Is it time for us to break up?
Are you serious?! Come on, the person above me is right, doesn't even sound like a relationship to me! You can't be with someone you don't like to hang out with, or who you don't want to see you online! That's ridiculous, pick up and move on because th...
when everything else seem to matter more to him than me
So you're upset because he doesn't put an an extreme effort to call or see you- this would be a very very reasonable issue IF you were in a serious relationship. However, you're not. As he said, he's not ready for a serious relationship, which clearly ...
exboyfriend
He can't truly love you if he's never seen your face, there are certain intimacies with love that would be impossible to come by if you've never even met the person. He sounds awfully desperate for a girlfriend, and if you don't want to then don't! The...
when everything else seem to matter more to him than me
Why don't you try telling him everything you just wrote? Be honest, let him know what you're confused about and where you think he's possibly slipping up- and be open to the possibility that you've made a few mistakes yourself as well. It's all about c...
losing my virginity
If you have not already broken your hymen from athletic activity or whatnot, then you will most likely experience some bleeding when you lose your virginity when it breaks.
How can I make the guy I have a crush on
Well- I just wanna remind you love is a LOT different from a crush...maybe you wanna hold off on declaring how much you love him and get to know him a little better first. Also, I think more info is needed- are you friends with him already or are you ...
removing permament marker on a whiteboard?
An easy way is to put white board erasable marker over the permanent marker, wait a few seconds and then wipe it off. Do this a couple times, the whiteboard markers are made to be dissolveable, and when they get over the other layer they also dissolve ...
I'm I just paranode or what??
I've heard of girls at the beginning of relationships obsessing over (even having nightmares over) the thought of losing the one they have just found, but usually it's just a phase of insecurity. You should be happy he loves you and expresses it openly...
How can I get him to love me again?
Be honest with your boyfriend, ask him if he's noticed things have changed. There could be a bigger problem between you two (like that maybe you're just not that into eachother anymore, possibly) than just not having a spark anymore. Truthfully tell hi...
how will dstinguish an imagination 2 the real 1?
What are you asking, exactly? Does anyone think he really did touch your breast? Cus...well, no one has any way of knowing that unless somehow they witnessed it when it happened.
my boyfriend and his ego?
What I do if someone talks about a hurtful situation for them is I try to show them I'm interested and ready to listen by gently drawing out with questions. Like, do you think they know how you feel? Have you tried saying anything to them about it? Eas...
Who do I choose?
I think it's possible to have a little funny feeling for someone even while growing to love someone else, but it usually doesn't turn out to amount to much from what I have seen and heard. You already have someone so close and special to you, why quest...
How do I make him break up with his girlfriend?
Your moral values are going to have to come in here- his gf probably already feels insecure enough about having you and her bf hang out all the time, how would she feel if she heard about how you two are around eachother when she's not there? You have ...
boys make me cry
You can't flip flop between guys, you'll end up hurting someones feelings and getting your own hurt as well. If you're not sure you want to be with your bf, but you're not sure you want to be with the jeffrey guy, spend some time being single and clear...
HElp me stop being a jealous wreck!
I definitely have the same issue, I'm not quiiiiitteee as jealous as you sound but I certainly had trouble accepting it when girls I didn't know talked to him in any way that could remotely have been flirtacious. What I learned is that I can't control ...
Verbal Abuse?
Thanks so much for asking, I'm extremely happy and things are working out sooo well. I realized that I am so lucky to have what I do and my father really doesn't have much control over me anymore, I mean I'm off to college soon so what he says shouldn'...
