relationship w. a girl
I do not agree with lolocuna, I started dating my first boyfriend when I was 13- and so it seems natural that someone attracted to girls could also start thinking about them at this age. It's alright! Do you know if your friend is also lesbian, because...
Who is the highest paid female actress?
I heard it was actually Nicole Kidman from Entertainment Weekly magazine, then Reese Witherspoon for the amount of money that they average per film.
Ideas for girl names
I love the names:
kylie
alanna
lexi (alexis)
olivia
emma
lucia
rachel
molly
Why do people count fingers and toes on babies?
It's a bit of an obsessive, let me see if he's alright, let me know he's doing well, let me see my child healthy kind of crazy emotion that parents often go through when their baby is first born- a lot of parents research possible defects and things th...
Why is it bad to skip breakfast?
Breakfast gives you fuel to last you till you eat lunch- you're less likely to need to eat so much at lunch and dinner if you start off the day with a healthy breakfast. Also, breakfast wakes you up and makes you more attentive during the morning hours...
My life is going down the drain
Oh, and about the money: so you're not spoiled, congratulations! Brighteyez, in my town, everyone's got new ipod's and their daddy buys them a new car on their 16th birthday, and theyll get into great colleges because they have "connections". Not havin...
My life is going down the drain
I do understand what you're saying, and I'm so sorry things are so difficult for you right now. It is very hard not to have self-pity, but I promise you (I know from experience) it does not help you at all. You ask why these other girls don't have prob...
Are you using a fake christmas tree or live one this year?
My dog actually chews on the branches of the live ones, so we've had a fake tree for a few years now. Also, even though they're more expensive at first, eventually they pay for themselves and they're soo much easier to put together! I love it.
what should I do
Be there for him as a friend, but right now he's probably pretty freaked out and worried about this girl and so it's not a good idea to overwhelm him with more. If you know this girl, try to help her out, does she seem depressed to you? Be there to lis...
what do most girls look for in a guy?
My boyfriend has always been the type that would make an effort to try and understand where I'm coming from. That is so, so, so important in my opinion. I mean, you don't always have to understand women, but if they feel like you TRY to get where they'...
Thinking as much
I think that it varies a lot more with women than it does with men, some of my girlfriends are always thinking about sex while others hardly think about it at all in their busy schedules, and a lot are in the middle. With most guys I know, it seems li...
Is homosexuality a choice?
I have a few friends who are gay, and when people ask me if I think homosexuality is chosen, I think- why would someone CHOOSE to be a minority, to have all these prejudices against them, to in many cases have to hide how they feel about others sexuall...
Guys hot spots
I can answer for my fiancee- he loves it when I kiss against the inner crook of his neck, all the way up to where the corner of his jaw is. Some of my guy friends say behind their ear, too. Also, the "V" where their hips and abs make that cut along eac...
What cause you the most pain?
When I was younger, my dad used to slap me around a lot. He would tell me I was worthless, that I was dumb, ugly- whatever he could think of. When I'm home from college, he makes up chores and will actually purposely dirty the house so that I will not ...
cutting(100.00%)
When you cut yourself, you are making yourself bleed. You are scarring yourself. You are dealing with your pain by inflicting it back upon yourself in a different way. However, people who write it down or talk about their problems are letting it out in...
Should I?(100.00%)
It is extremely unrealistic that your teacher has an interest in you that way, as a teacher he probably knows his place and only sees you as his student, nothing more. You may have a crush on him, but it's just infatuation and eventually you will find ...
dumbfounded
She may not be as into it, emotionally, when you're having sex- I orgasmed the first time I had sex with my fiancee, but it was kinda weak and it for a while after that I couldn't orgasm either through sex alone. I realized it was because I wasn't bein...
I wonder how often most women do masturbate?
Um...okay see I don't WANT to masturbate, nor do I really care that I don't masturbate. Thanks for the website, but it's got pages and pages on stuff that I'd rather not search through for answers. I was just curious as to what the people on this site ...
help me I dont know what to do (100.00%)
NO ONE deserves to be hit, it doesn't matter if it's a beating or a slap, and you would do better to leave this guy. It is not you that should be forgiven, it is this guy that deserves to be out in the cold. I truly believe everyone is good at heart, y...
