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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
kattie8451's Advice page 6
how is the advice that your boobs are too big? well neway I think this guy is not using you but doesnt like you for u... you know? confront him about this and ask him what he likes best about you if he says your boobs or you think he is lying then sorr...
my suggestion... get a new man. hun if he cant accept you for who you are then he is not worth it. dont waist your time. he needs to know that you havefeelings too. go ahead and eat in front of him and if he doesnt like it too bad. break up with him th...
well im sorry I cant help you but I just wanted to say that it is so cool that you are not doing this just for him ^ ^ your doing because you think itll be fun too ^ ^ ~kaitlyn~
this is normal guy behavior but confront him about this and tell him how you feel. tell him that you didnt appreciate him saying that and so on but be nice about it. it probably just slipped. dont tell me u dont look at other guys and think their hott...
well are you close with this friend if so then tell them how you feel. if it is only an aquantance flirt a little and talk to them a lot. then ask them out when the time is right. hope I helped need more help funmail me but I need more information ~kai...
well do you like him? if you like him you guys can always hang out over the summer and during school on weekends. dont let a thing like this stop u. the only question is do you like him if you do I say go for it but if you dont then dont. hope I helped...
guys like confidence!!! thats the key ^ ^... find a guy that you like and just talk to him. some guys like it when you make the moves and some like it when your hard to get. find out what he likes. if you want him to talk to you then like drop a pen on...
if your scared that is your body telling you no. wait till your really ready. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well I know you wanted a guys help but it hink I can help u^ ^... you can do small things like play with his hair and make out and stuff like that. it really depends what he likes. it doenst have to be sexual at all to please him. if your not ready don...
relax hun ^ ^ its not that hard ... all you have to do is inform your partner that this is your first time. the guy will do most the work and you just follow ^ ^ but if you want to do some of the work you can spell the abcs with your tongue or try ti p...
u never mentioned that you love your boyfriend. do you love him or is this just a thing you guys do. is he your first. did this happen with your other partners? all of these questions can lead to your answer get back to me on your answers and ill help ...
dont try to get over him. 75% of people end up marrying or going out with their best friends. tell him how you feel and whats the worst that could happen it gets a little awkward between you two but as I always say it isnt awkward unless you make it aw...
just talk to him chances are he wants to talk to you 2. a lot of guys like it when the girl makes some of the moves because he is probably thinking the same thing. dont im him the second he gets online cause that may scare him a little and show you are...
well a lot of people have been there. personally I havent been there but they are just like everyother doctor just they check your lower area hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
your only like 12 you are too young to be doing these things please... and if you think your a virgin because your hymen "didnt pop" then you obviously dont have enough knoledge to even do these things hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
hun im sorr but you are too young to give head dont rush things you have your whole life before u. and if your boyfriend does not accept that then hes not good enough for you so find someone else. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
im sorry hun but you are a little too young to do those things but your not too young for knoledge... masterbate is pleasing urself sexually, ejaculate is the stuff that comes out when your arroused and perform sexual activity, fingering a girl is usin...
it really depends what your into hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well it is just a sexual rush per say ull never really know till you try it but dont do it until you are 100% ready hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well I would suggest experimeting. go out with a girl and see how you like it. if you hate it then maybe your just going through a phase. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well you can start by asking her to hang out and then build from there ... or something else. sorry it took me soo long to respond
listen to urself. do you really want to kill it just because this jerk told you to. if he is going to leave you you shouldnt have had sex with him in the first place. do what you want not this jerk. tell your parents they need to know and let them help...
no it takes a little while to find out. if you miss your period then check. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well see if she wants you to do it first and see if you want to do it... then you can start by fingering her and kissing her breasts and work your way down. then start by licking the clit and the lips. then if your really feel brave and she is ok with ...
well I would suggest you first find out if your brother would be ok with it. you dont want to get in a fight with him and have lots of problems in the future. then if he is ok with it then you can see if your brothers friend likes u. if he doesnt you d...
