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Because they have to get their first series of tetanus shots. I used to pierce ears and I always wanted to smack mothers/fathers who got their babies' ears pierced. DO you know how much it sucks to have a lil baby frightened to death of you and scre...
Siberians are smaller than Malamutes. Siberians should be 45-65 lbs, Mals can be 85-100 lbs. Anything larger than either of those is poorly bred. Both have similar, double, arctic coats, and will shed in huge clumps of fur twice a year, especiall...
These statistics in no way define what is normal, only what is average, and the range of diversity between peoples experiences and habits. Be careful to note the dates the data was collected. Female masturbation habits have changed drastically over the...
Some women are born without hymens or it has been sufficiently torn or stretched before (from activities like sports, hygiene or masturbation) that would allow a penis to penetrate without causing bleeding. That's not to say that you may not bleed in t...
You can become pregnant but the pill is 99% reliable if you're using it correctly. I've been taking the pill for 3 years and have unprotected sex with my partner and I've never gotten pregnant. If you're in a monogamous relationship and you're bo...
23 in 9 days :) xox Sika
You're not ready for sex until you can take on the responsibility of protecting yourself (and your partner) from pregnancy and STDs/STIs. If you can't do that then you have no business having sex. He may be afraid of getting you pregnant etc - which...
wow... down girl. Retract those claws please. The girl's asking for advice, not criticism on her romantic life. A bad blowjob won’t win you points; a good blowjob will instantly put you in the category of rockstar. And it’s time to become a rock...
nope. xox Sika
Birth control can delay your period but since you're not on them currently, taking them so abruptly might not have any effect on your period and actually prolong it. Plus ""old"" pills might be out dated or could have been sitting in the sun etc whic...
The injection/shot is still a hormonal option so it could affect your moods. Birth control options are pretty safe nowadays and it shouldn't effect your fertility. You might look into the copper IUD (paraguard) The copper IUD is a T-shaped plastic f...
It's perfectly normal to feel regret. If you didn't then I think something would be wrong. Adoption is hard, you went through all that bonding through the whole pregnancy, had a baby and now she's gone. Mentally your mind is panicking because biologica...
I really doubt that the statistics are accurate though. Anal sex is more common than you think. xox Sika
Nice DC Talk ref by the way Everyone is born with no belief system. So technically we were all atheist at birth as we had no preconceived thoughts on it. I wouldn't say christians are the leading cause... but probably the most sustaining cause. (...
Maybe you need to strip the color out and THEN re-color it. You should seek the advice or a hair stylist. They could tell you the best way and quote you a price. xox Sika
I dunno what red box you're talking about but if you want to make everything clear and add your own background pic here's how you can do it. Upload the pic you want in the background to photobucket.com. (make it a large pic so it covers the whole ba...
If you have a question, you should post it as a new question not as an answer to another year old question. No one will see it. Question Tutorial: http://www.funadvice.com/doc/ask_tutorial You cannot have a period while pregnant. It is physically i...
Because your body doesn't have to cool down hot liquids... we're warm blooded mammals. if you drink something too hot it's going to burn you, you obviously wouldn't drink something boiling would you? The pain from a burn is your tissues etc being da...
I think the media would have a hay-day and a lot of people would make fun of him. That would be a really ridicuolous move. xox Sika
I think you're gorgeous. xox Sika
Most vegetarians aren't just vegetarian because they don't want to kill animals - it's more how those animals are treated. An abortion depends solely on the person's personal beliefs and choices. You can argue that an embryo has "life" at conceptio...
depends on my mood, but usually me on top. xox Sika
I think the tattoo thing is very endering but to me getting someone's name tattooed seems tacky. I am getting a tattoo with the lattitude and longitude of where me and my boyfriend first met, so it's special to our relationship but doesn't look lik...
It really just depends on the girl. I don't want to coddle and take care of some dude - quite the contrary. But I do like to help him out in the areas that he -is- a little more helpless in and are my forte - which I think is the important thing in a r...
Being aggressive. Nothing gets my dude in the mood more than throwing him against a wall or on the bed/couch and straddling him and seductively kissing and necking him. xox Sika
depends on the girl. For me.. if I'm looking to go for multiple orgasms then yes I like it. Otherwise no, I want to roll over and go to sleep. xox Sika
Out of 3,432 adults in the USA... 25% had at least experimented with anal sex at one point in their lives. 10% have done so at least once in the previous year. Among women ages 25-29, 12% had engaged in anal intercourse in the last year and 2.4%...
