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Dear piker187, So I wonder why you don't think you can be happy with this new job? You will meet people at your new work, you may even meet miss right. You will have a good increase in wages and this would afford you to travel home (only 3 hours away)...
Dear inlovexandintrouble, You can't stand long distance relationships? How many have you been in? Each relationship is different and the only thing you can do is try. If he is leaving for 4 year, that is a very long time but seeing him every other mo...
Dear inlovexandintrouble, You can't stand long distance relationships? How many have you been in? Each relationship is different and the only thing you can do is try. If he is leaving for 4 year, that is a very long time but seeing him every other mo...
Dear goodstuff566, Well you aren't ready if you are not able to speak with her about this. The biggest part of any relationship is the communication. It takes plenty of communication when you are sexually involved with someone. So until you are ready...
Dear nike, There is nothing that says you need to stay in that type of relationship? This is not normal and is not to be tolerated by anyone. If you have been in this relationship for a long period of time and committed it's time to see a counsellor....
Dear dashyne, It can: Blood group AB individuals have both A and B antigens on the surface of their RBCs, and their blood serum does not contain any antibodies against either A or B antigen. Therefore, an individual with type AB blood can receive b...
Dear iammadabouthim, 2 weeks, 2 months...makes not much difference and you need to choose the correct words...you have a crush on him, you don't love him. To love someone you spend time with that person, you experience their stress, their bad times as...
Dear meemee, If you in the least bit think this person will mess up your friendship then don't ask them out. Why take the chance. Sue...good luck
Dear pinky2008, Sperm can live for a few hours in the open air, several hours on other things such as on clothes, towels and under nails etc. If you had unprotected sex up to 4 days prior to ovulation there is always a chance of pregnancy. The stats s...
Dear harmony, Yes, when someone we love passes it does feel terrible and we feel a big hole is our lives. This is normal, you will go through several stages of grieving. You get over it by letting yourself understand that life does end for some it end...
Dear young_adviser, Well she is telling you about these dreams so perhaps she does want more from you? You must ask her this yourself. A wet dream is the body's way of releasing sexual tension. The fact that she is sharing this information with you is...
Dear bratbarnette, Well you know what is wrong...you said your self you are obsessed. You are suffering from a psychological disorder that needs to be treated by a professional ASAP. This is not normal behaviour and you will loose this man in the long...
Dear gtr_freak, It is a well know fact that when a couple has a threesome their relationship will soon end. Wanting a threesome signifies there is a problem in the relationship that needs to be addressed. Bringing in a 3rd person does nothing to help ...
Dear jaes, No, of course it doesn't. Stop and think why some people are very happy and content in their lives even through turmoil and through the tough times. It's all about your attitude. You can't blame life for the way you see things. If you were...
Dear helpbecky15, Water does nothing to help with complexion according to a new study that has just been released. There are several products on the market that can pump the skin up a bit so the little divots look filled in some. There isn't a huge di...
Dear mozz, We are born with our sexual orientation (a proven fact) just as we are born with the colour of our eyes. Many try to change their eye colour with contacts but underneath they still have their same colour. This goes for sexual preferences a...
Dear irishgirly, I understand that you are scared for your friend but why are you making this about you? She is going through a terrible rough time so why make it worse by causing another problem for her...your focusing on yourself. If you really want...
Dear gidalani, Until you get at the reason for your anger you will always have a problem. Some of the techniques mentioned are good, some not so much. Never punch, hit, yell etc. if you have a tendency to being physically aggressive. These just make i...
Dear kelseymae16, When most people think of alcoholics they think of someone who drinks everyday...this isn't so. An alcoholic can also only drink on weekends, they are called "weekend alcoholics". Yes you are in great danger; at your age you are caus...
Dear vickysticky1990, It is highly and almost impossible for your hymen to be intact and pregnant. There have been reported cases where the hymen has recovered from a tear but it's so unlikely. Many women have no hymen by the time they first have sex ...
Dear bellamilla, I hope this man does not see the child??? Of course he means it...you never, ever take this type of thing lightly. You need to make sure that you go to court so he does not get any type of custody of your child. Make sure that your w...
Dear msm18, If you were both always fighting then there are major problems. A week does not give anyone time to make changes in themselves. Treating each other as if you are still a couple and yet you are not is just wrong. This is a terrible thing to...
Dear anonymous, What you may have been experiencing is spotting prior to a period. This is not unusual for many women. The hymen is thin layer of skin that covers the opening of the cervix. Periods or spotting do nothing to harm it. Some women are bo...
Dear jamiecullars, You did the exact correct thing. Do not return the children to that home, if you do then it will show that you had little regard for the children's safety and your position will be compromised on this. You reported this to children...
Dear adensmomma06, There is no such thing as the terrible twos. This was coined because around the age of two children became more vocal and more able to articulate what they wanted. Along with this came much frustration because a child was unable to ...
