sikashimmer's Advice

• Baby too early (100%)
  You should first and foremost TELL. What your father did to you is wrong. Fathers are supposed to protect their daughters from things like this. I know you're scared and you feel guilty. None of it is your fault, not one peice of it. I was molest...
  
  
• Looking up to drag queens?
  I look up to drag queens. It's no fair they get to have all the glory and glamour! lol I've performed beside many drag queens and let me tell you those are always the best performances and the best times! xox Sika
  
  
• Car fun
  What a classy way to enjoy your first time. Eh... whatever floats your boat sweetheart. Sex in a car is ALWAYS awkward. It's NEVER really done anything for me. xox Sika
  
  
• XBOX or WII which is better? (100%)
  wii all the way
  
  
• Where did you hear about funadvice from?
  I was looking for an answer to a question I had... it led me here and I've been hooked since! xox SIka
  
  
• Turn ons and offs?
  Turn ons: Necking, French Kissing, my hair being played with gently, my hair being pulled, spooning, whispering in my ear Turn offs: B.O., bad teeth, bad breath, someone who has no clue what HE wants or what I want. xox Sika
  
  
• Have you ever been raped or sexually assaulted?
  Just because there is no evidence doesn't mean you can't press charges. My perp has now been in jail for 9 months, and there was no physical evidence of the abuse. Don't stay silent! 15 of 16 rapists walk free (and are free to do it to someone else!...
  
  
• Birth Control or Morning After Pills?
  ^clarification: the morning after pill does not terminate a pregnancy. If you have ovulated, the egg was fertilized and then implanted in your uterine lining then the morning after pill will do nothing and your pregnancy will continue. Sperm can l...
  
  
• Birth Control or Morning After Pills? (100%)
  The morning after pill is basically a high dosage of birth control and is not reliable as as a contraceptive ""method"". Birthcontrol pills prevent pregnancy by supressing ovulation. (your body releasing an egg to get fertilized by sperm) The mo...
  
  
• Is singing a gift or a skill?
  It's a skill. What determines if you catch on is the connection you make in your brain between what you hear and what sound you produce. Other than that... it's all skill. xox Sika
  
  
• Pregnancy Tests
  I've always bought mine at the dollar store. Unless you want a superior test that can give you results earlier by detecting a smaller amount of HCG(human growth hormone), they are pretty much the same. The only difference between cheaper ones and ...
  
  
• Question about birth control
  As long as you take you 21 days of active pills correctly (on time with no vomiting or diarriah within 2 hours of taking them) You are protected for the 7 days of sugar pills. The only reason why there are sugar pills is to make you body mimick a pe...
  
  
• Trying for a baby more than three years, no luck, advice?
  the method is called fertility charting ^ Aside from waiting for a medical aid frm the doctor... you can always decide to adopt. xox Sika
  
  
• Tropical Community fish and breeding?
  They can breed more than once if the conditions are right. It depends on if your tropical fish are live bearers or egg layers. The off spring of both are suseptable when they are small to being eaten by mom and dad. (there are few parents that will ...
  
  
• Shaving your pubes
  You need to use a good shaving gel like bikini zone. The red dots are razor burn, you skin being irritated and getting little cuts from the razor. Try bikini zone's shaving gel and after shave. xox Sika
  
  
• When did I get pregnant?
  Premature ejaculation(cumming too quickly) and pre-ejaculatory fluid(pre-cum) are two very different things. Bottom line is... the withdrawal method is unreliable because pre-ejaculatory fluid may contain active sperm. xox Sika
  
  
• Sex Ed
  The best way to stop teen pregnancy and stds in kids is teaching prevention. So many people cry about abortions being murder and focus on making it illegal... when we don't even look at the cause - teens being uneducated about sex and contraceptives...
  
  
• When did I get pregnant?
  Just a bit of clarification... it is a very common misconception that precum contains sperm. Precum in its self does not contain sperm... however there can be active sperm from a previous ejaculation which will get "washed out" with the precum (espe...
  
  
• Where can I get my naval pierced without consent?
  It will be very hard to find a place... they can get fined and their liscence revoked if they are peircing minors without consent. A risk most places won't take. Even if their was a place that peirced without consent... you most certainly wouldn't f...
  
  
• Rape.
  Unless you were murdered I really don't think there is something worse. Rape may not seem violent but it's one of the most violent crimes. You can ease her mind by letting her know the fact she had a rape test kit done at the hospital ups her ch...
  
  
• Favorite tool song
  Tool is alright... but my absolute favorite song with maynard is Rev 22 20 from Pucifer. I love both versions... it's just a sultry song Other than that I'd have to say Laterlus because it's so intricate and like much of their music it has an off...
  
  
• Religious Fights
  I think a lot of people are spiritually inhibited by religon. I think free-thinkers are uninhibited in so many aspects and levels. xox Sika
  
  
• Aura sensing
  it's not just something you can learn. You have to be "sensitive" to it. xox Sika
  
  
• What do you call this piece of land?
  A pennisula? I don't think a bridge connecting an island really constitutes that though. A pennisula is like what Florida is. xox Sika
  
  
• Does the fairfax va walmart have external phone lines?
  You realize there are camera's practically everywhere in the parking lot, around the building and inside? Not to mention you could be prosecuted. xox Sika
  
  
• Residency in NC (100%)
  Make sure you have proof of your residency. You need some type of bill or bank statement with your name sent to the house you reside in. (then you can prove you've been there from that date on.) After 6months you can become a resident. xox Sika
  
  
• Sleeping in a Bra, Good or Bad
  Wearing a bra to sleep doesn't prevent sagging. That's a myth. It can however restrict the blood flow underneath your breasts, and also cause acne problems by bacteria being trapped there all the time. (and anytime you wear restrictive clothing c...
  
  
• I need four fish names!
  Zues, Apollo, Ares, Poseidon (greek gods) Yoda, Chubacca, Skywalker, Darth Vader (star wars) Leonardo, Michalangelo, Raphael, Donatello (ninja turtles.. also artists) Flounder, Spot, Sebastien, Urchin (characters from the Little mermaid tv series) ...
  
  
• Who has something against emo cutters?
  I do not respect anyone who results to self-harm to release their psychological demons. It's not productive and hurts more than just yourself. Therapy and counseling can be very tough but it is way more productive and effective at relieving that pain a...
  
  
• Single and pregnant
  On my 13th birthday my mom and dad sat me down and told me that my "dad" was not my real dad, that he adopted me and my real dad lived in another state. When I found out I was really upset and hurt at first. Why wouldn't my own dad want me? How coul...