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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.

mizzsmith's Advice
thanks all of you :)im going to ask after da break and see I hope I gain the guts to
yes it is the problem... but you already answered your own question you said : "this started going out with my boy friend who is 4 years older then me." you know what the problem is already but the question is what are you going to do about it...
some gurls like tough boys because dey think that dey cool or they want someone to stand up for them like beat some one up but some boys only act like that because that is what some gurls like and I guess you cant change want a girl wants... but nice b...
I konw what you mean its suks those feelings that you have about yourself but just know that everyone is beautiful in their own way and you are to... and im not gay :) im just saying what I mean
well its just doubt really I do it all the time but you just have to know that god made you his own way and you are beautiful on your way dont care about what other people say about you and dont tell your self your ugly or you start to think like that ...
that was good you should put it on poetry.com
truthfully... I don't think your mom wants you to live with him because of his age and because basically it's just going to be you and him in the house I am sure she trust you but you can never trust a boys hormones and she is your mom she just wants y...
truthfully... I don't think your mom wants you to live with him because of his age and because basically it's just going to be you and him in the house I am sure she trust you but you can never trust a boys hormones and she is your mom she just wants y...
that is very true texaskimmie thanks
thank you all for your advice im sure its going to work im flying with my grams and uncle so I'll have someone to talk to and I will bring my headphones so I can listen to music thank all of you and have a merry x mas or honica
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amans13 what do you she should be thankful that someone went to their country and did charity work because they did not ask for chairty they ask for help if a country was suffering from loss of food you dont do it out of chairity you do it because you ...
this is to links2thedr you cannot voice your opion reffering to all muslims not all muslims are like that in the first place and to say that they pray 5 times a day just to repent for all the sins they commeted is wrong I see you believe in god so if s...
this is to amans 13 if you say what you just said and then say no offense its likely you dont mean it because you wouldnt of said it in the first place people have their different religions and their own options on which to base their religions she was...
well just ask your mom when are you allowed to drive, but I think she just scared, did she ever have any bad experiences with a car or has any one she loved died in a car wreck if the answer is yes then she just trying to protect you in her own way but...
just sit her down and tell her whats going on if you delay you will only feel worse and if you tell her a least its the truth sometimes the truth hurts but sometimes the truth is the best thing it may hurt her but at least you told her and who knows th...
I think you should talk to your parents and see what makes them think that almost everything you do is wrong.
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I dont think there is a sub for religion in any world though you can make something be your own replacement for it do you have a change of mind in religions or do you want to find a replacement
your bi because you want to be dont listen to anyone who has a problem with that if your friend dosent understand you or accept give her some time but it is ok if it makes you happy what eles matters
thanks... how are you
I agree with kay kay you should tone down the flirting with other guys because if he likes you back then hes not going to want to ask you if he sees you flirting with other guys and I really think that you should tell him if you really like him because...
thanks for the advice I'm going to tell her when I build up the courage to xxx
sit your parents down and just tell them I'm pretty sure they'll get mad but your their daughter and your having a baby either way thats sweet that a guy said he will help you take care of your babies and their not that many boys around that would say ...
well be honest with your mom and tell her what you dont like about him and how her boyfriend is not good for her tell her but then you have to think what affect this situation will have on your mom and see if she really does love him because if she do...
when I write poetry I just go somewhere else like when you do something you love your in your own little state thats how I am and its beautiful it flows and sometimes it comes out to be a Mona Lisa
do you think he said he dosent love you for only that reason if he did then lower whatever you are doing down when you but if he dosent want to go back with you,your going to have to move on dont hold to something thats not going to work but if he does...
if you want a baby its going to be your responsibility but I think that your to young wait a little while if someone says theres something missing in your life dont jump to getting pregnant
there is no reason you should be trying to convince them of this there are your grandparents and he is your boyfriend there not going to trust him even if he is a good boy both of you are teens you both grow physically and I'm pretty sure they don't wa...
well just talk to your dad about it dont get rude with him and dont talk to your dad about you and your boyfriend kissing thats is a big no... no dad wants their daughter to grow up fast and thats just dads they want to know your safe and protected tha...
well I think you should stay she was making a point and if she let you stay them she loves you and dose not want to see you go because she would of just let you leave but she didnt
its not an award age gap at all if you really like her get to know her my parents had a 10 year gap but they were both over 18 so I dont see anything wrong with it go for it :) as they say reach for the stars
yes it is the same as cheating you helped the person and you know what he or she was doing its not right to cheat if you cheat your hurting yourself as well as the one your cheating on
well I feel that people should go with whoever they choose because we have a will and you will have people in your life that are still racist but you just dont listen to them they dont like what they see but not everyone is like that so dont bother you...
well if she knows what she doing she will keep on doing it unless you put your foot down my brother used to do the same thing know he has a toddler bed and he dosent get out of it he just lays there because he knows not to get down you have to let your...
well dont go out rushing for a relationship the best way is to have friendship it always counts I had this boyfriend and we broke up but we were friends first and we still are good friends nothing has changed even though we are broken up
well call him and tell him why you want him back be truthful to him and make sure hes the same towards you if you really love him because it sounds like love dont hold anything back just when you tell him let everything out and I know this is hard but ...
may you please ask your question clearer... thanks
well first just be there friend dont act different around them they know that your just being nice and personally ask yourself this if you had it would you want people to change around you? and ask them what they want what they want to talk about wh...
well to some people it dose not matter but to some it does so it varieys
doing good... look for a cute guy a good personality an person you can rely on when they do something that you like for you or something nice sometimes taking up for you when you do something insane or just point out stupid well its all of t...