my frist time.. feeling... please advise me..
Explore and try what the others said. Also research to understand how your body is made and how it works. This is an excelent site to help you along:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/
going to have sex for the first time!! please help me
Take your time. Talk yo her to know how she is feeling and if she likes what you are doing. She will be nervous too so just be yourself and be gentle. Don't go too fast and stop if it hurts. Remember it's not a marathon, it's something special so try t...
Is waiting a good thing or not?
I think you can have a baby shower witout knowing the sex and receive maybe interesting gifts that go for boys and girls. At the same time, it's also fun to show the baby to everyone once it's born but temember you need to have energy and time (newborn...
Is she a good friend?
Your friend sounds really needy for attention and a bit immature. I'm not sure if she is a bad friend but she is a friend with needs that might be just too tiring to please all the time. I think you should just be honest and tell her how you feel and d...
need experienced advise soon..
Sounds like you are moving too fast. Why do you want to get married right away? It seems like you aren't sure about what you want which is normal when you haven't had the chance to be together for more then two weeks. Two weeks is not a relationship, i...
AM I PREGANT?
You are most probably pregnant and should go see a doctor immediatly. You have the symptoms and the test said positive. Don't wait, go to the doctors and find out what your options are.
What thing a person uses to stop his ejaculation?
Porn videos are not real. They can stop and redo a scene if needed and sometimes they use fake penises and simulate ejaculation. I really recommend watching "The girl next door". It's a documentary film about the porn industry and what it's really like...
Is Marriage Hell?
If the relationship was hell before marriage, it will be hell after marriage.
Virgins
Guys can't tell if you are virgin unless you bleed after sex, they might guess why. I agree with stephanief987. Make it special, make him understand and make a wonderful memory.
Girl texting boyfriend (follow on ?)
Didn't the text say: Yer fine. What is that suppose to mean? It sounds like flirting to me so he better have a good explanation.
Anyhow, the point is this is bothering you and he isn't dealing with the problem. I think he should be straight with thi...
How many parents would let a member of the opposite sex sleep over.
My mother always had the door open to my friends. I was allowed to have both sexes sleep over (including my boyfriend, we slept in the same bed). She figures she'd rather have me at home then prancing around at strangers houses. And by getting to know ...
How many times can you eat out in one night
She should be the one answering that question. Some girls are really sensitive and there clitoris can get really irritated if you touch it too much. If you are giving her time to breathe and it makes her feel good then there is no problem with the amou...
How long untill the signs of pregnancy show?
Signs of pregnancy only start to show a month to three months after you get pregnant. So yes, you are probably bloating and if you miss your period, then this would we a sign of possible pregnancy. Yes, you can still get everything you get before your ...
He won't let it go
Nothing. You've got to be honest and tell him that it's just not working out for you. Of course he's upset and it hurts but nothing is worse then letting it drag on. I know it's hard but if you care for him, just be honest and tell him it's over. The b...
How to do rimjobs?
First, think health. Make sure you and your partner are STD free and that you are both healthy (ex.: no parasites). You should also consider using a dental dam or simple plastic wrap so as not to put you or him at risk.
Second, like anything sexual i...
Sperm touch on her
Don't worry. If you didn't put your finger or sperm in her then she will not get pregnant. Be careful next time, so this doesn't happen again!
Girl texting boyfriend
Sounds like you have to confront him about the problem. Your boyfriend should have been the one to tell text-girl that he isn't interested and that she should stop texting him. Why is he letting this go on and why is he telling you instead of solving t...
Movie auditions without experience(100.00%)
Yes, but you probably won't get a big part and might not be able to audition for big budget movies. You could play an extra easily though.
Do I have bed bugs?
If you aren't sure about the bites on her arm, ask a dermatologist. It is possible that you don't get bitten and she does. Try looking at the seams of your mattress for signs of bedbugs. If they are bedbugs, you have to call a fumigator to kill them.
Bleeding without cause
At your age, (born in 1991 in your profile), it would be normal to have your period and bleed a little every month. On the other hand, it would be abnormal for you not to have a period (menstruations) every month. If you really thing something is wrong...
Who knows anything about singapore?
yes, I had a little stop over there once...nice airport haha no but seriously at least, I got to do a little tour...unfortunately, wasn't my destination at the time but I would gladly go back to visit some day.
new york baby
love NY, the culture, the poeple, it's very exciting and interesting but I also admit that NY has it's sad sides too (poverty, violence, etc.). Still it's an amazing city!
