How can I tell my Mom I'm 13 and pregnant and want the baby?
If you are 13, there is no way you would make a good parent. You need to realize that you're obviously not ready for having a child or even for sex. You can't even afford to live on your own. Why in the world would you think it would be a good idea ...
Guys: What turns you on about girls?
We have no idea what will turn this guy on. We're not mind readers, and guys are not clones. You'll just have to get to know him better and find out what he likes.
Why won't my weight change?
Well, the obvious answer is that your diet is garbage. Of course your weight isn't going to be healthy when you eat like that. Starving yourself just makes your body think it is dying.. That means your body will go into starvation mode, and you burn...
How can I get my girlfriend's friends to give me a handjob?
It's ok to want to experiment sexually. People like different things. However, if your girlfriend isn't even comfortable talking to her friends about it, she probably isn't really comfortable enough with the idea to actually do it. Maybe she will be...
Is it bad to love a girl that was a slut?
Well, I can tell you one thing, it probably would not be a very strong relationship if you're going around calling her a "slut."
What's happened to the teens of today?
What do you mean "the teens of today?" This stuff is certainly nothing new. Just because you were going to grandma's house does not mean everyone else was. Teens were having sex when I was growing up, they were having sex when my mother was growing ...
Should I go to the Doctor if I think I'm pregnant?
If you're sexually active, you should be seeing an ob-gyn anyway. All girls are supposed to see one when they become sexually active. So ask your ob-gyn if everything looks ok and have her do a pregnancy test.
Bleeding during sexual activity is com...
What other than birth control will ease my heavy period?
Depo really is not a good option, even if she was open to taking birth control. The Depo shot is very dangerous. The FDA does not recommend Depo for teens (which our original poster said she is) or young adults. The FDA also does not recommend anyon...
Can a guy tell if you're a virgin by looking?
Having a baby can stretch the vagina, having sex will not. Even huge penises are not the size of your average newborn baby.
How tight or loose the vagina feels may change temporarily though. The vagina expands when a woman is in the mood. If sh...
Why am I having brown discharge?
I agree with the others, sounds like it just might be some blood and discharge. Probably nothing to worry about, but let your ob-gyn know about it just in case. Did you have a checkup after the abortion?
How is my friend claiming to be straight?
It's certainly possible that she is gay or bisexual but denies it. Tough to say since we can't read her mind! If you really want answers, your best bet would be to talk to her about it.
How can I get my boyfriend to stop hurting me with bondage?
If you're not into it, and he is breaking your bones, I would suggest getting out of the relationship altogether. He sounds dangerous and abusive. Bondage is not about abusing an unwilling partner.
How can I find religion and stick with it?
I agree with the other posters. Don't let other people shape your opinion and beliefs. People interpret the Bible in a wide variety of ways.
If you believe in God, you can still mast*rbate and look at p*rnography. Masturbation is actually good ...
Can we be together with this age difference?
The law refers to sexual activity, not just dating. So you two can date all you want as long as you are not sexually active. If you were to become sexually active any time soon, it would be a felony.
That being said, I cannot imagine what an 18 ye...
Is my penis a good size?
Average adult size is about six inches. That being said, many guys are below or above average. It really does not matter though. People aren't just pulling your leg when they say, "size does not matter."
Women usually orgasm from clitoral stimu...
Which is better: prenatal or folic acid vitamins?
Sika and monica are right. Vitamins don't make you get pregnant. They just make birth defects less likely to occur.
That's great that you want to take vitamins for your baby, but it sounds like you should learn more about prenatal development befo...
Can you get a kissing disease from a player?(100.00%)
Germs are easily passed on through kissing. So you could get mono and various other things like colds and the flu.
However, as has already been pointed out, just because he has kissed many people does not mean he necessarily has anything. Someone...
Why do people pick such awful terms?
I agree. I really don't like slang words for sex, sexual organs, sexual acts, etc. I have even noticed that some people use slang words that they don't even fully understand, so they're used in completely the wrong context, which makes it very diffic...
Is there a difference in keeping your virginity or not?
