lillady's Advice

• Does He Really Like Me or Does He Just Want Sex?
  i read the whole thing. and well... hmmz, all i really want to say, is dont have s*x with him yet, wait, date for a while, then maybe one day get married..lol and if that happends then u 2 can do what ever u 2 want...and if u dont want to sleep with ...
  
  
• How do I talk to my Mom about my boyfriend?
  your mom is one of the over protective moms...my mom is protective over me, but not like that...shes only like that cuz she loves u and does not want u to mess up in life...she does not want u to be one of those young girls that end up pregnate at a yo...
  
  
• Boy Problems
  hmmz... i would go for the new guy also...ur ex boyfriend is playing that game...where i dont want u but i dont want any one else and i dont want any one to have u... thats a crapy game, hook up with the new guy or hang out with him..do what ever u wa...
  
  
• How can I tell my Mom I'm 13 and pregnant and want the baby?
  OMG! GURL IM 13 AND IM NOT THAT STUPID! I WOULD NOT SLEEP WITH A GUY AT THIS AGE! YOU NEVER KNOW HE MIGHT LEAVE U!!! U DO DESERVE A WOUPON! BUT SINCE U CAME HER FOR ADVICE I WILL TRY AND HELP SUM... OK HUNNY...WHY DID U DO THIS??? TRY AND TELL UR MOM...
  
  
• How can I deal with being grumpy? (100.00%)
  i was grumpy/sad/pissed off/ and wanted to die! when my dad passed away... i didnt want anyone around me, cuz if u made me mad, i would kill ya...something like that.. but yeah, u should spend some time with the one u love, and when u get angry jus...
  
  
• Should I go to the Doctor if I think I'm pregnant?
  well how long have u not had ur period, and when was the last time u did have it? u could be pregnate...but then again..ive herd that the blood could get cloged inside, so maybe u should see a doctor about this... good luck hun!
  
  
• When can I start wearing contact lenses?
  um...well im 13 years old... and im gona get contacts..even though i dont wear glasses and i dont need them... but i guess that u can get them if u need them and wear glasses... but they can affect your eye...and its possible that ur eye sight can f...
  
  
• How do you defend religion?
  im a christian... and i believe that there is a GOD. all i can say...is that if u believe in GOD...then study the BIBLE. and if someone wants to act as if they know it all...then tell them about da BIBLE. and prove that they are wrong...say if they...
  
  
• Does an early period mean I'm pregnant?
  do u want to get prgnate? well...hmmz yeah like the person above me said...take a pregnancy test...then another one later on maybe like a few weeks after...but other wise go and see a doctor hun...be carful of what u do...if u dont want to get pregna...
  
  
• Can you help me if I'm Lebanese?
  im 100% here for u, u can talk to me if u want at any time, go ahead and add me to friends if u want.
  
  
• Which book should I bring to California?
  bring what ever book that has more pages...ALOT of action...Death,mystery,love,regret,all the drama and i agree ...what book gets you attention...thats what u should choose
  
  
• Are separate rooms required for parents and children?
  yeah, i never herd of a law like dat... well they can share a room of corse...but she needs to know...as the child gets older around age 4-5 she should give her...her own room and bed to sleep on and in because as the child gets older...and the moth...
  
  
• Why is the world round?
  i always wanted to know that...i would think if the world was round...whould'nt the people fall off of it while it rotates?
  
  
• How to tell my boyfriend I cheated on him?
  well...i kinda disagree...im the type of person who does this... if a guy cheated on me, and i find out or he tells me...then its over, u should know better and think before u make a action that u might regret...so its likely that he may dump u. but,...
  
  
• How can I make hidden files unhidden on my computer?
  uhh... i would help if i remembered... but i will try and get my brother to find out. and then i will try and get back to u.
  
  
• What kind of makeup should I wear with my complexion?
  hmmz...make up... well there is all kinda of makeups to wear, me i dont wear as much... maybe u should just wear a lil eye shadow and clear lip gloss i usally use a light blue,silver looking color or a gold color or pink... u just have to test it o...
  