America
I agree do some research that's a great way to get to know the two cities. They are VERY different and both have good and bad sides to them. Moving can be tough but it's also really exciting to meet new people, learn new stuff and you can always go to ...
Driving at 15?
Try carpooling. Ask around and post adds around the neighborhood, school and work looking for people who drive that way when you need to go there. If not try cycling, it's a great way to get to and from places. And last but not least, you can also try ...
curious bout mi vigina
Smelly or yellow-brown discharge is not a good sign. If you have this, you could have an STD or an infection and should go see your doctor about it asap.
Otherwise, it's normal to have discharge and depending on your menstrual cycle it can go from ...
I think my girlfriend is pregnant
If you're girlfriend is on the pill then the chances of her being pregnant are almost none. Go buy a pregnancy test to ease both of your minds.
Afraid my parents will find out I had sex
Start by using some kind of protection (ex.: condoms). You can buy most anything at the pharmacy in Bangladesh (at least last time I was there...you didn't need a prescription) so if you need a pregnancy test, condoms or something else go there.
As ...
Want to try without protection
I just want to clarify that contrary to what some people think ONE time is enough to get pregnant, so please don't go down that road.
To avoid pregnancy you should go see your doctor and explain that you want some form of BIRTH CONTROL (ex.: the pill).
Cheating?
Well if you're doubting maybe that's because a little alarm bell is ringing. My best advice to you is to spend real time together. Twice in two years isn't a strong foundation for a marriage. You need to spend real time together and make sure both of y...
I bleed everytime we have sex
YES, You need to slow down (foreplay, and sweet caresses) and YES, it could also be he scratched you BUT 4 times is a bit much! And, NO you aren't suppose to feel pain after or during sex (it's suppose to feel good). He might not have completely torn y...
Period or pregancy
Go see your doctor. Thy can do a urine test and a blood test. Then you'll know for sure. You might not be pregnant since some women skip periods or aren't regular but this can also be a sign of hormonal or other problems. Best to be sure everything is ...
Circumcism decreased my sexual pleasure
A friend of mine had this same problem when he had to undergo an adult circumcision. As far as I know, it is normal to have a decrease in pleasure since you've gotten use to your foreskin and now it's gone. Men who had this done as a child will not fee...
Circumsized or uncircumsized has better blow jobs?
Both are the same thing: a penis. So the short answer is neither.
The long answer says that a uncircumcised penis has more nerve endings therefore possibly making the owner feel more pleasure. Yet people argue that since most men are circumcised at...
How to let him know that I still love him?
Losing a limb is something that can be really difficult to accept and deal with. He probably needs time to understand how he feels abut this new turn in life. He probably knows you love him but needs time to learn to love himself. He probably feels han...
I need love advice
Be patient is number one. It's hard to overcome a handicap. You might be fine with it but most people are intimated by something they don't know much about. This mean you either have to try to meet people who are OK with it (because they've had other e...
Who wants to do a World Tour?
I'd like to do one by plane. Buy a round the world plane ticket and have like 5 stops on it. I've never done this but I've traveled in many different places and all I can say is the world is to big to see in one life time! But what a wondrous place it ...
Girls only:what do you look for in a guy?
Honesty, sens of humor, open minded, artistic, committed, good communication skills, adventurous, travel worthy, dependable, independent, caring, loving, shares somewhat the same interests as I, shares somewhat the same beliefs as I, flexible and funlo...
Mom's favorite
NO, but you need someone to talk too and find out what you can do to make the situation better. I suggest opening up to someone you trust (like a friend or an older adult ex.:Aunt, teacher) and if possible getting help from someone who knows where your...
Girls and baths
Not true...bath are wonderful and you should take as many as you desire.
I dont know what to do
Can your ask your brother? It would help if he would try to explain his behavior. The only thing I can think of is that he wants to protect you from this guy (ex.:is he older then you?) and so he acts like he does. The only way to truly resolve the que...
Do you think for love there is no age.
Harold and Maude. Yes, if they are both mature and realistic enough to face the difficulties of such an age difference.
How Do I Cum?
Most women orgasm when they stimulate their clitoris so this is a good place to start. Once you've figured out where it is, you can massage it gently with your fingers or use something else that makes you feel good (ex.: water from bath faucet). Buying...
How can I make getting out of town a reality?
Do you have family that live somewhere else? Like another town? That would be good place to start (especially if you are under 18 and broke). You could go visit uncle Jesse or Auntie Gloria for awhile and try to get a job in that town.
If not, then yo...
