Our Featured Advisor
My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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Dear wshs, If you haven't went through total menopause...meaning that you have stopped ovulation for over a year then you can get pregnant. After the age of 28 you begin to increase the dangers of complications. In your 40s your chances of having a pr...
Dear vickeyxox, When the ages start getting up like 25 and 38 they have more in common then lets say someone who is 15 and 28, that being the same age range. There is a lot to think about though when you start getting a spread of 13 years. Children ar...
Dear greeneyedcutie, The rule is after Sept. 1 you never wear white. There is a new trend winter whites but it hasn't gone over too well. Sue...good luck
Dear andrewd93, Why would you want to tell her??? This would hurt your dad would it not? Sometimes there are people in our lives we don't care for but we don't go telling them this because it serves no purpose. Chances that you will like any of your d...
Dear ibrutus, Shutterstock looks great if you are willing to submit your passport info or drivers license. I'm not...but have always been curious about selling photos online...great question. Sue...good luck
Dear xtubes564342uyu7, There is nothing more revealing than a women who begs. This shows a lack of self-esteem and mostly self-respect. This relationship had trouble from the first time you broke up and you stated you did this several times. This show...
Dear aleisa, It isn't the size it's the technique that counts. It is not up to him to guess how to please you but it is up to YOU to teach him what you like. Intercourse is only a very small part of love making. Get yourself some good books on techni...
Dear guitarchris, Cold sores, are small red blisters that generally affect the mouth and facial areas, but usually appear on the lip and outer edge of the mouth. Cold sores are extremely contagious and are most often caused by the Herpes Simplex viru...
Dear sicksalvation, If you have been studying dreams then you know they can be related to stress, medications, home situations, etc. So to really know why they started and why they stopped would be a real guess. But a change in someone's life would in...
Dear nyclex1, Well since we don't know why he's had her for this long then we have to assume he was court ordered to have custody or you could have gone to the police from day one. If the police have been involved and it's been 4 years and they sti...
Dear theshortygrl, Do you really feel like hurting yourself...if so then you need to see a counsellor ASAP and call 1-800-668-6868. If you don't then you are being rather dramatic. If your parents are being abusive you must report this to your counsel...
The reason why this site is so good is because there is such different opinions. It would get very tiresome if everyone gave the same answers in the same way. As we hear from the answers above everyone has a different style and a different way of makin...
Dear maxypoo, This type of brusing is not normal to just getting her top teeth out. Have her go back to the doctor ASAP. Sue...good luck
Dear britt_rox123, I suggest you seek out counselling. If you want to go to such lengths to hurt someone you love then I do believe you may are having some problems. We usually don't try to hurt our loved ones and I'm not sure this is what you really ...
Dear judymoody100, Your mother is upset because you do not care about the same things she does perhaps. Moms especially want their children to be safe and sometimes by trying to protect them they figure they can keep them safe. She is probably threate...
Dear jamaica617, Sorry but today we cannot use the race or size excuse for having people not like you. So then you need to think about why you think they don't?? Are you friendly with them, do you hold a good conversation, do you make good eye contact...
Dear thisistherealme, Well we hope all our acquaintances like us. Being liked by someone does not mean they would like to become more than friends. You must like someone just to be friends. So I'm betting that this guy probably is a very nice person ...
Dear xylitolisluxurious, From your previous question on mood swings and to this question I would say that you may have a problem. I suggest you talk with a school counsellor...tell them what you have told us her on the forum. Explain you mood swings ...
Sorry, a lot of cancer patients do make it. In fact we are able to get them in remission so much faster today and yes many have been reported to have gone into a permanent state of remission. You don't give someone who has a fighting chance the talk...
Dear babyangel22, From your statement you say that you are ugly but try to tell yourself you are pretty. This tells me you don't believe what you are telling yourself. The whole idea is to say it and believe it. Others say you are pretty...are we all ...
Dear geriann, This drug typically works anywhere from 2 weeks to 4 or more weeks. If you are not seeing any results within this time see your doctor. Medications such as these begin with trial and error. It may take several tries to get the proper dos...
Please no one consume bleach you will burn and damage your oesophagus (throat) and can even kill you if you ingest too much. Sue
drjim007 is pulling your leg (kidding) and infact doing that would no doubt cause a problem for your partner. Sue
EFFECTS OF HABITUAL MARIJUANA USE ON THE IMMUNE SYSTEM The most potent argument against the use of marijuana to treat medical disorders is that marijuana may cause the acceleration or aggravation of the very disorders it is being used to treat. Smok...
Dear xxaloneinlifexx, So why would you keep telling your girlfriend you are talking with your friend? At 14 you are too young to have to deal with this. You will have many, many girlfriends in your life until you decide to settle down and that shouldn...
