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Dear dukenukem, The whole thing is wrong, wrong, wrong...did I say wrong!!! This is family and a family member who is much younger then you. You have broke the family bond and well as you heading for trouble if you are at all interested in someone thi...
Dear your_clebertiy_night_stalker, did we not go over this already? You never should return...yes he will end up hurting you in many ways. You need to go to an Aunt, cousins, trusted adult and let them know what is happening. Do you want your dad to g...
Dear tanningirl, Tell your friend she needs to stop texting him now. That you get a feeling that this is a dangerous situation. It is a dangerous situation...you may want to speak with your parent who can perhaps call her parents. It is always better ...
Dear dizzy1885, If you feel you are going to need help then I would say wait...do not make this decision now. Perhaps when both children are in school. Ask yourself if having another will take away the quality of time from your children you have now. ...
Dear saucybaby, The most important scent for a woman is nothing...human bodies give off pheromones. This is a chemical smell that drives males crazy and they don't even know it...it's the same for females. Pheromones are created in the body and the pu...
Dear mattigans, The good thing is you're not alone...you share this with many your age. Seeing a career counsellor is a first good step. They are there to help and in most cases they offer free services. Really you just sound lonely and bored. Yes it ...
Dear fau, You must see a doctor ASAP...do not allow yourself to be alone with your children. You may be suffering from baby blues not Münchhausen. Have you done something to that could have harmed your child? Have you taken your child to the hospital ...
Dear kaid, Is it interfering with your social life? Are you at home doing this and should be out socializing or taking care of things that are important at home? Once it starts to be your focus then it can be a problem. Many people will use this as a ...
Dear hazehead, There are many reasons why this is happening...most of the time it's due to performance anxiety. So learning to relax is important, communication is next...show him how you are able to orgasm yourself. Always use plenty of lube. There a...
Dear trying2understand, People just don't take a break in a relationship...I believe your relationship was over at that point. What is the idea of saying we are still together but we both are messing around? Time to drop the drama and drop the guy. Yo...
yes, there would have to be more to this story...I'm sorry for her situation but they do not take a child out of the home for falling. Even falling down stairs. Their motive is to leave the child in the home and do counselling and have a worker come in...
Dear mysteriousgal83, Yes, there is a female condom. In fact it is said to offer more protection since it covers a very large area of the female. I am not sure why they are not more popular perhaps they are more expensive? I believe every female who i...
Dear the_anti_prep, In my work I teach teens to get what they want in life...They can do this through attitude. Trying to take the dominant role in a family will not get you anything, in fact it will get you working much harder then need be. Adults wi...
Dear lil_cutie_pie, One wonders how you got yourself in this situation. You are not a "hoe" but you are not being fair to either of them. When you are in one relationship you don't get involved with another. Time to tell both of them what has happened...
Dear karry, Because that area may stay moist due to sweat and from not drying properly it can cause some problems for some. There should be nothing there and if there is, is it moist not dry, does it have an odour, is it itchy etc. If you have any of ...
Dear depressedchild15, You need to see a doctor ASAP...this type of behaviour can get worse and worse. A doctor can determine if you need counselling and medication. This shows an inability to cope and you need to learn coping skills. Also you can get...
Dear mooshca, Well a doctor who hasn't kept checking these lumps is an idot...even when lumps have been tested and are not dangerous are still monitored. Get back to a doctor ASAP. It may be nothing but even if nothing they need to be watched. Sue......
Dear yspeed, First of all you may think you love her...but you have nothing to base this on. Love is not something that just happens, it is nurtured and it takes time. You are more likely lustful for her. You are going to feel this way about a lot of...
Dear chaoticrevalation, Laws are in place for a reason. We are learning more and more each day and the laws are starting to reflect our better understanding. We now know that a person does not develop their executive section of the brain until they ar...
Dear jaes, there are a few conditions that stop the body from feeling pain. You do indeed feel some pain so that's a good thing. Certain areas of your body it seems does not feel any pain and this is very dangerous and may be related to something seri...
Dear metal, You wouldn't have shingles in the 4th grade. You may have had chicken pox. Shingles do not hit until you are older and they stem from chicken pox virus that remains dormant in the body till you are older. You can get a vaccine for shingles...
Dear voterperson, We've been through this before with you...you need to go see your doctor. You are having faulty thinking. You may not see it but you are being irrational and obsessive. I think what you are not telling us is that you suffering from a...
Dear bigmuma, Oh, I would be in heaven...my hubby is an asthmatic and we both have sensitivities to dust, scents so I have to keep the place very clean and still work. Although I do enjoy the housework (ya I know, it's a frame of mind) the thing I hat...
Dear sweet_n_short2, Am very sorry to hear this but you need to change your thinking around this...you stated (when I give birth to just my daughter) Its not just...she will alway carry a part of him with her. You will love her twice as much, you will...
Dear frankisdank, They make fun of you for making fun at others...wow. Perhaps "what goes around comes around" rings a bell for you. Sue...good luck
Dear psychoman13, I won't lecture on the weird thing you did...smoking just before a test DUH! But I will be honest with you. THC stores in body fat...these so called remedies are all bogus or everyone would pass the tests right? Well they don't all ...