Left In The Dark
Besy thing is to ask him about it. Maybe it's nothing like he doesn't want to be rude and talk on the phone when you are present (his devote attention only for you!) or maybe, it's what you're thinking. The only way to understand him and get to know hi...
I'm 18, pregnant, and my mom wants me to have an abortion
I agree with both mandyloo and ichibanarky. Get help where you can find it and don't be ashamed to ask for it. You are old enough to decide if you want this baby or not. If you're mother isn't supportive of you then maybe you can lean on other family m...
zorbot's Advice
Explore and try what the others said. Also research to understand how your body is made and how it works. This is an excelent site to help you along: http://www.the-clitoris.com/
Take your time. Talk yo her to know how she is feeling and if she likes what you are doing. She will be nervous too so just be yourself and be gentle. Don't go too fast and stop if it hurts. Remember it's not a marathon, it's something special so try t...
I think you can have a baby shower witout knowing the sex and receive maybe interesting gifts that go for boys and girls. At the same time, it's also fun to show the baby to everyone once it's born but temember you need to have energy and time (newborn...
Your friend sounds really needy for attention and a bit immature. I'm not sure if she is a bad friend but she is a friend with needs that might be just too tiring to please all the time. I think you should just be honest and tell her how you feel and d...
Sounds like you are moving too fast. Why do you want to get married right away? It seems like you aren't sure about what you want which is normal when you haven't had the chance to be together for more then two weeks. Two weeks is not a relationship, i...
You are most probably pregnant and should go see a doctor immediatly. You have the symptoms and the test said positive. Don't wait, go to the doctors and find out what your options are.
Porn videos are not real. They can stop and redo a scene if needed and sometimes they use fake penises and simulate ejaculation. I really recommend watching "The girl next door". It's a documentary film about the porn industry and what it's really like...
If the relationship was hell before marriage, it will be hell after marriage.
Long term relationships can be very rewarding if you're with the right person whether you are young or old.
People do tend to judge but who cares if you are happy.
Guys can't tell if you are virgin unless you bleed after sex, they might guess why. I agree with stephanief987. Make it special, make him understand and make a wonderful memory.
Didn't the text say: Yer fine. What is that suppose to mean? It sounds like flirting to me so he better have a good explanation. Anyhow, the point is this is bothering you and he isn't dealing with the problem. I think he should be straight with thi...
My mother always had the door open to my friends. I was allowed to have both sexes sleep over (including my boyfriend, we slept in the same bed). She figures she'd rather have me at home then prancing around at strangers houses. And by getting to know ...
She should be the one answering that question. Some girls are really sensitive and there clitoris can get really irritated if you touch it too much. If you are giving her time to breathe and it makes her feel good then there is no problem with the amou...
Signs of pregnancy only start to show a month to three months after you get pregnant. So yes, you are probably bloating and if you miss your period, then this would we a sign of possible pregnancy. Yes, you can still get everything you get before your ...
Nothing. You've got to be honest and tell him that it's just not working out for you. Of course he's upset and it hurts but nothing is worse then letting it drag on. I know it's hard but if you care for him, just be honest and tell him it's over. The b...
First, think health. Make sure you and your partner are STD free and that you are both healthy (ex.: no parasites). You should also consider using a dental dam or simple plastic wrap so as not to put you or him at risk. Second, like anything sexual i...
Don't worry. If you didn't put your finger or sperm in her then she will not get pregnant. Be careful next time, so this doesn't happen again!
Sounds like you have to confront him about the problem. Your boyfriend should have been the one to tell text-girl that he isn't interested and that she should stop texting him. Why is he letting this go on and why is he telling you instead of solving t...
Not too old and very welcome indeed. :-)
Yes, but you probably won't get a big part and might not be able to audition for big budget movies. You could play an extra easily though.
If you aren't sure about the bites on her arm, ask a dermatologist. It is possible that you don't get bitten and she does. Try looking at the seams of your mattress for signs of bedbugs. If they are bedbugs, you have to call a fumigator to kill them.
At your age, (born in 1991 in your profile), it would be normal to have your period and bleed a little every month. On the other hand, it would be abnormal for you not to have a period (menstruations) every month. If you really thing something is wrong...
yes, I had a little stop over there once...nice airport haha no but seriously at least, I got to do a little tour...unfortunately, wasn't my destination at the time but I would gladly go back to visit some day.
love NY, the culture, the poeple, it's very exciting and interesting but I also admit that NY has it's sad sides too (poverty, violence, etc.). Still it's an amazing city!
