mas*urba*e. The sex...
Biting turn on?
I love biting (but no blood please!). It's fun and I like the feel of flesh between my teeth. I also like the feel when someone bites me but not too hard! It kind of wakes you up and gets your attention :-)
I think these kind of fetishes can be fun as...
zorbot's Advice page 5
In a few years? That should give you enough time to visit and learn more about where you want to live. You know it depends on lots of things: how much can you pay? are you studying or working? would you rather live in an English neighborhood, mostly Fr...
OMG you need some real advice asap. London is complicated. People write books about how to find a flat in London! Check out amazon.com to see if you can find a good one (sorry forgot the title). The one very important piece of advice I can give you...
What are you waiting for. You've liked him for three years! You should have asked him out by now. The problem is you are in a relationship and you said you loved this new person. You shouldn't lead this person on if this is not true. You should decide ...
This is a tough one. I guess if you really want to spend time with your friends you should make them promise to come for a sleep over or go over for a sleepover. Tell them you really want to hang out and try to convince them to either come over or you ...
Me neither. I think someone was joking with you.
give her time. she needs to build her self confidence and know she can trust others.
You have take take a chance and talk to some new poeple to make some friends. Maybe join a club that does something you like...art, music, sports. It's a good way to meet people. Don't worry what people say or don't say about you, everyone is insecure ...
shallow and immature...your playing with his feelings and might really hurt him. be honest if you aren't interested and don't lead him on.
I'm sure that when he looks at you he doens't see the black heads and pimples...he porbably sees a pretty young girl with a huge crush. You have to put your fears aside and just ask him out. If he says no, that will suck but at least you'll know how he...
Maybe for the relationship and Yes for the behavior. If he has used you and lied to you then why would he do it to someone else (and to you again!!!). The fact that he has sexual conversations with you and not her, is practically the same thing as chea...
She is not a good friend. You should reconsider if this friendship is worth keeping. As for the guy, why don't you ask him out? Obviously, if you don't, someone else will. And who cares about the cousin...it,s none of his business.
Sounds like love.
Talk to him and ask him out.
I'm no expert in legal custody battles but one thing is for sure, the courts will NOT give custody to a mother that has not shown up for any court dates and who is using. You need to get some good legal advice ASAP. Find a good lawyer that can give you...
Talk to him and ask him out.
Ok, she's not responding...that's a pretty definite (though cowardly) way of saying she isn't interested. Sorry about that. But hey that doesn't mean you are out of the game! Come on, you going to let one date get you down? You have to try to go out wi...
Tell them to give you space. Be firm, stand up for yourself, you are not some piece of meat to gnaw at. Ask for some respect. Don't flirt, don't be too friendly and hang out with your girlfriends.
You can't. She's your friend and she cares. If you lie to her, she might pretend to believe you but she will always know deep down that it's not true. Why not ask her to help you get over this depression instead of pretending it doesn't exist? I'm sure...
Work on your marriage and try to make it happier. Maybe you should spend more time with your wife and try to get to know her better. You are married to her, she deserves to come first.
You should go tell someone who won't judge you first. I wouldn't tell your Dad just yet. Not until you've talked about it with someone like a friend, counselor, therapist or psychologist. If your Dad has prejudiced against people with depressions, I do...
You should be honest with A especially if he is your friend. He shouldn't pressure you into to saying yes nor make you feel guilty about saying no (goos friends don't act that way). Maybe he will be hurt and need some time away from you but this does n...
I agree with xxsunkistd. You have the right to a life without nightmares and never ending counseling (especialy one that isn't concentrated on this major issue). What if talking about this could help with other problems in your life? Your Mom gave birt...
Unfortunately, people who are in abusive relationships don't always want to leave their partners. She is totally dependant on this man and he is totally in control of her life. It isn't healthy but despite what her family or friends say she goes back t...
No. He probably just didn't feel like moaning. Not everyone moans. that's just movie stuff.
No.
The fact that he's been using for a long time means it's going to be a hell of a battle for him not to go down that road again. This is something you have to strongly take into consideration (he might be using in prison). This doesn't mean he doens't c...