People are ready at different times. Never rush into sex. There's a lot to know before you can have it responsibly. You can try looking at some educational websites like www.coolnurse.com.
How can I make my breasts bigger?
Breast size is largely genetic. Larger breasts don't really do anything substantial anyway, so there is no logical reason to want to change your breast size. Nothing is wrong with being a 34A.
Am I having an orgasm?(100.00%)
Yes, it sounds like it might have been an orgasm. It's usually not too difficult to stimulate the clitoris. Some many girls have orgasms just by rubbing on things, even when they are fully clothed.
Why do I still bleed when I have sex?
More women orgasm through oral sex than any other way, so that is not unusual at all.
For the bleeding, you can try a water-based lubricant. Bleeding is sometimes a result of tears in the vagina from being too dry. If that does not take care of th...
How do I know if my hymen has been broken?
If you're curious about your hymen, you can simply grab a mirror and look at it!
It's probably torn by now. Most girls tear their hymen in childhood or around puberty from tampons, fingers, running, etc. It really does not matter and should not co...
Do people think I'm a slut since I got pregnant at 14?
That's an opinion. Personally, I would not call someone a slut for getting pregnant at 14. I would say that they might be irresponsible, however, since most 14 year olds are certainly not capable of caring for and raising a child.
How do you have oral sex?
There's no right or wrong way to have oral sex. People like different things in bed. If you're not comfortable experimenting with someone or asking them what they like, then I would not suggest doing anything sexual with them.
How long does implantation bleeding or spotting lasts?
Implantation bleeding usually just lasts a day or two at most, not fourteen days. If you think you are pregnant and are still spotting that much, make sure you talk to your ob-gyn about it.
Should we be engaged if we fight?
Everyone has flaws and most couples argue at least a little. However, if you're feeling unsure or like things just aren't quite right, then I would not suggest getting married anytime soon.
When should I make the move?
People and relationships move at different paces. Don't feel like you have to do something just because other people are. Try talking to your girlfriend about it. Ask her what she wants to do and what she would feel comfortable with. Don't worry ab...
Did my boyfriend break my hymen or am I a virgin?
Hymens have nothing to do with sex or virginity. Most girls tear or stretch their hymen in childhood or around puberty from fingers, tampons, and even running and jumping. If you had sex, you are not a virgin whether your hymen is intact or not.
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What are some tips to make a guy get the most pleasure possible ?
I agree with deathlydelights. If you want to know how to please your partner, you'll have to ask him, not us. Guys like a wide variety of things in bed, and we just don't know what your guy likes!
Has anyone read All Quiet on the Western Front?
Are you trying to get us to do your homework for you? :P
I have not read the book. If you want to tell us a bit about it, we might be able to brainstorm with you a bit though.
How can I make sex less painful?
Sex should never hurt, first time or otherwise. If it does, it means something is not quite right.
The most common cause of pain during sex is lack of lubrication. A lot of first timers have pain simply because they don't know about their own body....
What if I'm 13 and want sex?
Before having sex you have to:
-Know about reproductive anatomy
-Know about your birth control options
-Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use
-Know about STDs and how they are transmitted
-Have a plan for what you woul...
How do I know if my girlfriend's cherry has been popped?
If you want to know about the state of her hymen, simply look at it.
I can't imagine why it would matter what her hymen looks like though. The hymen serves no purpose and absolutely is not an indicator of sexual activity since many girls tear or ...
What if my boyfriend has more experience?
If you're embarrassed, then it means you are not ready. When you are ready, you will feel comfortable with your partner. You will be able to talk to him and say things like, "I have never done this before," or "Let me know what feels good and what do...
How long does implantation bleeding last?
Are you talking about how long implantation bleeding would last? Implantation bleeding is usually fairly light and often just lasts a day or two.
How can I know if my wife is a virgin?
The vagina stays the same before and after sex. So the only way to know about her sexual history is to ask her. If you can't trust her answer, then you should not be married to her to begin with.
How do I find out if he's really serious in this relationship?