  
• How much is a trip to Japan for 2?
  yeah, i want to actually live there.lol my mom has agreed to let her young 13 year old daughter go to japan...i guess its cuz my bro is taking me... i want to go to Tokyo Osaka Kyoto Nara and Hakkone so many places...lol but im sure if my brot...
  
  
• Should I ask my neighbor for gas back?
  LOL YEAH WHY WOULD U GIVE HIM SOME GAS THE 2ND TIME? U SHOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT IT, AND IF HE COMES BACK AND ASKED FOR SOMTHING ELS JUST SAY,,, "SORRY MAN, I DONT HAVE ANY...OR IT"
  
  
• Am I bad looking?
  i actually think u are a nice looking young lady as my self. i dont thk its neccesary to judge by the way a person looks but how they act.
  
  
• Does anyone have any solutions for acne and acne scars?
  the one way i thk u can remove scaring is to get something from the doctors...ask ur doctor if they have something like a cream that u can put over ur face,,,and it peels it quickly.
  
  
• Do you think my dream will come true?
  sure ur dream will come true! like my dream was to start training for thw marines...and guess what... i found some schools that have training, and ounce u finish there, they help u get into the marines, because they give u more training. so never giv...
  
  
• Are there free sites to help me find my father?
  ive seen this TV show...they take ur DNA and look up names and stuff then they call the people in and take their DNA ans compair it...alot of people have found their mothers...fathers...sisters and brothers...if i find the # i will give it to u. but f...
  
  
• How can I get out of my current situation in life?
  im 13, so yay! im living a good life... yet, im 13 and im already thinking about my future...i wanna be in the Marines when i get older... i wont be 18 until like 5 years! wow... i live a good life with my family, yet i want to be in the marines and...
  
  
• How does leaving Iraq make us safer?
  yeah, why cant it make us safer? my brother,his friends and i will all be training for the Marines one day...we Will go and fight for our contry, not because the damn presedent will be paying us...no thats not it...its because we want to fight for our...
  
  
• How much jail time for abortion?
  I THINK THAT ITS WRONG! THATS BECAUSE...ITS THE GIRLS FALT FOR HAVING SEX AND IF SHE DIDNT WANT TO GET PREGNATE...THEN SHE SHOULD OF THOUGHT OF IT BEFORE HAVING SEX... BUT ITS DIFFERENT WHEN A GIRL GETS RAPED... ITS STILL WRONG, AND ITS A HARD CHOICE ...
  
  
• Is it just me who disagrees on the war in Iraq?
  well the war is kinda getting old...but i hope that one day, i can make it to the MARINES...and then after that i can go for the S.W.A.T im just that type of girl...im not a gurly gurl..im da tom boy...i grew up with the guys and liking guns...so yeah...
  
  
• How can I grocery shop on a budget? (100.00%)
  i would agree with them...always make a list with you on what you need, thats because if u dont bring a list...u try to remember by memory of what u need, and if thats so...then u wind up just taking junk food off the shelf. so always bring a list wit...
  
  
• How do I comfort my scared puppy?
  yeah i agree, make her feel protected andmaybe even take the puppy to the dog park so it can get use to being around other dogs, and maybe even take it for some walks...let it get use to the world around em.
  
  
• How can we introduce this new puppy to my Chihuahua?
  i had a dog like that one time... was afraid of other dogs and all, well i would agree with the other advice, DONT leave them in a room together to long or they WILL get sick of each other just as we humans do when we are stuck together for a long l...
  
  
• How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm pregnant?
  uh..yeah,..hmmz go up to him and sit him down, tell him this... you---"honny...do you remember when we had sex that other day..." him---yeah... you---well...im pregnate... try something like that...
  
  
• How can I convince this guy to go out with me?
  yeah i agree with the person that left da comment b4 me... looks dont matter! if the guy loves u for who u r, then thats what matters,...ok? if a guy wants me for my looks i would actually dump him. there will be other guys in ur future, dont fall ...
  
  
• Did I mess up things with this guy?
  um, who cares if ur parents or his pearents approve? all u have to worrie about...is...are you two in deep love? and if that annswer is yes...then it should not matter what happens...if ur mom and dad dont approve...then thats their thing, u go for wh...
  