Depends on the guys but most like to be able to recognize their partner the next morning.
No. It's even quite refreshing.
Let's see...if you asked your friend to hang out at the mall and she said no would you hate her? No. Why would this be any different. I mean if you really like the person you aren't going to hate them for saying no. You might be dissapointed or sad but...
It's normal too feel pain the first time and it's also normal to be sore and bleed. If it was very painful then maybe you weren't wet enough, very nervous and-or he wasn't gentle enough. Also some women have a very thick hymen which could make the expe...
Boys win hands down. Sigh.
Hey, take it easy on yourself! You know we all have our good days and bad days. I feel like crap sometimes but I don't let t get me down because it's important to remember what actualy makes us love life. And there are TONS of stuff that I know you lov...
If you are having doubts then get a pregnancy test. Having irregular periods can happen but you should definetly make sure. You ight also want to go see a doctor to see what's up with your periods and get tested for STDs.
Talking about sex or simulating sex on the internet either by chatting or by emails, etc.
Well if you can't stand looking at him because you cheated you might want to get it off your chest. Feeling guilty about it isn't going to fix or help the situation. You better just face up too it and talk it over to see if your relationship is still w...
Hi Fito! I don't know how old you are but if you just started dating a few years ago you might want to just blame on not finding the right person yet. It takes time to connect with poeple and find the person who'll see you more as a potentiel partner t...
This is a really bad situation. I feel for you. I think you really do have to confront her because from what you wrote, you are losing her and she isn't being a good Mom. I think you need to talk to her about it. Try not to get into a fight but jus...
Going to your gynocologist is a good start! Of course it could just be hormonal and no biggie. Don't get too worried but do go see a doctor.
I would have my guards up BIG TIME He might have a fetish and that's fine but I wouldn't trust him. He can say and do as he pleases you can not know the truth (does he sell them over the internet? does he really have an attorney? why did he want ...
An idiot? NO, definitely not! But of course, there are many thing to take into account..like first, how he feels about it and also all the things it will change. Example of the negative aspects: no more personal space, dividing house work, bringing f...
You have no other choice but to be honest about your feelings to A. Imagine if you don't tell him and go out with him and then he'll get his hopes up and think you might really like him...and then, you'll have to tell him you were just to chicken to te...
Getting pregnant can take some time. Just because you haven't gotten pregnant yet it does not mean you or your boyfriend are infertile! You can and should definitely go see your gynecologist since they are a great resource and can give you tips as ...
If you were pregnant, it would probably be too early to have any signs. What you've described sounds more like your period about to start. Either way, you could still get pregnant from your last sexual encounter (sept 11) so I suggest a quick stop at t...
In my opinion, standing up someone is disrespectful and hurtful. It's not that hard to call someone to cancel is it? Would you do it without explanation? Just tell him how you feel about it and find some kind of agreement so you don't find yourself in ...
Join some kind of club or group like a sports club or a theater group. The best way to meet people is by being active and creative. You could take some art lessons or start playing volleyball. Check out the closest community center or local newspaper t...
Whenever I had really hard stuff to deal with in my life, I always talked about it (sometimes to psychologists!) and it really helped. This is why I think you should talk to someone about it. The best might be to start with talking about it with someon...
Phone number are divided into different codes. From england, to make an international call, you have to first dial 00 then you have to dial the Canada country code which is 1 then you should have three digits that represent the city where your frie...
Being there is already so much...they'll never forget that and you can't imagine the confort it is to know someone cares. One thing is for sure, grieving takes time and though you might want to make the pain go away, you just can't. Everyone just has t...
There's actual tons of ways to make home made sex toys for men and women...nothing new here, sex toys existed before electricity! So, many people might find it strange but actually it's quite normal, especially since a lot of people mas*urba*e. The sex...
I love biting (but no blood please!). It's fun and I like the feel of flesh between my teeth. I also like the feel when someone bites me but not too hard! It kind of wakes you up and gets your attention :-) I think these kind of fetishes can be fun as...