u can rub his leg or play with his hair... my boyfriend likes it when I pull his head toward me gently... every guy is different ask him what he likes im sure hell appreciate it. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
if you want to go ahead but it has to be what you want... if you do decide to it helps to use warm water you wont get bumps
it can be with or without clothes but there is no penetration just rubbing up against each other and feeling each others bodies... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
hun I am going to tell you this but it may sound mean but I asure you it is for your own good. you dont need a girl to live. no guy needs a girl to live and no girl needs a guy to live. we just dont want to. you may need to emotionally back off a littl...
dont take pills because you are unhappy with your body. feel lucky. there are girls like me who want flat butts because I feel mine takes up like the entire hall ^ ^ lol. there are no natural and healthy ways to get a bigger butt or boobs but ask ursel...
yea they work but not all the time. female condoms are supposed to work better then male condoms and you can use spermicide just to be more sure. it kills any extra sperm that try to enter hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
wow im sorry but I agree with slynn. if you really love him why are you complaining. so he lost a fight who cares. if your parents find out then you can still see him whenever you do now. Peace is the key in this problem. this means that you shouldnt c...
well the boyfriend can be a problem. ask for her phone number and keep in touch with her. then when she and her boyfriend break up you can give her some time to get over him and then move in. it may take a little while but if you like her that much and...
introduce urself and flirt. if he is one of your classes then ask him what the hw was... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well id start off by talking to him. to flirt from a distance you can either bite your lower lip, chew on your pen in a sexy way, or twirl your hair... or when he looks at you u cam smile also. try dropping something near him it could start a conversat...
dont worry sometimes periods can be irregular. if you didnt have your period then it could mean that you are pregnant but having your period sooner is really nothing. you may just want to talk to your doctor about that though I don't know what it reall...
just be urself and have fun with your friends time will do the rest. if he says hi say oh hi I didnt no you were here,well I gtg we are going to the... next. thatll help with making him chase u. good luck and hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
he shouldnt have dumped you in the first place. and maybe you should try to understand why your boyfriend doesnt like him and if is for a really stupid reason then talk to her and tell her how you feel about him and that you still want to be friends wi...
sorry but yea you can. as la16love said it is best right before or after when it is a better chance. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well personally I would get married to him. this is the rest of your life your talking about. just because you are going to have a kid together doesnt mean you need to get married. have your kid and figure it out from there. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
uhhh well I dont personally but some other girls might. you really have to talk to your partner and see what she likes because all girls are different hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
I wouldn talk to her and if she gets mad so what she is not a very good friend. ull get other better friends that wont lie to you so I wouldnt worry about this too much.. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well it is normal you cant get rid of the smell completely. but to take the smell away a little you can take a bath. but dont worry it is very normal so if your boyfriend doesnt ike it he probably wont like an girls smell... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
well I know you probably dont want to hear this but your boyfriend may need some room. by telling him about you not liking him hanging out with other girls is like telling him he cant have friends that are girls and you are isolating him from them comp...
well I have never given a bj so imma leave that to someone who is more experienced although I know about how. s for a hj you just move your hands up and down his penis. some guys like it when you rub the head of the penis and others like it when you li...
well if he only frenched and nothing else he is not ready to skip to sex. tell him if he does decide to do it to use protection and spermicide. let him make his own mistakes that is the only way he is ganna learn and listen. you should jus be there if ...
well to show the same affection you can just do small things while making out like put your hand on the back of his head and pull him closer or breathe a little deeper like your turned on but not too much also you can just rub his thigh up and down. as...
well I know you said ud wait. she is just scaring herself by the thought of concequences. let her know that you love her very much and you will wait as long as she wants to but she should keep thinking and not say that she wants to have sex unless she ...
well it is up to you to experiment with your body. first you can start off with the clit it is really small but it is about the top joint of your finger about your vaginal hole. you can other rub other parts. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~
why are you worrying about this now. one dayur oing togrow up and get married and decide whether or not to have kids. as for what age how am I suppose to know.. all people have kids at different times all I can tell you is that if you do decide to have...