Dear cintiaortiz, Loosing a few eye lashes here and there is very normal. If you find you are loosing so that they leave a gap along the eye lid then go see a doctor. This can be related to hormones to a thyroid problem. I lost all my eyelashes on one...
Dear guru123, Yes, today cancer is treatable and curable in many cases. So while the cancer patient is smoking they are creating other problems directly as a result from the pot. Time and time again we see a cancer patient go in to remission only to f...
Dear virgintaker16, The hardest things is to see someone we care about getting hurt. We just want to make it all better for them. But it is obvious that her boyfriend is hurting her intentionally. He is sending blatant signals to her so why isn't she...
Dear swercyma, You don't. Dating rule 101 and EX is an ex for a reason. Write down all the reasons you broke up with him. What happened at the time you broke up, why it didn't work out. Once you give your memory a jolt and perhaps get over being lonel...
Dear baconskater, Of course this is common with young teens; to have a crush on someone older. If this person is part of your circle have them talk with her and tell her that perhaps they are flattered but there is no way a 21 year old could be intere...
Dear sapphire21, The stats state that couples who swing have a huge chance of breaking up. Typically couples who approach this idea find that they are bored or looking to spice up their sex life. To most committed couples this is a huge red flag and t...
Dear beans, I totally believe the theory of evolution. We have 3 parts to our brain one part is the reptilian brain, the oldest of the three, controls the body's vital functions such as heart rate, breathing, body temperature and balance. Our reptil...
Dear dolce84, There is not a set number that is normal or not normal. Male and females take different stock in the amount of partners they have had. Females try to forget the relationships that don't work out while males have a tendency to count them ...
Dear kgirly, I think your dad thought you may be bored...or he is a great kidder. If your father is looking for a committed relationship and he wants to do it via the INTERNET then he should be putting his profile on a dating service. There are many ...
Dear collegeprofessor, Of course their thinking begins in the home. By the time you get them I fear their faulty thinking is embedded. I live in a part of Ontario Canada that is resounded for the underground railroad and Uncle Tom's cabin. Even with t...
Dear plainwhitets, It reminded me too much of the Christmas song "Do you hear what I hear" Sue...good luck
Dear kiwe_0809, The smart thing to do is stay out of it. You are not the parent here and your sister is old enough to make her own choices. If your parents are allowing your sister to ring up a phone bill they need to cut off the phone. She has a car ...
Dear sapphire21, Not I, not only does this show complete lack consideration for your partner but it shows a great lack of coping skills. At what point and why did he justify it in his mind that it was okay to do this. Cheating is not usually a spontan...
thedude, My accuracy at typing in 98% much better than my speed at 86%. I was taught on a Underwood typewriter that required us to manually pull a space bar and set margines. Sue
Dear sexiinsweet, He told you he could accept it but you don't believe him. Do you think he is a lier? Does he have a habit of lying to you? If the answer is no then you need to take his word for it. You can imagine it was a big shock to him...he know...
please read previous posts on the dangers of using Niasin. Sue
Dear c_phillips01, People miss understand green or white teas. They do contain caffeine and green tea can contain 15-40 milligrams per cup. To reap the benefits of this tea you would have to drink at least 6-8 cups a day putting anyone over a safe lim...
rnealw, If it were a woman it was...hmmm wouldn't that round white shinny thing look wonderful in a ring LOL. Sue
Dear xoxelizabeth92, Maturity 101...you can not and should not remain friends with an EX...they are called ex for a reason. You need to put him in the past where he belongs. Why do you talk with him on-line? This is your fatal mistake...again...there ...
Dear rnealw, Well this made me laugh, thanks for that. Sue
Dear paulisfunky, There are different laws for different states and countries. I believe in some of the States it is age 5 or 6. Also there are laws about renting apt. that do not have enough bedrooms for each child. These laws have been around for a ...
Dear kraziekd, No this is not true...sperm have tails for swimming. To explain to you just how active they are if there were sperm on a towel or hands and she touched herself or used the towel on herself she could get pregnant this way as well. Anytim...
Dear dottyorange138, Sorry...but there is nothing. Companies will state they have products to flush the system but if that were the case everyone would pass drug tests and they don't. If you are taking a prescribed pill for an excising condition this ...
Dear jayjayk, Sorry but the captain is right...she has a boyfriend and when she moved she didn't want to keep the relationship going. Time to move on and if you are really a keeper then find some gal who is into guys like that. It seems maybe from wha...
Dear luvgerard, No need to dump anyone but they both need to be spoken to. Tell them how you feel. If she is your friend she will stop. If he is a good boyfriend he will stop. If they don't I suggest dumping both of them. Sue...good luck