Our Featured Advisor
hey im jasmine
ive got blue and black hair now
when ive got air in my lungs
and a skateboard in my hand... im happy
i love to skate
and i collect skateboards as well (73 so far)
im an artist...i paint, sew, draw, create ect
as well as that i also make dolls, jewellery, clothes, shoes, bags, hats and just about everything else
I love Piercings! I have got 36 of them
no tatts yet though = no money either
i love riding skateboards from the 1970's
i like spandex pants!
I play guitar and drums
I can juggle, and do lots of other stuff
Im pretty old fashioned and old-school
I love horror, I sleep in a car bed
i like to wear stupid looking hats
i always wear the same jeans
and I definantly don’t take life too seriously
i love ZOMBIES! :D
and i love romance in almost all its forms
I don’t believe in any religion
i dont respect any of it either
...words dont hurt me
I do what i love, and dress how i feel
I pretty much live in a world of my own...
and were all mad here :]
i know a lot about a lot of different things,
so im just hear to give you all advice :]
randyo's Advice
Ew! That's disgusting. Even if they're like you're half sister or half brother, they're still you're sister or your brother.
It doesn't hurt guys. And if she's going away, don't sleep with her. You'll regret it and it's kinda whorish. (no offense meant at all) Just wait a little while. Don't rush things. My true advice, wait till your married.
You're 15. And to answer the general question, yes you are way too young. Just cause you love him does mean you gotta sleep with him. Show him your love in every other way. Kiss him for no reason. Or tell him you love him. Cuddle just cause. And y...
You're 15. You don't need to be having sex right now. You need to focus on school right now. You're too young.
Good question.
Is your friend your age? Is she having sex? If you two are really close then you should be able to just ask her. If she is, maybe she's not the kind of person you should be hanging around./ I mean 13 and pregnant?
Well, if you don't know how to "ride a guy" maybe that's a sign that at what? 15. you shouldn't be having sex at all. You don't know enough about it.
Report him. Tell the principal.That's just wrong. And also tell you're parents. And NEVER allow yourself to be alone with him EVER.
Well if she hasn't had sex at age 26, that's fine. I'll support her in that choice. But never being kissed? Never having a boyfriend? Never moving away from mom? That's kinda creepy. I don't know what else to tell you what to do other than get her a t...
I know it'll sound dorky and she might be mad at you for a while but what I'm about to say is in her best interest. Tell her parents ALL of this. Plain and simple, just tell them. She might get grounded or something. But it's better than someone drug...
She shouldn't lead the guy on. Plain and simple. It's just wrong. Either way, she's letting her ex win by letting it bug her so much that she'd want to make him jealous.
You said something like what? Oh My God? And she's kicking you out for it? That so wrong.
Yes!! That is so wrong. What's wrong with having twins? Okay, double diaper changes, double feedings. But also, double laughs, double adventures, double the smiles and double the love. It's so wrong to one, give ANY baby up for adoption. And two, to ch...
Whenever you feel it's time and whenever you KNOW that you're in love and will be with that person for the rest of your life.
If you really have to ask HOW to have sex, then you shouldn't do it at all. Grow up a little bit. And maybe ask your parents about this.Not people you don't even know, on line.
what hurts so much? why WHAT makes me happy???!!!
I tihnk at 13 it's ok, to be in love. But just cause you love her, doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. Show her you love her in other ways. Send her flowers for o reason. Kiss her just because. Or hold her just cause.Stuff like that. She'll ...
He probably just wants a booty call. You have to remember that in friendship, your best friend comes first. Don't EVER let a guy come between you.
Well, friends fight. And you probably don't actually hate her, you're just mad at her when you feel that way.
If you don't know how, then don't have sex. That's a sign you're not ready. And you don't sound 18 or older, like your profile says.
If you two had sex and then he broke up with you, then he was just using you because he wanted sex. That's all he wanted. And yeah, he would and should get in BIG trouble for having sex with a 14 year old.