Falling for a Fool(100.00%)
If a guy really loves you, he shows it to you consistently, not only when you're alone or on the phone when no one can hear you. Tell him that you either want all of him, or none of him- he can't have it both ways. It's not fair to you, you deserve to ...
I don't really think im pregnant...but whats goin on with my body?
I'm also a swimmer. Those pains happen to me too! Those pains aren't from your breasts, it's from your chest and sometimes happens if you're in one position that tightens your muscles for too long of a time (at least that's what my doctor said, it's no...
If you had just one wish, what would it be?
If I had one wish, I think I would wish to know the answer to every answerable question. Knowledge is powerful, I could know how to cure cancer or how to best raise money for a certain cause, when someone was lying to me or how to best help someone in ...
HOW DO YOU KNOW
I would come straight out and say, you know, I'm a little unsure whether things are the same between us. Do you feel like anything's different, or am I imagining things? That way you're not accusing him of not loving you anymore, but it gives him a cha...
Overcoming racism
Wow, lovemaker7. I'm appalled at what you wrote the second time. How can you tell someone not to make stereotypes, when you yourself said "white people are always trying to make other razes inferior." I am white, and never have I thought I was superior...
Love and the Lady(100.00%)
My sister has asked me before why she just can't seem to get the guys she likes, and why I can. Truth be told, everyone goes through it- whether they go out with a lot of guys that mean nothing to them or they don't go out with anyone for long periods ...
Overcoming racism(100.00%)
No way do I think I'm overly self-righteous- but one thing you said bothered me. You said that race does matter, and some people can't look past it. The reason WHY race matters in a negative way is BECAUSE of people not looking past it, there is no rat...
problem with a girl(100.00%)
I don't think it's right to use some other girls to get better at kissing, it's not fair to them! My boyfriend had never kissed any girl before me, and I'd had more experience- but because our connection was so strong it worked out really well and ther...
A player and a stupid girl
Okay, this guy is extremely immature and has no clue what he wants- unless of course all he wants is to get some. You may like him, but he's not treating you well and you deserve someone better, someone who won't be so fickle. Tell him it's over for go...
Childish boy(100.00%)
If there's a guy you don't know, saying things to people you don't know, does it matter? He's kind of a wimp for talking about you behind your back or having nothing better to do with his time, but that's his problem and not yours. If he starts talking...
Why do men like sluts?
If you want honest advice, you get honest advice. Don't blame others for trying to help you by saying what they think is right, even if you don't hold the same values or ideas.
Christmas Gift(100.00%)
Part of being in a strictly sexual relationship is no feelings, no attachments, no nothing that resembles emotional involvement. So, if you have feelings for him, talk to him about it- but don't just give him a gift (unless you know he'll get one for y...
Help A Crush
I think that you need to take it a little slower. It's nice you gave him a picture of you two, and he knows that you like him, but give him some space to think about how he feels. Don't overthink why he'd show a picture to his friends or how he passes ...
Jeans is or jeans are...
When people say jeans, they are referring to TWO jean-pantlegs, but you don't only wear one jean pantleg do you? So, the way to refer to jeans is always plural, just like how you say "I bought a pair of pants" rather that "pant."
Overcoming racism(100.00%)
If you're judging people of different races because a few, (even if you said, like 20) people from another race were crude or mean or awful towards you, isn't it logical to say that they could do the same right back to white people? How many people tha...
Preventing Disease
If you eat healthily, lots of fruits and vegetables and protein, low fat and low oils, and make sure you are getting the necessary vitamins you need, you will be in good shape. Staying active physically is a very big part of staying healthy as well, mo...
Exfriend
I have a lot of close guy friends, and they all say it revolts them when they see a girl trying to make them jealous. It doesn't make them want to come back to a girl, and more often than not it makes them think the girl is immature or desperate for a...
my girlfriend lets her friends control her
I think lolocuna's answer is good, but it kinda assumed a few things. I doubt your girlfriend has no problem not pleasing you, she just may not know how you feel and that you're not happy with how things are going. And I don't think it's appropriate to...
sex love and rock n roll(0.00%)
Also, if you think you're close enough to this guy to be having sex with him, you should be okay with talking about it with him. Ask him what he'd like for you to do, or if he has any ideas of what you could try, anything casual like that might help be...