Verbal Abuse?
kailey, if you mean that seriously haha thats very sweet of you and thanks...if you're kidding then i feel like i total idiot :)
am I pathetic
I just wanted to add that although as the other girls said, yes, boys do suck majorly, when you DO find that special guy (which may very well be in highschool) it will be amazing, so don't get turned off just because loads of them are clueless morons :)
Friend gettin on to my cousin
It doesn't sound like she's one of your closest friends, in which case you might want to be careful with how you go about the situation. I would talk to your cousin and ask him if he wants you to deal with it or whether he can handle it on his own, he ...
am I pathetic
NO! Of course not! I know plenty of my friends who are 15 (one who's even 16) and they haven't had their first kiss or boyfriend yet because they're waiting for someone special rather than a meaningless highschool fling. It will happen for you, take yo...
could i be pregnant
Just so you know I have heard of some women who just after they get pregnant still get their period once or twice, it happens!! So you still could be pregnant, but for pete's sake USE PROTECTION and then you won't have to wonder or worry! If you're def...
how did it end up like this?! :(
Sounds like your boyfriend is kind of a jerk, why are you with him? I hear a lot about people who really like their bf/gfs but only part of the time, thats not what relationships are about!!! You deserve someone who makes you feel special, not make you...
Fallin 4 Him ???
When you're on love, you just know it. It's a feeling no one can fully explain, you just have to live it to understand it and feel how amazing it is. You care for the person more deeply than you have ever felt and being in love changes you, makes you s...
how can i get my ex back
It sounds like this girl is really immature to be messing with your feelings like this, and she doesn't treat you very well. She's taking advantage of you, and manipulating your feelings by knowing you'll be there if she wants some fun but not having t...
it hurts...helo
If your boyfriend cares for you, he's not going to dump you because of something you can't control. Your sister and who she dates isn't really any of your bf's business as long as theres no real hatred or problems between you and your sister's bfs. Rem...
Girlfriend in Depression from Early Childhood help PLEASE!!
It's very common for people who were abused at a young age to then become an abuser, and then their children become abusers, and so on and so on. This cycle of aggression is dangerous, and if she's choking handicapped kids it's a sign she might be on t...
marijuana---
Don't forget that aside from the hard medical effects, it also alters your judgement which can lead you to act like a total idiot...
Can anyone tell me how to gain weight without getting fat?
The healthiest way I can think of is not to gain fat, but muscle by working out. Also, if you eat more (healthy foods) and exercise at the same time, you will gain weight probably but in a healthy way and still keeping a toned body. Hope this helps
Females are so Backwards
Most girls I know are definitely more comfortable giving oral than getting it, because of the fact that it's a lot more intimate (it seems) to have it done to a girl than to a guy- as you kind of sort of mentioned. And it seems like you're wondering wh...
boyfriend and condom
I think if you're comfortable to have sex with him, you'll be comfortable enough to remind him when it happens.
16yr old male needs strong relationship advice from different perspectives.
I'll make it short and sweet: she's going out with you and not any other guy, so be confident and be proud! You're lucky to have found someone, if you let loose and relax I'm sure things will go smoothly, eventually everyone has heard everyones stories...
Help! we still have the spark, but he has a girlfriend.
You're asking if you should still like him? In my experience, you can't really control who you like, if you do you do and if you don't you don't. You could probably try to avoid letting yourself like him, but if you feel a spark between the two of you ...
Emotional And/or Sexual Relationship.
Oh, and the best place to meet someone would be when you go to college, or at a party, through your friends, at clubs...unfortunately most people I know meet their gf/bfs through school things, it could be hard to find alternatives.
Emotional And/or Sexual Relationship.
Sorry for misunderstanding! I can tell you that for someone who was also once depressed for several years, I know where you are coming from. I had a hard time knowing where to start, how to connect with people without thinking of the negatives first (o...
How Should I Intiate A Conversation/ We Have Never Spoke
You say you're in college- ask him his major or something about the college he goes to, or even something as simple as does he know where this room or that hall is? "Hello, I've seen you around and you seem to know your way, do you have any idea where ...
Relationship Question
If you have been with him for 5 years, and are thinking of marrying him some day, you definitely need to know what he's been up to. 5 years is a good deal of time, I would think you two would know eachother extremely well. For this reason, a secret lik...