I don't blame him for wanting an abortion. At 15 and 17, there is no way you two can raise a child properly. It would be extremely selfish to have a child at that age. I hope you are using protection.
Just because he lives thirty minutes away do...
Can I still be pregnant if I got my period?
Most women do not get their period when they are pregnant, but some actually do. So the only way to know would be to take a pregnancy test.
Why does my vagina smell?
The vagina is supposed to have a smell to it. However, if you notice your smell is very strong or foul, check with your ob-gyn just in case as that can be a sign of infection.
llewellyn's Advice
No, tongue size does not matter. If you both want to try an*l play, then go for it.
If you are 13, there is no way you would make a good parent. You need to realize that you're obviously not ready for having a child or even for sex. You can't even afford to live on your own. Why in the world would you think it would be a good idea ...
We have no idea what will turn this guy on. We're not mind readers, and guys are not clones. You'll just have to get to know him better and find out what he likes.
Well, the obvious answer is that your diet is garbage. Of course your weight isn't going to be healthy when you eat like that. Starving yourself just makes your body think it is dying.. That means your body will go into starvation mode, and you burn...
It's ok to want to experiment sexually. People like different things. However, if your girlfriend isn't even comfortable talking to her friends about it, she probably isn't really comfortable enough with the idea to actually do it. Maybe she will be...
I agree with angel. If you can't even talk to him, then I think you already know what kind of relationship you have.
Well, I can tell you one thing, it probably would not be a very strong relationship if you're going around calling her a "slut."
What do you mean "the teens of today?" This stuff is certainly nothing new. Just because you were going to grandma's house does not mean everyone else was. Teens were having sex when I was growing up, they were having sex when my mother was growing ...
If you're sexually active, you should be seeing an ob-gyn anyway. All girls are supposed to see one when they become sexually active. So ask your ob-gyn if everything looks ok and have her do a pregnancy test. Bleeding during sexual activity is com...
Depo really is not a good option, even if she was open to taking birth control. The Depo shot is very dangerous. The FDA does not recommend Depo for teens (which our original poster said she is) or young adults. The FDA also does not recommend anyon...
Having a baby can stretch the vagina, having sex will not. Even huge penises are not the size of your average newborn baby. How tight or loose the vagina feels may change temporarily though. The vagina expands when a woman is in the mood. If sh...
Sounds like a pimple. You can talk to an ob-gyn if it does not go away on its own.
I agree with the others, sounds like it just might be some blood and discharge. Probably nothing to worry about, but let your ob-gyn know about it just in case. Did you have a checkup after the abortion?
It's certainly possible that she is gay or bisexual but denies it. Tough to say since we can't read her mind! If you really want answers, your best bet would be to talk to her about it.
If you're not into it, and he is breaking your bones, I would suggest getting out of the relationship altogether. He sounds dangerous and abusive. Bondage is not about abusing an unwilling partner.
I agree with the other posters. Don't let other people shape your opinion and beliefs. People interpret the Bible in a wide variety of ways. If you believe in God, you can still mast*rbate and look at p*rnography. Masturbation is actually good ...
The law refers to sexual activity, not just dating. So you two can date all you want as long as you are not sexually active. If you were to become sexually active any time soon, it would be a felony. That being said, I cannot imagine what an 18 ye...
Average adult size is about six inches. That being said, many guys are below or above average. It really does not matter though. People aren't just pulling your leg when they say, "size does not matter." Women usually orgasm from clitoral stimu...
Sika and monica are right. Vitamins don't make you get pregnant. They just make birth defects less likely to occur. That's great that you want to take vitamins for your baby, but it sounds like you should learn more about prenatal development befo...
Germs are easily passed on through kissing. So you could get mono and various other things like colds and the flu. However, as has already been pointed out, just because he has kissed many people does not mean he necessarily has anything. Someone...
I agree. I really don't like slang words for sex, sexual organs, sexual acts, etc. I have even noticed that some people use slang words that they don't even fully understand, so they're used in completely the wrong context, which makes it very diffic...
People are ready at different times. Never rush into sex. There's a lot to know before you can have it responsibly. You can try looking at some educational websites like www.coolnurse.com.