For me it depends on the panty hose. I rarely go panty-less. I love cute underwear so... xox Sika
I do, I usually wear dressy clothes for work but on my days off I don't. I love lingerie, even though no one can see it it makes me feel sexy. Lingerie is my little secret. ;) xox Sika
Yes they can definitely do that. If it doesn't go away in a few days you may want to see a doctor. Tripping can be pretty traumatic if you don't have the right mind set or can't handle the mental part of the tripping. I myself haven't experienced i...
Yes you can. Clomiphene may increase the likelihood of multiple births. Multiple births may carry additional risk both for the mother and for the fetuses. Use clomiphene exactly as directed by your doctor. If you do not understand these directions, ...
The anus is in very close proximity to the vagina and vulva, so you can easily get pregnant from ejaculate flowing down to the vagina. It is also possible to spread STDs anally. Therefore, you must use a condom if you aren't using another form of bi...
Bob Dylan doesn't sing half the time and it's still music. If it was just rapping - the speaking voice alone then it'd be more poetry. (because technically a "beat" is from some percussion ""instrument"" thus making it "musical") xox Sika
...Dunno what world some of you are in... Cussing isn't bad, you just need to know when it's appropriate and when it isn't. A person can say plenty of foul and mean-hearted things without using a single curse word. They are just that - words. I ...
If you had unprotected intercourse that would cause you to suspect a pregnancy and now you have a missed period - it s a good indicator of a pregnancy. It's wise to get a test. xox Sika
It is really hard when people don't believe you. Know that it isn't your fault and you know what? It doesn't matter if they don't believe you because guess what? IT STILL HAPPENED. You're a very brave young girl and bravo to you for getting a rape t...
What leads people to believe in the supernatural ? - At birth everyone is an atheist or a "free-thinker" until they are told to believe in something. xox Sika
What he did was rape. You need to go to the police and report him. ""I know it is kind of rape but as we used to have a relation ship"" That doesn't matter, it's your body and you said NO. Call 1 800 656 HOPE. That's the RAINN hotline. http://ww...
You are "scary-skinny". You shouldn't lose any more weight, you should work on gaining muscle and toning up(and just plain being healthy.). xox Sika
If you trust your partner it's not wrong or perverted. At age 14 however it could be a legal issue since you're a minor. So it's best to wait until age 18 if you want to send X-rated pics to your beau. xox Sika
Yes you did. the "cherry" aka the hymen isn't something that just goes away however. It will only tear or stretch sufficiently to permit an object into the vagina. (for example, if you have sex with another guy down the road and he's bigger, you might ...
It could be anything really. Maybe he got into something that is making him sick, or he could have some kind of condition. It's best to take your dog to the vet to get it checked out. xox Sika
Ceramic straightening irons are the way to go. Try Andis - you can find it at walmart for a pretty good price and it works fast. xox Sika
The world will end one day... but it'll be long after we and our great great great grandchildren are gone. xox Sika
There is obviously no communication. If she felt the need to seek out an adventurous sexual lifestyle why didn't she involve you? Not to pin it on you but a marriage does take two people. Maybe she's unhappy and doesn't know how to tell you. Maybe s...
When you become sexually active you should have pap smears EVERY year and also an STD/STI screening. You have to look in your local area to see if there might be a women's health clinic. Call them up and ask about their rules with minors - if you can s...
YOU can't make her stop drinking. She will only stop when she realizes that she has a problem - she has to have the desire to quit drinking. At the moment it seems like a lot of things are going downhill for her and she's depressed... so why not drink?...
lunapic.com is another good site. xox Sika
I'm sure all the candidates worked hard to get where they are at - A nomination for presidency doesn't just fall in one's lap after all. If you have a roof over your head, can read a book, (hell and you have a computer with internet access let's not...
What benefit would a teacher have to doctor and purposely make you fail? Teachers do have a job to do to get paid don't forget. I would understand if maybe 1 teacher was disgruntled and gave you a bad grade but I highly doubt 5 out of 7 teachers would ...