I Dont Know What To Do(100.00%)
When you have sex, if it is with someone you love and who loves you, then you'll be comfortable with them (I hope) and they will be comfortable with you when it happens. Nobody's perfect and everyone can be insecure at times, but remember beauty is in ...
Ex Boyfriend
If you two are still very close, then you'd probably know or have an idea if he liked you back still, right? And if he doesn't, which I'm guessing is the case because you didn't mention it, then I would try to think about preserving the good relationsh...
Tongue
Kissing with tongue is easy, you just slowly move your tongue in and out of their mouth and let them do the same to you...it can get more complicated than that but if you're just starting out I wouldn't worry about it. Just have fun, relax and do what ...
Re:how Do you Get A Guy To Love U
Well, you can't really MAKE a guy like you, it's up to him. But, if you're open and not shy around him, flirt to show you could be interested, and get to know him and find some common interests between the two of you, then there's nothing really standi...
How Do U Let A Guy Down Easy?
Well, I hope you've learned your lesson about easy, quick, fun hookups: they're not always so easy or fun, and what happens afterwards with emotions can drag on forever. For this reason- no more hookups like this (with anyone) unless you BOTH KNOW that...
I Can't Stop Thinking About Him/ Does He Like Me?
My GOODNESS. Well from what you say, it sounds like he's trying awfully hard to get you to show him if you like him. Honey, you are far too stressed about this. Why do you get so nervous? Afraid of being rejected or of making a fool of yourself? Who is...
I like this guy, he turned me down, what shoudl I do?
Honey, if he said no, then just move on and keep flirting or do whatever you want. If you don't like him in the future, then I don't think it's going to matter to you if he asks you out. Move on! :) P.S.- Props for asking a guy out, I know I wouldn't...
Boyfriend Problems
Is it his baby? Did you break up because of the baby? Does he want to be a father? How old are you? To give advice, I think a little more information is necessary.
Recent Breakup W/ Girlof My Dreams
From past experiences and what she sees around her, she's been shown or told that relationships just don't work. She's probably scared of hurting you and of getting hurt, so she takes the easy way out (or easier than a broken heart) and decided to leav...
Does Hypnotherapy Work?
I think it depends on the person and how willing they are- hypnosis isn't anything magical it just tries to get the person into a certain mindset through certain techniques. I don't really believe in it, but I think that for some people it can help to ...
Emotional And/or Sexual Relationship.
If you're 16, then that means you're still at school, so unless you're at an all male private school, why don't you try talking to some of the girls in your classes? Simple as asking, "Hey, did you hear what page the homework is on? I totally spaced ou...
It's Really Over...why Is He Doing This???
He's manipulating your feelings and sounds to me like he's really desperate to still keep a relationship with you for sex. That's not right and you have to stand your ground. Tell him flatly that you want him to stop calling or trying to convince you o...
liluxo's Advice page 6
Are you serious?! Come on, the person above me is right, doesn't even sound like a relationship to me! You can't be with someone you don't like to hang out with, or who you don't want to see you online! That's ridiculous, pick up and move on because th...
So you're upset because he doesn't put an an extreme effort to call or see you- this would be a very very reasonable issue IF you were in a serious relationship. However, you're not. As he said, he's not ready for a serious relationship, which clearly ...
He can't truly love you if he's never seen your face, there are certain intimacies with love that would be impossible to come by if you've never even met the person. He sounds awfully desperate for a girlfriend, and if you don't want to then don't! The...
Why don't you try telling him everything you just wrote? Be honest, let him know what you're confused about and where you think he's possibly slipping up- and be open to the possibility that you've made a few mistakes yourself as well. It's all about c...
If you have not already broken your hymen from athletic activity or whatnot, then you will most likely experience some bleeding when you lose your virginity when it breaks.
Well- I just wanna remind you love is a LOT different from a crush...maybe you wanna hold off on declaring how much you love him and get to know him a little better first. Also, I think more info is needed- are you friends with him already or are you ...
An easy way is to put white board erasable marker over the permanent marker, wait a few seconds and then wipe it off. Do this a couple times, the whiteboard markers are made to be dissolveable, and when they get over the other layer they also dissolve ...
