Our Featured Advisor
My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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Dump him. If you think that therapy will work. It won't. I mean, it's like REALLY rare for therpay to work. But you might wanna try it and if in a few months or weeks (depending on how bad his abuse is) it doesn't work, then dump him.
Angelfire2708 is right. Friends with benefits is just sex. No strings attatched. It isn't only kissing. And NEVER try or even think about trying the sex with benefits thing. You could end up pregnant. Pregnant with a guy;s baby who you didn't even ...
There's probably nothing wrong. He might just be REALLY busy lately. But if you think that something truly wrong with him, then just ask.
Where did you get that she was 61 yrs. old? Her profile says that she's 14 or 15.
I've never been pregnant so I'm not sure but I'd say around maybe 3 months or so.
It was rape. Tell the cops. And if you told Alexis that you were raped and he didn't believe you or he was mad at you, he's not worth your time. AT ALL!! And about the pregnancy. Take a test. BUT DEFINITLEY TELL SOMEONE ABOUT THE RAPE.
It sound like you're not sure that you love him. Be sure you love him BEFORE you tell him that you do. Teenagers sometimes throw around the word ''love''.
I agree with the people above. You couldnt have lost EVERYTHING. You're only 14. You're still young. And if you feel like you've lost everything that matters, you'll gain other things that will matter to you.
''Alwaysandforever'', don't them never trust anyone!! I have people I've trusted for a VERY long time and they've NEVER let me down. Just because the people in YOUR life let YOU down, doesn't mean everyone in the world is like that!! And as for yo...
NEVER have sex with 2 guys at once. There are consequences. 1. You could get pregnant and not even know who the father is. Whe the baby grew up and wanted to know who it's dad was, you would have to say , ''Well honey, it's one of 2 men''. 2. Dis...
I think it would be okay if you moved in with your boyfriend. But I think you should wait to have sex with him until you're married to him. (that is if you haven't already had sex with him)
No. As long as he didn't come inside you, you CAN'T be pregnant,.
ALWAYS be yourself. Don't care what others think.
He's married?!! He's off limits! Didn't your mother teach you that?
Violence is NOT the answer. How would violence solve your problem? Honestly?
If the advisor you are refering to is sending you affensive messages, then you can report them. If they are threatening you or something. i seriously don't think that threats are aloud on this site. (at least, I hope not.)
People are under the impression that they are talking to Mandy Moore. For some un-known reason. I THINK that's who Mandy is.
I know! I hate it when girls do that. I mean, do they have no slef respect? But what can you do? If they want to post it, they're gonna post it.
Click on your user name that's at the top right hand corner and below your profile it'll show all the questions that you've asked.
I don't get that much fun- mail. But I wish I did.
Yeah, there's a thing in the top right-hand corner of the screen that says fun-mail. That's how I communicate with people on here when I want to.
Okay, you want to know why people REALLY come on this site? Well, why are YOU REALLY on this site? Because you had a question that needed an answer.
You're probably fighting so much because you got married SO young. And you had a baby SO young. You didn't have time to party like most 20 year olds do. I think that you and your husband should have a friend or relative watch the baby and then you an...
And your too young to have sex, so it shouldn't matter anyway.
I think it does. I'm a virgin so i don't know. But I think it does.
How about you don't try to MAKE him want you. I mean, have some self, respect! If he wants you, he wants you. And if he doesn't, then move on to someone who already does. Someone who you don't have to try so hard to impress.
Okay, so you don't remember what sex felt like that night with your bf? So I'm guessing that, that was the night you lost your virginity.
When you said ,''randyo man'', were you refering to ME as a man? Because I'm a girl.
Tell your mom and dad that you want some privacy. That you have the right to be alone with your girlfriend in your own room. They should understand that you do need your privacy. But then again, think about wheather or not you even love your girlfri...
Okay if you've cheated on him and he's cheated on you, then obviously you don't love each other. So you BOTH should just let go and fond someone else who makes you happy.
NO! Never kiss a guy if he's taken or/and if you're taken. You should know that that's wrong.
I agree with the person above.
I agree with ''angelfire2708''. (again)
Tell him. You'll never know how he feels if you don't take a chance. Right? I mean, he is taken, so don't like try to kiss him or anything. Just tell him how you feel. And see what his reaction is.
Some probably do. And some probably don't. I don't know,
Just tell him how you feel. You'll never know how he feels if you don't take that chance.
I agree with ''angelfire2708''. (as always)
I'm speechless.Honestly. How could you POSSIBLY think that cheating on your husband will make you feel better? He's looked at a little p*rn. So what? Almost ALL guys do that. And you said something about maybe wanting a divorce? Well,if you still...
Nope. I'd say that they're more around 9 years old if they honestly don't know what sex is. If you were really 27, you would already know. (Considering I'm 14 and EVEN I know what sex is.)
MAKE him get counseling. Tell him how important it is to you that he gets help. Tell him he needs to stop drinking so that you two canhave kids some day and you won't have to worry about him being drunnk around your kids. My dad had a drinking prob...
I know some guys are obsessed with sex. But not ALL of them are. Some girls are obsessed with sex too. It's not just guys. And I don't know why they are obsessed with sex.
Not ALL guys are idiots. Women can be just as bad. And there ARE some really good guys out there. And I know some of them.
I agree with everyone else above.
No. And you shouldn't even being doing that ''friends with benefits'' thing. I mean, what if you got pregnant. You would pregnant with a guy's baby, who you didn't even love. Would sex really be worth that?
And you said you THINK you love this girl. Not that you KNOW you love her. You should be SURE that you love her before you even consider going anywhere else with her.
''angelfire2708'' is JUST being honest. Some of her advice, might be a little harsh, but people should take it. It's good advice. And as for her question, she might just have been wondering. Doesn't mean that's what she thinks. Here's my input o...
I agree with ''angelfire2708''. And I think others on here will too.
Just leave her alone for a little while. All teenagers NEED their space. I mean, just because you don't spend every second together doesn't mean you're not friends anymore.
I agree with everyone else above me.
Either he's only flirting or he likes you. I mean come on. He rests his hand onyour legs. He hugs you before your next class when he's probably going to see you in an hour. I think he likes you. Ask him.