Breast size is largely genetic. Larger breasts don't really do anything substantial anyway, so there is no logical reason to want to change your breast size. Nothing is wrong with being a 34A.
Yes, it sounds like it might have been an orgasm. It's usually not too difficult to stimulate the clitoris. Some many girls have orgasms just by rubbing on things, even when they are fully clothed.
More women orgasm through oral sex than any other way, so that is not unusual at all. For the bleeding, you can try a water-based lubricant. Bleeding is sometimes a result of tears in the vagina from being too dry. If that does not take care of th...
I don't blame him. I would not want to pee in front of other people either. That's just creepy. Let him use the stall if he wants to.
Of course it's not wrong. People have sex drives. That's normal.
If you're curious about your hymen, you can simply grab a mirror and look at it! It's probably torn by now. Most girls tear their hymen in childhood or around puberty from tampons, fingers, running, etc. It really does not matter and should not co...
That's an opinion. Personally, I would not call someone a slut for getting pregnant at 14. I would say that they might be irresponsible, however, since most 14 year olds are certainly not capable of caring for and raising a child.
There's no right or wrong way to have oral sex. People like different things in bed. If you're not comfortable experimenting with someone or asking them what they like, then I would not suggest doing anything sexual with them.
Just come right out and tell him. If you can have sex with him, you certainly should be able to talk to him by now.
Implantation bleeding usually just lasts a day or two at most, not fourteen days. If you think you are pregnant and are still spotting that much, make sure you talk to your ob-gyn about it.
Everyone has flaws and most couples argue at least a little. However, if you're feeling unsure or like things just aren't quite right, then I would not suggest getting married anytime soon.
People and relationships move at different paces. Don't feel like you have to do something just because other people are. Try talking to your girlfriend about it. Ask her what she wants to do and what she would feel comfortable with. Don't worry ab...
Take a pregnancy test. That's the only way to know.
The only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. Make sure you are using protection every single time.
No, that's not even remotely true. The hymen has nothing to do with pregnancy. If you want to learn about hymens, read this: http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
Hymens have nothing to do with sex or virginity. Most girls tear or stretch their hymen in childhood or around puberty from fingers, tampons, and even running and jumping. If you had sex, you are not a virgin whether your hymen is intact or not. ...
Sounds normal to me.
I agree with deathlydelights. If you want to know how to please your partner, you'll have to ask him, not us. Guys like a wide variety of things in bed, and we just don't know what your guy likes!
Are you trying to get us to do your homework for you? :P I have not read the book. If you want to tell us a bit about it, we might be able to brainstorm with you a bit though.
Sex should never hurt, first time or otherwise. If it does, it means something is not quite right. The most common cause of pain during sex is lack of lubrication. A lot of first timers have pain simply because they don't know about their own body....
Before having sex you have to: -Know about reproductive anatomy -Know about your birth control options -Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use -Know about STDs and how they are transmitted -Have a plan for what you woul...
If you want to know about the state of her hymen, simply look at it. I can't imagine why it would matter what her hymen looks like though. The hymen serves no purpose and absolutely is not an indicator of sexual activity since many girls tear or ...
If you're embarrassed, then it means you are not ready. When you are ready, you will feel comfortable with your partner. You will be able to talk to him and say things like, "I have never done this before," or "Let me know what feels good and what do...
Are you talking about how long implantation bleeding would last? Implantation bleeding is usually fairly light and often just lasts a day or two.
The vagina stays the same before and after sex. So the only way to know about her sexual history is to ask her. If you can't trust her answer, then you should not be married to her to begin with.
I don't blame him for wanting an abortion. At 15 and 17, there is no way you two can raise a child properly. It would be extremely selfish to have a child at that age. I hope you are using protection. Just because he lives thirty minutes away do...
Most women do not get their period when they are pregnant, but some actually do. So the only way to know would be to take a pregnancy test.
The vagina is supposed to have a smell to it. However, if you notice your smell is very strong or foul, check with your ob-gyn just in case as that can be a sign of infection.