I agree do some research that's a great way to get to know the two cities. They are VERY different and both have good and bad sides to them. Moving can be tough but it's also really exciting to meet new people, learn new stuff and you can always go to ...
Try carpooling. Ask around and post adds around the neighborhood, school and work looking for people who drive that way when you need to go there. If not try cycling, it's a great way to get to and from places. And last but not least, you can also try ...
Smelly or yellow-brown discharge is not a good sign. If you have this, you could have an STD or an infection and should go see your doctor about it asap. Otherwise, it's normal to have discharge and depending on your menstrual cycle it can go from ...
Buy a pregnancy test, it will tell you.
If you're girlfriend is on the pill then the chances of her being pregnant are almost none. Go buy a pregnancy test to ease both of your minds.
Start by using some kind of protection (ex.: condoms). You can buy most anything at the pharmacy in Bangladesh (at least last time I was there...you didn't need a prescription) so if you need a pregnancy test, condoms or something else go there. As ...
I just want to clarify that contrary to what some people think ONE time is enough to get pregnant, so please don't go down that road. To avoid pregnancy you should go see your doctor and explain that you want some form of BIRTH CONTROL (ex.: the pill).
Well if you're doubting maybe that's because a little alarm bell is ringing. My best advice to you is to spend real time together. Twice in two years isn't a strong foundation for a marriage. You need to spend real time together and make sure both of y...
I have no problem with men wearing "skirts". In a lot of countries around the world men wear clothing that could be considered a "skirt" or a "dress".
YES, You need to slow down (foreplay, and sweet caresses) and YES, it could also be he scratched you BUT 4 times is a bit much! And, NO you aren't suppose to feel pain after or during sex (it's suppose to feel good). He might not have completely torn y...
Go see your doctor. Thy can do a urine test and a blood test. Then you'll know for sure. You might not be pregnant since some women skip periods or aren't regular but this can also be a sign of hormonal or other problems. Best to be sure everything is ...
A friend of mine had this same problem when he had to undergo an adult circumcision. As far as I know, it is normal to have a decrease in pleasure since you've gotten use to your foreskin and now it's gone. Men who had this done as a child will not fee...
Both are the same thing: a penis. So the short answer is neither. The long answer says that a uncircumcised penis has more nerve endings therefore possibly making the owner feel more pleasure. Yet people argue that since most men are circumcised at...
Losing a limb is something that can be really difficult to accept and deal with. He probably needs time to understand how he feels abut this new turn in life. He probably knows you love him but needs time to learn to love himself. He probably feels han...
Be patient is number one. It's hard to overcome a handicap. You might be fine with it but most people are intimated by something they don't know much about. This mean you either have to try to meet people who are OK with it (because they've had other e...
I'd like to do one by plane. Buy a round the world plane ticket and have like 5 stops on it. I've never done this but I've traveled in many different places and all I can say is the world is to big to see in one life time! But what a wondrous place it ...
Honesty, sens of humor, open minded, artistic, committed, good communication skills, adventurous, travel worthy, dependable, independent, caring, loving, shares somewhat the same interests as I, shares somewhat the same beliefs as I, flexible and funlo...
NO, but you need someone to talk too and find out what you can do to make the situation better. I suggest opening up to someone you trust (like a friend or an older adult ex.:Aunt, teacher) and if possible getting help from someone who knows where your...
Not true...bath are wonderful and you should take as many as you desire.
Can your ask your brother? It would help if he would try to explain his behavior. The only thing I can think of is that he wants to protect you from this guy (ex.:is he older then you?) and so he acts like he does. The only way to truly resolve the que...
Harold and Maude. Yes, if they are both mature and realistic enough to face the difficulties of such an age difference.
Most women orgasm when they stimulate their clitoris so this is a good place to start. Once you've figured out where it is, you can massage it gently with your fingers or use something else that makes you feel good (ex.: water from bath faucet). Buying...
Do you have family that live somewhere else? Like another town? That would be good place to start (especially if you are under 18 and broke). You could go visit uncle Jesse or Auntie Gloria for awhile and try to get a job in that town. If not, then yo...
Besy thing is to ask him about it. Maybe it's nothing like he doesn't want to be rude and talk on the phone when you are present (his devote attention only for you!) or maybe, it's what you're thinking. The only way to understand him and get to know hi...
I agree with both mandyloo and ichibanarky. Get help where you can find it and don't be ashamed to ask for it. You are old enough to decide if you want this baby or not. If you're mother isn't supportive of you then maybe you can lean on other family m...