You want to give your body because some boys hurt your feelings? That's wrong. That;'s not revenge. That's showing them that they got to you. Just hold your head up high and move on. Not to be harsh, but it's called the ''high road'' not the ''ho ro...
I don't want a fat guy. But I don't want someone who's just skin&bones either. But to me, lokos don't matter that much.
Honestly, I think it's really stupid to have sex at 14, but since it's already happened to you, there's really no point in telling you that. Um, but, I don't believe in abortion. In my eyes, it's killing a human being. Wheather that human is in the wor...
If they're happy being gay, let them be gay. Notihng wrong with it. Whatever makes them happy.
Well, do you love him? If not, don't have sex with him. And he's your ex? Come on. Don't give it up that easy. Sounds like you need to (and I know it sounds geeky, but it's what you need to do, for your own good) talk to your parents about this situat...
no. have sex when you're in love, ready, and married. No sooner.
If he would break up with you over sex, then break up with him because he doesn't love you. He can't reall ylove you if he isn't willing to wait as long as you want. Dump him. he isn't worth it and you ca do better. And don't lt anyone pressure you in...
Eww. No it isn't okay. You need therapy for that.
It doesn't mean you're a slut unless you didn't love who you had sex with. I count that as being a slut.. But it's a sign (if you're to tight) that you're not ready yet. At 13, you can't be.
Find another boyfriend. You know that girl that asked who he was talkin' to, wasn't just as he called you,''a friend''. He wouldn't have called you,''a friend'', if something wasn;t going' on between them. He would've said,''I;m talkin' to my girlfri...
No. Not if you're just talking. There;s nothing wrong with talking. Just don;t get physical. . . . At all.
No. Virginity doesn't define who you are.At all. Not when you're a teen-ager, not when you're in your 20's. Have sex when your ready and DO NOT give into peir pressure. You'll regret it in the end.
You're DEFINITLEY NOT 24 years. old!! If you're scared then don't have sex. That's a sign that you're not ready. Your body might feel like it's ready, but that doesn't mean that you're mentally ready to have sex yet. And just ;cause you want to (and ...
I know she's your wife and you love her, but leave her. Don't try to make it work for the kids. How well could they really grow up if they grow up around a failing marriage? And I don't think your wife could really love you or else she wouldn't be ch...
what was the question?
3some is NOT a good way. Do you really want your husband having sex with another woman. At all, but ESPECIALLY right in front of you,. Come on.
I agree with spartan, too.
Leave him alone. He's a cheater. He has a girlfriend. Let's say he dumps his current girlfriend for you, how would you know that every time he leaves the house he wasn't going to his OTHER girlfriend's house? Sorry to break it to ya, but you're techni...
He cheated. He cheated on you. And you think YOU were the wrong one? No. He supposedly loved you. I don't believe that if you truly love a person, you can even consider, thinking, about cheating on them. That's not love. You weren't wrong at all. Ju...
What? You slipped up and fell in love? Maybe it's the blonde talking but I don't understand the question.
Sounds like you're just the smart one in your group of friends. Don't let them pressure you into doing ANYTHING you don't want or aren't ready to do. Just listen to your heart, not your friends. If your heart says it's wrong and crazy, then it's wron...
Tell him all this.
Well you shouldn't want to have sex with her if you do'nt like her anymore. Break up with her. If you're interested anymore, then there's no reason to lead her on like that.
Don't get a boyfriend just to fit in. If you like being single, then stay single. Don't change for ANYONE.
I would #1, break up with the guy in jail. If he's dead I KNOW you shouldn't be with him and if he's gay, you SHOULDN'T be with him. And #2 I would go on a dating vacation right now. Just take some time off and enjoy being single for a couple weeks.
You should've thought about all that BEFORE having sex.
I don't even give my real name when on-line. I don't give out my e-mail address. And vefore I get online my Mom knows what site I' going to.
If you really love him, then marry him. You're 18 now, and your parents (legally) can't control you. If you really think with that big of an age difference your love and marriage can last, then forget what your parents said and marry him.
No. I don't think so. If it's love, why should it hurt at all?