Help Please!
No, that is not legal. For you and him to have sex, you would have to wait until you are older than 16 I believe- but it may differ from state to state. Also, you're only 14!!! Take it easy, and slow! You have the rest of your life to relax and enjoy a...
boy in love with friend but i like him
I think you need to give him some space. He was very good about being clear and saying that he really doesn't want you getting attached to him. He doesn't feel comfortable about the idea of possibly hurting you because he knows he has liked Zenobia for...
Should we? I'm confused...(100.00%)
If you're asking a website about whether you should go through with having sex, it's a sign that you're not ready. It's good that you've talked to your boyfriend about this though, and if you both feel comfortable with it and you think it's something y...
how to overcome this ?
Do you mean that when your hands get sweaty, you get nervous? Because, it's the other way around, I think. When you get anxious or nervous, some people get sweaty palms. The best way to solve this or make it less of a problem is to take deep breaths wh...
friends with benefits 2
My personal feeling towards friends with benefits is that it depends on the type of person you are, and how much emotional attachment means to you when you have a physical attraction to someone. If you think you would get emotionally involved with him,...
Why do men like sluts?(0.00%)
First of all, calling her a slut isn't going to do you much good. Secondly, if it seems like he's going to choose her, you lost your chance when he kept trying with you for a month after you broke up. It's extremely hard to have someone break up with y...
dont bite my lips!(100.00%)
One thing, if he's going to be your husband some day, you should probably be comfortable asking him about this if it hurts you. My boyfriend does it sometimes, it's kind of a heat of the moment thing to do but if you don't like it let him know.
Sex urges?
One thing that is extremely important: I truly believe if you're going to be mature enough to have sex, you must be mature enough to talk about it with the person you're in a relationship with. Fully. So until you're comfortable talking with him about ...
in love
Woah, hold on there pal. You may really like this girl, but do you think you can say you truly love her? It took me 2 years to discover what love truly means, you have to know someone inside and out in order to feel something like that! So I wouldn't r...
I thought I could do it.
I have said my policy on these things several times, and I'll say it again: you do not get involved with someone if they're committed to someone else at the same time. It's not fair or respectful towards his relationship with his girlfriend, do you wan...
I've Just Come Out...(100.00%)
I just want to first say that I really admire you for doing something so courageous, I have a gay friend who found coming out extremely difficult and I know it takes a brave person to do that. It makes sense that someone 4 years older than you would no...
liluxo's Advice page 3
I do not agree with lolocuna, I started dating my first boyfriend when I was 13- and so it seems natural that someone attracted to girls could also start thinking about them at this age. It's alright! Do you know if your friend is also lesbian, because...
I heard it was actually Nicole Kidman from Entertainment Weekly magazine, then Reese Witherspoon for the amount of money that they average per film.
I love the names: kylie alanna lexi (alexis) olivia emma lucia rachel molly
It's a bit of an obsessive, let me see if he's alright, let me know he's doing well, let me see my child healthy kind of crazy emotion that parents often go through when their baby is first born- a lot of parents research possible defects and things th...
Breakfast gives you fuel to last you till you eat lunch- you're less likely to need to eat so much at lunch and dinner if you start off the day with a healthy breakfast. Also, breakfast wakes you up and makes you more attentive during the morning hours...
Oh, and about the money: so you're not spoiled, congratulations! Brighteyez, in my town, everyone's got new ipod's and their daddy buys them a new car on their 16th birthday, and theyll get into great colleges because they have "connections". Not havin...
I do understand what you're saying, and I'm so sorry things are so difficult for you right now. It is very hard not to have self-pity, but I promise you (I know from experience) it does not help you at all. You ask why these other girls don't have prob...