I've heard of girls at the beginning of relationships obsessing over (even having nightmares over) the thought of losing the one they have just found, but usually it's just a phase of insecurity. You should be happy he loves you and expresses it openly...
Be honest with your boyfriend, ask him if he's noticed things have changed. There could be a bigger problem between you two (like that maybe you're just not that into eachother anymore, possibly) than just not having a spark anymore. Truthfully tell hi...
What are you asking, exactly? Does anyone think he really did touch your breast? Cus...well, no one has any way of knowing that unless somehow they witnessed it when it happened.
What I do if someone talks about a hurtful situation for them is I try to show them I'm interested and ready to listen by gently drawing out with questions. Like, do you think they know how you feel? Have you tried saying anything to them about it? Eas...
I think it's possible to have a little funny feeling for someone even while growing to love someone else, but it usually doesn't turn out to amount to much from what I have seen and heard. You already have someone so close and special to you, why quest...
Your moral values are going to have to come in here- his gf probably already feels insecure enough about having you and her bf hang out all the time, how would she feel if she heard about how you two are around eachother when she's not there? You have ...
You can't flip flop between guys, you'll end up hurting someones feelings and getting your own hurt as well. If you're not sure you want to be with your bf, but you're not sure you want to be with the jeffrey guy, spend some time being single and clear...
If your boyfriend cares so much about appearance that he'd break up with you for not having long hair, he's not worth sticking around for in my opinion.
I definitely have the same issue, I'm not quiiiiitteee as jealous as you sound but I certainly had trouble accepting it when girls I didn't know talked to him in any way that could remotely have been flirtacious. What I learned is that I can't control ...
Thanks so much for asking, I'm extremely happy and things are working out sooo well. I realized that I am so lucky to have what I do and my father really doesn't have much control over me anymore, I mean I'm off to college soon so what he says shouldn'...
kailey, if you mean that seriously haha thats very sweet of you and thanks...if you're kidding then i feel like i total idiot :)
I just wanted to add that although as the other girls said, yes, boys do suck majorly, when you DO find that special guy (which may very well be in highschool) it will be amazing, so don't get turned off just because loads of them are clueless morons :)
It doesn't sound like she's one of your closest friends, in which case you might want to be careful with how you go about the situation. I would talk to your cousin and ask him if he wants you to deal with it or whether he can handle it on his own, he ...
NO! Of course not! I know plenty of my friends who are 15 (one who's even 16) and they haven't had their first kiss or boyfriend yet because they're waiting for someone special rather than a meaningless highschool fling. It will happen for you, take yo...
Just so you know I have heard of some women who just after they get pregnant still get their period once or twice, it happens!! So you still could be pregnant, but for pete's sake USE PROTECTION and then you won't have to wonder or worry! If you're def...
Sounds like your boyfriend is kind of a jerk, why are you with him? I hear a lot about people who really like their bf/gfs but only part of the time, thats not what relationships are about!!! You deserve someone who makes you feel special, not make you...
When you're on love, you just know it. It's a feeling no one can fully explain, you just have to live it to understand it and feel how amazing it is. You care for the person more deeply than you have ever felt and being in love changes you, makes you s...
It sounds like this girl is really immature to be messing with your feelings like this, and she doesn't treat you very well. She's taking advantage of you, and manipulating your feelings by knowing you'll be there if she wants some fun but not having t...
If your boyfriend cares for you, he's not going to dump you because of something you can't control. Your sister and who she dates isn't really any of your bf's business as long as theres no real hatred or problems between you and your sister's bfs. Rem...
It's very common for people who were abused at a young age to then become an abuser, and then their children become abusers, and so on and so on. This cycle of aggression is dangerous, and if she's choking handicapped kids it's a sign she might be on t...
Don't forget that aside from the hard medical effects, it also alters your judgement which can lead you to act like a total idiot...