Dear alwaiizxxforever, Depends on your finances and your ages. But if anything you make by hand has much more meaning. Gather his favourite music and burn them to a CD...his favourite food and plan a picnic and play the CD. Have a just because party.....
Dear katieissexy, If your school and parents allow this I'd say go for it...I work at a school that does allow it and there are a few girls who have done this. I love it...the blue is nice on some as well but the pink is very pretty. Sue...good luck
Dear badbrownkerah14, Yes, It's is much too early...You say you think you're in love...you are more likely in lust with him. At your age you will date many people and you may love many people too. You know this will probably not be your only boyfriend...
Dear blairfaith, I would adventure to say that you left it there on purpose. Perhaps it was a way of showing this new guy that you are not really over your EX. We don't usually make mistakes of this guy without purpose. Okay...so you say I didn't leav...
Dear shawn999, There needs to be both sexes to have an offspring...that would mean at one given time there would had to be 3 of them. Only one have ever been reported for...what 100 years lol. Sue...good luck
Dear amblessed, Well I don't think one ever knows. I spoke with my now husband for over a year online. We of course were older and maybe a bit more intuitive about the truthfulness in our words. We spoke on the phone as well. I do believe "time will ...
Dear sexigal, Probably not...a women's body is very efficient at cleaning and this is a sign it's doing its job. If the discharge turns greenish, thick or has an odour then you may have a problem. Sue...good luck
Dear sunworshiper713, I've been doing my own hair for over 30 years and yes, we all make mistakes. The best thing to do at this time is to go to a hair dresser for a colour correction. If you dye your hair again you may damage it beyond repair. It cou...
Dear andrew123, Well it's a wonderful thing you're concidering...I wish I could give you some help here but in Canada we do things differently. We have Gov't paid services and medications as well as home support and respite support for parents who hav...
Dear your_clebertiy_night_stalker, Do not go back to your home...find a trusted adult you can speak with and seek out your counsellor at school. You should not return to your home. You will probably be advised to speak with someone from children's ser...
Dear prsexiichula, Your 15??? Getting pregnant??? He's 19...statutory rape!!! He can be charged for having sex with a minor. You are not mature enough by the sounds of your question to have a child. Go see your doctor for a possible STD and some edu...
Dear fau, It's always surprising to me when they allow harmful products to stay on the shelves. A woman should never use a douche unless it is prescribed by a doctor. These wash away all the good things that keep a woman healthy. Our bodies are wonder...
Dear c0ll0p0ll0, First of all write down the days you have a sore stomach...list your foods and the events that has happened. Take this to a doctor. They will go through the lists with you and determine if it is a common food or really stress. For eit...
Dear chaoticrevalation, In Canada our children protective services are called Children's Aid Services. I have dealt with them for many years through my work. As a family worker we rely on CAS to be the voice for children. Since our society fails the y...
Dear fizzpop12, You can't stop her...do you have a trusted adult like and aunt, uncle, cousin etc. that you can talk to. They may have seen a change in her that they are worried about to and one of them can talk with her. You can't change your mother ...
Dear voterperson, Because you posted this question I'm assuming you take objection to your mother's response. Rule #1 do not buy others clothing...Clothing is a very, very personal choice and even young children have preferences and recommended to all...
Dear jesiegl89, A fetus will ingest what you injest...THC is a strong chemical in pot that is stored in body fat. This chemical is easily transfered into the fetas during feeding. The chemical is known to inhibit growth in a fetus, cause severe mental...
Dear imprettycool0, Ask to see a counsellor at your school and they can direct you to the proper professionals. Once this begins and it isn't properly addressed it can progress. It's important to catch it now so that you can begin some type of behavio...
Dear ciara417, Yes you can and for some it can last a few months and there isn't a problem but sometimes it's not a good sign. So if you experience any bleeding during a pregnancy you must see your doctor ASAP. Sue...good luck
Dear kazybabe, You need to tell your parents that this guy is abusing you, if you don't feel you can go to them seek out a counsellor at school...give your head a shake girl...get out of this relationship now. Whey would you want him to see he is mak...
Dear knappydread, There is nothing that I know of...THC has it's own chemical properties and these properties are what they test for. If you are looking to blame your THC levels on something other then an illegal substance you injested...I think you'r...
Dear ebonyangel1968, Well you can't handle a relationship just now. You have a ton of baggage from your marriage that needs to be sorted out. This is a perfect time for you to seek out counselling and perhaps a women's group that deals with just what ...
Dear 425hott425, Just wait for a while longer...if you are ready you'll still be ready later on. You know that birth control is not 100% safe. So not matter what type you use you are still at risk of becoming pregnant. At 13 your are not ready to be a...
Dear stefancope1, If she is being abused in her home...get her out of there now. I don't understand why she is still there??? She must not stay there a minute longer. Being 21 and she 15 is not a great idea to be involved with her. There are legal ram...