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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
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I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
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I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
kattie8451's Advice page 9
while giving him a handjob sort thing put your mouth over his penis and make sure you put your mouth over your teeth so you can block them and not hurt him... dont do if you dont want to also . what most people dont no is that oral is considered real s...
u can put your lips over your teeth slightly like to cover them but thats all you can really do that I no of ... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well vickie sweetheart I would wait for them to leave but im not aloud to have a boy home when they arent... thanx for the advice everyone ~kaitlyn~
I agree with horror music people should just leave them alone its not like they are hurtuing anyone and why is it ok for straight couples to make out in the hall but not gays. personally I wouldnt want to see either going on but if I had to its just as...
well I would first start off by telling her you dont really no how she will think its sweet that you told her and then listen to eskimo2008 and I agree withher DO NOT put your hand down her pants unless she wants you to but dont do it the first time......
well I have heard of people that do that I no my boyfriend doesnt I have to warn him every time I have it cause we both think its gross hope I helped~ kaitlyn~
brianamarie is not necesarily right... when your cherry is popped it could be from sexual intercourse or even riding a bike horseback riding ect... and yes your cherry is another name for your hymen
dont worry plenty other females are dealing with this... its very normal ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
I dont no the period ? exactly but I dont think so ... as for your other ?s 2. 'it all depends on the male... if he finds it descussding and is insensitive about it the I should not be having sex with him, yes you will probably notice and so will he it...
just follow your partner, assure him that it is your first time and you are a little scared since you said that you 2 are close he should understand, personally I wouldnt suggest you take a picture of your first kiss itll make it a little less scary....
well it still hurts because your body is still not used to it. I would suggest lub. and more foreplay... as for feeling like you have to go to the bathroom it is because he is hitting your gspot it is the part on the top of the inside of your vagina ha...
thanx everyone... I no im not ready for sex right now but I just wanted to know if he will still respect me. xtungtwistterrx he does do all those things that you mentioned ^ ^ so I do think we are in love ^ ^ and I confronted him about him talking to m...
finger handjob oral to both and then penetration in that order there is a 60% chance to work I read it somewhere oh and lots of foreplay ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
yes you are still a virgin until a man/ women depends I guess who you like (not calling you a lesbian just saying) penitraits u... im not so sure about if a girl penitraits you that you are a virgin or not but yea your still a virgin hope I helped ^ ^ ...
yea I have why?? ~kaitlyn~
find a guy that you like and dont rush it you can go to the dance with friends and find that guy and flirt with him and when the dance comes up just ask him if he is going and if he says yes be like me too!!! ^ ^ and then be like I guess ill see you th...
it depends what the guy likes you can get him a nice watch some chocolate ... there are sooo many things use your imagination ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
it could be her time of the month lol id talk to her about it and ask her what is bothering her because ud like to make it better ^ ^ ... she should tell you hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well it is normal believe me. I have come up with the conclusion that girls that masterbate to lesbian porn are not lesbians per say but they just want a guy to touch them in that way. guys tend to be a little more rough with girls in porn and girls se...
I agree with the 2 above talk to the parents and be calm no matter how hard that may be. they will most likely respect that and if they yell just stay calm and it may get them a little annoyed and cause them to yell more but just take it and sooner or ...
if you love him and he loves you then he wont care if you have smaller boobs and butt then his ex... if he does then you deserve better so just move on and show him you dont need him hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
nah 13 isnt too young but I think it is too young to have sex im not saying you will. I had my first boyfriend at the age of 5 lol ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
everyone has felt that way honey but it doesnt mean you have to. if the guy doesnt like you the way you are it means you deserve better then that. my advice to you would be to move on and show that jerk that you dont need him. most guys like girls for ...