  
• Do people think I'm a slut since I got pregnant at 14?
  well, u did get pregnate at a earlie age, im 13...(just so u will know) so im in middle school, ive seen a few girls pregnate...that does not make u a slut unless u sleep with random guys over and over, so i would not call u a slut...but u should thin...
  
  
• Should we be engaged if we fight?
  well hunny, every couple has there days...the very good days...the sad days...the days u want to be left alone,the days u argue and fight... EVERYONE does have those days...try and get along...give it a few weeks, and if its still going wrong with all...
  
  
• What to do if I'm in love with an older married man?
  aww... if i were u i would end it... he is cheating on his wife..eh? and even if he leaves his wife for you, think about his 3 kids, how would they feel? and what if he leaves his wife,goes for u, marries you, then cheats on you just as he did his w...
  
  
• How can I get him more interested in oral sex?
  yeah, just tell him whats GOOD and whats NOT. then u 2 can enjoy it more...i guess.
  
  
• What can we do to have fun besides sex? (100.00%)
  yeah u look young, dump the guy and find a betta one that does not think of Sex all the time. im really happy that you want to wait till marriage,so do i, im only 13, what are u like 14,15? until marriage, then u can do "IT" alright.
  
  
• Can you get a kissing disease from a player?
  yeah, jacked up guys..."the players" dont take any chances hun, go get checked by a doctor and dont kiss the guy any more.
  
  
• What's a cute way to ask a guy out?
  yeah,hes just a lil shy, i agree with " iiwantyou247" i think you should say something like that.
  
  
• How can I get my boyfriend to stop hurting me with bondage? (100.00%)
  wow..that must of hert...thats a bad abuse
  
  
• Why is my period late if I'm not pregnant? (0.00%)
  hmmz...that happened to my cousin b4...just because u did'nt have sex...thats different...sometimes i thk the blood can get stuck inside...if it does not come out withen a few days from now..i would recomend seeing a doctor...right away.
  
  
• Should I give up hope on my crush because of his girlfriend? (0.00%)
  hmmz...well, i would find a very good time to talk to him... and tell him the TRUTH about u liking him...and see what he says after that, tell him that u would be better then her...and give him da resons. i know it may be hard to TELL him...but its t...
  
  
• Am I anorexic because I don't have an appetite?
  how old are you? im 13 and i weigh 90-95 pounds...so im da same. im 5'1 im not anorexic, u dont make ur self throw up after eating a meal...do u? other wise if u dont do that ur not anorexic...they are just jelous maybe... dont force your self to ...
  
  
• Is it possible to get pregnant this way? (100.00%)
  lol... but yeah nothing to worrie about, u can do it as much as u want cuz u cant get pregnate.
  
  
• How do I get a boyfriend?
  hmmz... well maybe he likes you back, but if you two hook up and then it winds up not to work out for sum reason, then...well the friend ship between both of you might be broken. so...just take ur time, u never know there might be a guy you like in da...
  
  
• Is my penis a good size?
  lmao, yeah i guess that is. and yeah da size and how thick it is ...thats what makes da girl Satisfied.
  
  
• Can we be together with this age difference? (100.00%)
  um...why is a 18 and 13 year old together? thats kinda weird...but any ways...well depends on where u live and crap. i have a cousin, she just turned 12...she has a 18 year old boyfriend...we live in Texas. well...im not really sure that there is a...
  
  
• How do I tell my parents I want to move out?
  yeah, i live in america also, austin texas, and the age that is leagal is 18. but if ur dad threatens to kill u...then i would be out of the house. and ur mom...well, shes probably putting on a act. so if i were u...i would be out of their house and...
  
  
• How can I discuss plans to move out with my parents?
  wow, u should move out so that you could have some independence...i know i would. and your parents cant run everything for u, u have to do things the way you want to, even if it makes them upset...its your life not theirs...so dont let them make all t...
  
  
• How can I make my breasts bigger?
  yeah, if ur still young...they will grow. but if a guy wants you because of the size of your boobs or how you look...then thats not the right guy for you hun.