My dog actually chews on the branches of the live ones, so we've had a fake tree for a few years now. Also, even though they're more expensive at first, eventually they pay for themselves and they're soo much easier to put together! I love it.
Be there for him as a friend, but right now he's probably pretty freaked out and worried about this girl and so it's not a good idea to overwhelm him with more. If you know this girl, try to help her out, does she seem depressed to you? Be there to lis...
My boyfriend has always been the type that would make an effort to try and understand where I'm coming from. That is so, so, so important in my opinion. I mean, you don't always have to understand women, but if they feel like you TRY to get where they'...
I think that it varies a lot more with women than it does with men, some of my girlfriends are always thinking about sex while others hardly think about it at all in their busy schedules, and a lot are in the middle. With most guys I know, it seems li...
I have a few friends who are gay, and when people ask me if I think homosexuality is chosen, I think- why would someone CHOOSE to be a minority, to have all these prejudices against them, to in many cases have to hide how they feel about others sexuall...
I can answer for my fiancee- he loves it when I kiss against the inner crook of his neck, all the way up to where the corner of his jaw is. Some of my guy friends say behind their ear, too. Also, the "V" where their hips and abs make that cut along eac...
When I was younger, my dad used to slap me around a lot. He would tell me I was worthless, that I was dumb, ugly- whatever he could think of. When I'm home from college, he makes up chores and will actually purposely dirty the house so that I will not ...
When you cut yourself, you are making yourself bleed. You are scarring yourself. You are dealing with your pain by inflicting it back upon yourself in a different way. However, people who write it down or talk about their problems are letting it out in...
It is extremely unrealistic that your teacher has an interest in you that way, as a teacher he probably knows his place and only sees you as his student, nothing more. You may have a crush on him, but it's just infatuation and eventually you will find ...
Thank you guys for your responses!
She may not be as into it, emotionally, when you're having sex- I orgasmed the first time I had sex with my fiancee, but it was kinda weak and it for a while after that I couldn't orgasm either through sex alone. I realized it was because I wasn't bein...
Um...okay see I don't WANT to masturbate, nor do I really care that I don't masturbate. Thanks for the website, but it's got pages and pages on stuff that I'd rather not search through for answers. I was just curious as to what the people on this site ...
NO ONE deserves to be hit, it doesn't matter if it's a beating or a slap, and you would do better to leave this guy. It is not you that should be forgiven, it is this guy that deserves to be out in the cold. I truly believe everyone is good at heart, y...
If a guy really loves you, he shows it to you consistently, not only when you're alone or on the phone when no one can hear you. Tell him that you either want all of him, or none of him- he can't have it both ways. It's not fair to you, you deserve to ...
I'm also a swimmer. Those pains happen to me too! Those pains aren't from your breasts, it's from your chest and sometimes happens if you're in one position that tightens your muscles for too long of a time (at least that's what my doctor said, it's no...
If I had one wish, I think I would wish to know the answer to every answerable question. Knowledge is powerful, I could know how to cure cancer or how to best raise money for a certain cause, when someone was lying to me or how to best help someone in ...
I would come straight out and say, you know, I'm a little unsure whether things are the same between us. Do you feel like anything's different, or am I imagining things? That way you're not accusing him of not loving you anymore, but it gives him a cha...
Wow, lovemaker7. I'm appalled at what you wrote the second time. How can you tell someone not to make stereotypes, when you yourself said "white people are always trying to make other razes inferior." I am white, and never have I thought I was superior...
My sister has asked me before why she just can't seem to get the guys she likes, and why I can. Truth be told, everyone goes through it- whether they go out with a lot of guys that mean nothing to them or they don't go out with anyone for long periods ...
No way do I think I'm overly self-righteous- but one thing you said bothered me. You said that race does matter, and some people can't look past it. The reason WHY race matters in a negative way is BECAUSE of people not looking past it, there is no rat...
I don't think it's right to use some other girls to get better at kissing, it's not fair to them! My boyfriend had never kissed any girl before me, and I'd had more experience- but because our connection was so strong it worked out really well and ther...
Okay, this guy is extremely immature and has no clue what he wants- unless of course all he wants is to get some. You may like him, but he's not treating you well and you deserve someone better, someone who won't be so fickle. Tell him it's over for go...
