pinkpearl's Advice

• One day I met a sweet gentleman and fell in love...
  It's an oldie but a goodie... I first heard it in 1972 and the man was the one who was blindfolded, lol...
  
  
• How to Prevent getting Carsick? (100%)
  Don't read, and do try to always look ahead, in the direction the car is going. If you have your driver;s license, offer to drive some of the way. I think it's only as a passenger that you experience nausea, but not 100% sure.
  
  
• When do you think lying is ok?
  Honesty is sometimes overrated. Everyone lies every day. We lie to protect peoples' feelings, we lie because we don't want questions asked, we lie when we embellish a story slightly, we lie when we tell our new prospective employer what salary we w...
  
  
• See-through Shirts?
  It's 2008. People are still way way too prudish and offended by too much. I've been chastised for my nipples being seen under a shirt. I hate wearing bras but I rarely feel that I have the freedom to go around braless because of people being judgement...
  
  
• Belly Hair around naval, attractive?
  The guys who ARE attracted to hair on a woman (and there are many many of them) say that they've discovered that the hairier a girl is, the more sexual she is. The funny thing is that when you do find one of these men, they will be almost out of contr...
  
  
• Unfaithful and my daughter will suffer (100%)
  I think you need to confront him about the email and ask him what's been going on. Maybe there's a chance it can save your marriage. But you need to have some very open communication with him at this stressful time... Consider both of you going to a...
  
  
• Hubby won't have sex
  Before you leave, try to get to the bottom of the no-sex thing. It's not normal at all. Does he say he doesn't find you sexually appealing? Did he at some point? Have you thought of going to a sex therapist (both of you)? Surely you owe your marriage ...
  
  
• What do I do? (100%)
  He wanted casual sex and he got it. You need to cut your losses and shut that door... forget about him. If you have to see him every day, also act like nothing happened. He used you. In his defence, he may have also thought you just wanted sex, and n...
  
  
• Advice on Peeling Lips?
  You might find that one particular lipstick is doing the damage. I usually buy $6 lipsticks and got talked into buying some darn $17 thing that tastes like perfume. It feels nice on my lips because it's so soft and full of moisture, but the next day, m...
  
  
• Shaving Down There ?
  1. sharp new razor 2. shave in the direction of the hair 3. lots of lotion during 4. lots of cold water after
  
  
• My crush is ignoring me
  He's not interested in you, and sounds kind of rude... I don't think you should pay him any more attention at all. Let him do the running after you, or not at all. Keep your pride intact with this one. Why did he "tell" you to be there? Just for his...
  
  
• Does this mean you're ugly?
  Whats this obsession with quantity? There is a relationship between quantity and quality. As one drops, the other rises.
  
  
• Ditch her or not? Part 2
  Someone's father is willing to drive you 9 hours away? Wow. That seems mighty generous. Will he also drive you if you go for the rich girl's tickets?
  
  
• Parents and sex?
  LOL, tell them sex is just for people under 30 and they should be logging in more hours watching TV non stop. Seriously... give them some privacy. They'd be horrified if they knew you could hear. Try to tell them when you'll be home or out or for ...
  
  
• What is the sexiest part of a man's body?
  A nice pair of lips... Dextrous hands A good flank. You know that sexy area.
  
  
• Very Silly or Very Serious, which would you date?
  VERY VERY silly. Serious people can cause too much anxiety. Silly people can be smacked around!
  
  
• Why are girls obsessed with make-up and fashion?
  I think it's exciting to see that transformation take place... it's a form of creativity. But the problem with wearing a lot, all the time, is that when anyone sees your real face they run for cover, lol. Well it feels like it, sometimes... "Are y...
  
  
• Write a song (100%)
  Usually the music comes first, and then the words, according to many songwriting teams I have known. You could probably find a songwriter's guild online... but it has to be in a style that would suit your band...
  
  
• Family-in-law crisis
  Wow. It will take tremendous courage, civilty and class for you to go to this wedding and pretend none of this happened. You will be the better person for it. Your sister in law has said some terrible things to you. But if you can handle this, then ...
  
  
• My dog died and it's been so hard on me (100%)
  I think we often ask ourselves why we get so attached to our pets and why it hurts so much when they're gone. It really does seem to be one of the most painful things in life. I wonder if its partly because of the limited communication we have wit...
  
  
• How old were you the first time you got drunk?
  15. More drinking from 15 to 18 than in the entire rest of my life. And the rest of my life is a lot.
  
  
• Boy or girl
  There is something weird with a wedding ring... it's tied to a thread and and then held over you (your tummy?) and if it goes around in circles, its a girl, if it goes straight, back and forth, it's a boy. I;ve no idea why or how but it seems to work, ...
  
  
• Boyfriend got me a cellphone but gave me lots of rules (100%)
  The last thing you said is the most important. << I dont know what to do. Im afriad that if I try breaking up with him he will hurt me.>> I think you know, then, that you're only staying with him because you're scared to leave. The cell pho...
  
  
• Is text sex normal?
  Normal yes but the laws of supply and demand are not in your favour, lol.
  
  
• Sore calf muscles
  The passage of time... lol. Sorry, I don't think there's another way. The more you work out, the better it will get.
  
  
• Is it bad to go to bed with wet hair?
  no, I do it all the time. Damp hair, my hair is fine and useless unless I sleep with it damp.
  
  
• Trying to get off the bottle
  I had this problem with my son when he was 3 as well. But that was a long time ago and I was using Playtex bottle bags. We suddenly "ran out" of them. I took him aside and told him we didn't have any, and acted quite alarmed. He cried but said he thou...
  
  
• One thing you love & one thing you hate?
  I love painted red toenails on tanned feet I hate housework.
  
  
• Preference Stops - The main cause of fight ends !
  I think ego is the main cause of fights.
  
  
• Sister steals food (100%)
  LOL I can see how that's annoying. I have a friend who thinks nothing of standing by the counter when I'm carving a roast, and helping herself to tidbits, crispy bits, etc. I think it's rude. Your sister's still young though and she probably really loo...