Dear jaes, No, it is not normal for depression. If you are feeling sad, unhappy, without hope etc. for more then a few months straight then you need to seek out a doctor. There are many reason for depression and some are medical reasons. Depression is...
Dear fau, Palindromic Rheumatism "PR" also known as Hench-Rosenberg syndrome or Hench’s syndrome. I would think it would be classified as a disability since it can cause arthritis flair ups that would indeed impede your quality of life. Sue...good luck
Dear skeeter1, Never ever do a colon cleaning. Make a quick call to any nurse or doctor and they will fill you in on the problems this will cause. Some are heart failure, body chemical imbalance and salt depletion. Over time and if done often enough h...
Dear missinlittleshady, It is always best when you have children to let them go through a grieving stage. They really don't bounce back as fast as you think, they just are not able to articulate as well about their feelings as the adults do. Also chil...
Dear fau, Go see the school counsellor...there they can help you make your parents understand that being sad all the time is not a normal way to live. Take pride in that you have the insight to know that this isn't how you want to live. A counsellor ...
Dear amblessed, Our Editor is correct...this child will be born into a loving family, a tolerant and understanding family. This child will more then likely grow up with a kind and loving attitude toward life and people. What ramifications will there b...
Dear adensmomma06, It's obvious he isn't ready. Don't rush it or you will in the end prolong it. Male children on the average are 3 when they are trained. This insures good understanding and at this age they have less accidents. Give him some time and...
Dear crunkjuice, Please keep in mine a women's vagina is ~ 4 inches in length. It is a myth that most women like larger penises. It can be very painful and even dangerous for a women when there partner is too big. The average male is 4-6 inches when e...
Dear iwelcomeu, The concept is called the bad boy syndrome. Basically it is an excuse used by males who have a difficult time in relationships and will use this as an excuse. It is somewhat of a wives tale that it means women prefer the bad boys. So w...
Dear melissa222004, I work in the schools right along side the teachers...the reason is that I am trained in behaviours and most of them are not. We are seeing an increasing amount of behaviours in the class room. This is not necessarily from ADD or A...
Dear jean123, Just because your parents are devoiced doesn't mean you shouldn't be living with one of them. It is up to your parents to supply money to your Aunt for your expenses. If they cannot do this have your Aunt contact children's services and ...
Dear jackzonsmom, We are seeing smaller and smaller babies due to many things these days. Mostly from smoking, drinking and lack of personal care during a pregnancy. So they were probably commenting on this. This size is normal and a healthy weight f...
Dear rd2005, Not allowing the child to take the stuff off the table is the key. As the child goes to grab an object you gently grab their hand and say this is not to be touched. Take them over to their area and show them what they are allowed to play ...
Dear iluv2, Of course you're too busy and you are posting here so you know you must give something up. Make a list of priorities starting with school work. You must have time on the list for you time to socialize outside of sports and school. You must...
Dear cleox3, This is why we always recommend not associating with an EX. It's wonderful if we could remain friends with all our boyfriends but it never seems to be that way. So move on, he has and start seeing less and less of him. Sue...good luck
Dear narry, If you find you may ejaculate prematurely then try pleasuring yourself prior to being with your partner. This takes some of the urgency away. For some starting and stopping can prolong but for other this can be sheer torture so it's up to ...
Dear fau, As stated every male is different. There are so many reason for taking a long time to ejaculate to ejaculating very quickly. Time between is roughly 20 minutes or much longer as a male gets older. Sue...good luck
Dear superwoman828, Well it's obvious that this guy isn't for you. You've already broken up, this leaves a huge scar on relationships and always comes back to haunt you. So you are right you are both different people and both of you have grown in diff...
Dear canben, It's obvious that either of them are ready to date...If they cannot sit and talk with each other about their expectations in this relationship then they surely aren't ready to date each other. Dating is all communication, and if it is unc...
Like I stated places like Sweden have banned any type of corporal punishment...they have a very low crime rate with juveniles as well as the lowest domestic abuse rates. At one time men were allowed to hit their women if they wouldn't comply to their ...
Dear lynno97, it could be the fifth disease...it starts off flu like and then you get a rash. Your contagious period would be over by the time you have a rash. You need to get to a doctor so they can diagnose it. This disease for the most part is harm...
Dear alwaiizxxforever, This is something you are going to have to deal with...if you can't then I suggest you go for counselling. You will probably find yourself on the reverse of this someday. You will more then likely have a few partners prior to se...
Dear funnyfun, Well I doubt she's thinking much about you being there...I bet she has moved on. Usually people don't sit around waiting for someone to call if they were interested, she would have called you back. So go to the party knowing she wasn't ...
Dear viller, Welcome to the real world...this is what a lot of 50 year women look like. You can see a doctor about a tummy tuck. This will be the only option that will work to remove the bulk. I am sure you are aware of the complications with such an...
Dear lindsay1234, Growing up in the 60s and 70s horoscopes and of course the age of Aquarius was were very popular so the worst line was what is your sign. I swear it was the only pick up line guys knew back then lol. Sue...good luck