If there's a guy you don't know, saying things to people you don't know, does it matter? He's kind of a wimp for talking about you behind your back or having nothing better to do with his time, but that's his problem and not yours. If he starts talking...
If you want honest advice, you get honest advice. Don't blame others for trying to help you by saying what they think is right, even if you don't hold the same values or ideas.
Part of being in a strictly sexual relationship is no feelings, no attachments, no nothing that resembles emotional involvement. So, if you have feelings for him, talk to him about it- but don't just give him a gift (unless you know he'll get one for y...
I think that you need to take it a little slower. It's nice you gave him a picture of you two, and he knows that you like him, but give him some space to think about how he feels. Don't overthink why he'd show a picture to his friends or how he passes ...
When people say jeans, they are referring to TWO jean-pantlegs, but you don't only wear one jean pantleg do you? So, the way to refer to jeans is always plural, just like how you say "I bought a pair of pants" rather that "pant."
If you're judging people of different races because a few, (even if you said, like 20) people from another race were crude or mean or awful towards you, isn't it logical to say that they could do the same right back to white people? How many people tha...
If you eat healthily, lots of fruits and vegetables and protein, low fat and low oils, and make sure you are getting the necessary vitamins you need, you will be in good shape. Staying active physically is a very big part of staying healthy as well, mo...
I have a lot of close guy friends, and they all say it revolts them when they see a girl trying to make them jealous. It doesn't make them want to come back to a girl, and more often than not it makes them think the girl is immature or desperate for a...
I think lolocuna's answer is good, but it kinda assumed a few things. I doubt your girlfriend has no problem not pleasing you, she just may not know how you feel and that you're not happy with how things are going. And I don't think it's appropriate to...
Also, if you think you're close enough to this guy to be having sex with him, you should be okay with talking about it with him. Ask him what he'd like for you to do, or if he has any ideas of what you could try, anything casual like that might help be...
No, that is not legal. For you and him to have sex, you would have to wait until you are older than 16 I believe- but it may differ from state to state. Also, you're only 14!!! Take it easy, and slow! You have the rest of your life to relax and enjoy a...
I think you need to give him some space. He was very good about being clear and saying that he really doesn't want you getting attached to him. He doesn't feel comfortable about the idea of possibly hurting you because he knows he has liked Zenobia for...
If you're asking a website about whether you should go through with having sex, it's a sign that you're not ready. It's good that you've talked to your boyfriend about this though, and if you both feel comfortable with it and you think it's something y...
Do you mean that when your hands get sweaty, you get nervous? Because, it's the other way around, I think. When you get anxious or nervous, some people get sweaty palms. The best way to solve this or make it less of a problem is to take deep breaths wh...
My personal feeling towards friends with benefits is that it depends on the type of person you are, and how much emotional attachment means to you when you have a physical attraction to someone. If you think you would get emotionally involved with him,...
First of all, calling her a slut isn't going to do you much good. Secondly, if it seems like he's going to choose her, you lost your chance when he kept trying with you for a month after you broke up. It's extremely hard to have someone break up with y...
One thing, if he's going to be your husband some day, you should probably be comfortable asking him about this if it hurts you. My boyfriend does it sometimes, it's kind of a heat of the moment thing to do but if you don't like it let him know.
One thing that is extremely important: I truly believe if you're going to be mature enough to have sex, you must be mature enough to talk about it with the person you're in a relationship with. Fully. So until you're comfortable talking with him about ...
Woah, hold on there pal. You may really like this girl, but do you think you can say you truly love her? It took me 2 years to discover what love truly means, you have to know someone inside and out in order to feel something like that! So I wouldn't r...
I have said my policy on these things several times, and I'll say it again: you do not get involved with someone if they're committed to someone else at the same time. It's not fair or respectful towards his relationship with his girlfriend, do you wan...
I just want to first say that I really admire you for doing something so courageous, I have a gay friend who found coming out extremely difficult and I know it takes a brave person to do that. It makes sense that someone 4 years older than you would no...