I would protest that is not right... what if he was gay or bi. I dont know about you but if I were you I would definatley bring her and tell your principal that you like girls and your proud of it = P... you can also bring your parents into it if they ...
his 6 pack ^ ^ = P lol hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well some women laugh a lot and others bite their lip and twist their hair. and some also do the walk by lol... if you see a girl walk by you more then 2wice she probably wants you to talk to her ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
if you truely love this girl then go for it but I think your a little too young now... dont rush you have your whole life ahead of you and ill tell you a little secret. a lot of girls respect virgins so if you tell her your not ready and she loves you ...
personally it doesnt matter to me ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well personally I dont think that everyone wants sex they want love. they think maybe that having sex will equal love. thats only my opinion. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
just talk to your girlfriend about this... tell her that you would like to have sex a little more and she should understand. communication is the key. but do not ! cheat on her no matter how horny you get itll just end badly. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
I agree with midnight... settle down first and marry her or something cause what if you two break up and now the baby is left with no father hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
it doesnt matter how you say it it just matters that you had the guts to say soemthing. just get to no her talk to her a lot and as long as you arent a complete stranger and she nos who you are and she likes you shell say yes. just be like uhhh I wante...
personally it doesnt matter to me as long as you are a guy... body like six pack matters more to me although that is not a necessity either ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well I dont want to get rid of it to just neone I want it to be "the" right guy ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well ull no when to go down there. just like put your hand over the pants but right on it an make him horny it will make him hard and then tease him a little by playing with the top of his pants before you go in there and itll make sure he is hard. the...
go to a dance club with your friend and boyfriend and like bowling and stuff pretty much w.e you like... my bday is monday and im going to the city with a few friends and im turning 16 too. well hope I helped ~kaitlyn~ oh and happy early bday ^ ^
im a girl but a girlfriend definatly has to get along with the guys friends... if you love him or like him a lot then you should get to no his friends also itll probably mean so much to him and let him no that you care. if you really dont want to hango...
I think you should find a guy that respects you and cares for you very much and then do stuff... just letting neguy use you like that is making you easy and makes you a bad rep for the future... respect your body!!! and things will fall into place. and...
well I was taught at around 5th grade either... teach him about the other things about sex he will probably think its nasty and get out of the phase lol and as for do I think he is too young. no of course not cause what if he does learn it from a frien...
I had that same thing a few days ago... id call your doctor again an ask what you can do to relieve the pain cause im not a doctor and ndont want to tell you to take nething... also you can tell then that you are in a lot of pain and need to see them a...
well the first time it is normal to not bleed you could have broke your hemen (cherry) when you were younger by riding a bike, horseback riding, exercizing ect... but it is also possible to bleed next time you have sex also... it all depends on your bo...
I think you should put it up for adoption... but when you get older and can take care of him/ her then go back to get him or her or at least meet the baby... I no id want to see my real mom... also while she is growing up you can ask if you can see the...
well to feel her up first kiss her and while kissing her run your hands down her body then and over her brests. then if she is ok with that massage her breasts and if she lets you do that then you can go in her shirt and over the bra then in her bra an...
I think sue is wrong dont listen to her there is still hope in being friedns with him.. it may be a little awkward at first but sooner or later if you keep trying and get past the awkwardness you will be friends again if not best friends ... same thing...
well I no this will be hard to hear but I have a friend that has a boyfriend like that and he omes to me all the time telling me that he cant live without her and yadda yadda yadda but he comes to me because he nos ill tell her and that is the only rea...
foreplay and having him masterbate before will help also oral but I dont think tha thinking abotu not cuming will help him... hope I helped~kaitlyn~
no thats not wrong your just tired... try going on vacation with just you and your husband. ull be less tired and want to fool around more. get a family member to watch the kids for a few days and ull have time to urselves... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
no thats not wrong your just tired... try going on vacation with just you and your husband. ull be less tired and want to fool around more. get a family member to watch the kids for a few days and ull have time to urselves... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
no not at all... most girls dont even care what the guys "size" is so dont worry about it hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
same here ... ^ ^ if he really loves you he wont care that you are a little jealous... try and build your confidence... instead of looking in the mirror and telling urself "my hips are too wide"...(not saying they are just an example)... tell urself im...