The healthiest way I can think of is not to gain fat, but muscle by working out. Also, if you eat more (healthy foods) and exercise at the same time, you will gain weight probably but in a healthy way and still keeping a toned body. Hope this helps
Most girls I know are definitely more comfortable giving oral than getting it, because of the fact that it's a lot more intimate (it seems) to have it done to a girl than to a guy- as you kind of sort of mentioned. And it seems like you're wondering wh...
I think if you're comfortable to have sex with him, you'll be comfortable enough to remind him when it happens.
I'll make it short and sweet: she's going out with you and not any other guy, so be confident and be proud! You're lucky to have found someone, if you let loose and relax I'm sure things will go smoothly, eventually everyone has heard everyones stories...
You're asking if you should still like him? In my experience, you can't really control who you like, if you do you do and if you don't you don't. You could probably try to avoid letting yourself like him, but if you feel a spark between the two of you ...
Oh, and the best place to meet someone would be when you go to college, or at a party, through your friends, at clubs...unfortunately most people I know meet their gf/bfs through school things, it could be hard to find alternatives.
Sorry for misunderstanding! I can tell you that for someone who was also once depressed for several years, I know where you are coming from. I had a hard time knowing where to start, how to connect with people without thinking of the negatives first (o...
You say you're in college- ask him his major or something about the college he goes to, or even something as simple as does he know where this room or that hall is? "Hello, I've seen you around and you seem to know your way, do you have any idea where ...
If you have been with him for 5 years, and are thinking of marrying him some day, you definitely need to know what he's been up to. 5 years is a good deal of time, I would think you two would know eachother extremely well. For this reason, a secret lik...
When you have sex, if it is with someone you love and who loves you, then you'll be comfortable with them (I hope) and they will be comfortable with you when it happens. Nobody's perfect and everyone can be insecure at times, but remember beauty is in ...
If you two are still very close, then you'd probably know or have an idea if he liked you back still, right? And if he doesn't, which I'm guessing is the case because you didn't mention it, then I would try to think about preserving the good relationsh...
Kissing with tongue is easy, you just slowly move your tongue in and out of their mouth and let them do the same to you...it can get more complicated than that but if you're just starting out I wouldn't worry about it. Just have fun, relax and do what ...
Well, you can't really MAKE a guy like you, it's up to him. But, if you're open and not shy around him, flirt to show you could be interested, and get to know him and find some common interests between the two of you, then there's nothing really standi...
Well, I hope you've learned your lesson about easy, quick, fun hookups: they're not always so easy or fun, and what happens afterwards with emotions can drag on forever. For this reason- no more hookups like this (with anyone) unless you BOTH KNOW that...
Thanks so much for all the advice- it's really helped a lot.
My GOODNESS. Well from what you say, it sounds like he's trying awfully hard to get you to show him if you like him. Honey, you are far too stressed about this. Why do you get so nervous? Afraid of being rejected or of making a fool of yourself? Who is...
Honey, if he said no, then just move on and keep flirting or do whatever you want. If you don't like him in the future, then I don't think it's going to matter to you if he asks you out. Move on! :) P.S.- Props for asking a guy out, I know I wouldn't...
Is it his baby? Did you break up because of the baby? Does he want to be a father? How old are you? To give advice, I think a little more information is necessary.
From past experiences and what she sees around her, she's been shown or told that relationships just don't work. She's probably scared of hurting you and of getting hurt, so she takes the easy way out (or easier than a broken heart) and decided to leav...
I think it depends on the person and how willing they are- hypnosis isn't anything magical it just tries to get the person into a certain mindset through certain techniques. I don't really believe in it, but I think that for some people it can help to ...
If you're 16, then that means you're still at school, so unless you're at an all male private school, why don't you try talking to some of the girls in your classes? Simple as asking, "Hey, did you hear what page the homework is on? I totally spaced ou...
He's manipulating your feelings and sounds to me like he's really desperate to still keep a relationship with you for sex. That's not right and you have to stand your ground. Tell him flatly that you want him to stop calling or trying to convince you o...