How to talk to this hot boy?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you ask and he says no then at least you won't go thru life wondering and asking yourself "what if?"
Is she just playing games with me?
If she has had a really hard time with past relationships she could be using "Lee" as a buffer. You cant get hurt if you cant make a commitment.
If it was me I would just ask her about. Ask, not confront. You dont want to spook her since she has ...
Why am I so emotional?
And if you don't grow out of it, so what? There is nothing wrong with showing your emotions. I still cry whenever I watch the movie Ghost and I have seen it at least 50 times,lol You are a sensitive person and to me that is a good thing. It shows t...
Should I tell this girl she's too weird?(100.00%)
If she isnt hurting anyone by being weird then leave her be. We all have some degree of delusions of grandeur.. You all are still young, have fun while you can and learn to treat others with compassion instead of contempt.
Updates on my Mom's health
I am so sorry to hear that you and your mom are having to go thru all this. I will add you both to my prayer list.
Hair problems
Thick hair can be a pain. Mine is so thick that I have to keep part of it shaved off on the underside of my hair, around the back of my neck, or else I have headaches. It takes a good 45 minutes to dry it and about that long to use a flat iron it. A...
Leggings
Leggings are like a thick pair of tights without the feet. I like to wear them under my jeans when I'm on my Harley. They are great at keeping the cold air out.
Curly Hair
Ok, I am fixing to really show my age here,lol When I was a teenager, I really hated the curlers in my hair overnight too so my mom showed me how to do it the old fashioned way. Get an old pillow case or towel form your mom. Cut it into 1" wide stri...
Conair straighteners
I got mine, Conair, from Walmart for around $20.00 No more than I use on it was a great price and works fine for me.
Bigger boobs to fit into a dress?
Google the Jockey Store. They have great padded bras that have changeable straps so you can wear them with any shirt or dress. There is no way to increase your breast size in the time frame you want.
Does Afro-American hair grow faster when braided?
Drink lots of water. Proper hydration is very important for all hair types.
Per my doctor, for proper hydration, take your weight and divide that in half. That is how much water you should drink every day for normal hydration. You should add more...
Should I get my nose and ear piercings done at once?
I had both of my tragus done, both helix, my eyebrow and the middle part of my ear on both sides for a total of 7 piercings, all at the same time. Yes, it hurt like hell but I went thru all the pain at once instead of going thru it each and every tim...
Getting rid of acne naturally?
My son started using oil of olay bar soap and his cleared up most of the way. He was like you and had it on his back too. I couldnt get him to use anything on a regular basis until he started using my soap,lol
Girl with a hairy upper lip.
Most dark haired females have the same problem. I prefer to tweeze what I have. You would think after all these years it would give up and go away,lol The first few times can hurt a little but if you apply a little witch hazel (which you can get at ...
Are tummy tucks painful?
My advice, before you decide to get a tummy tuck is to make sure you are going to keep the weight off. If you are not willing to do that then you are wasting time and money. If you don't eat right, it will all just come back. My sister thought that ...
Anything extra I should know before I get my tongue pierced?
I just had mine done a couple of months ago and my cousin, who did it, owns his own shop and has won many awards for his work. Here is my advice.
Buy some MIdol. It helps with the any pain and really helps with the swelling.
Get a big bottle ...
How bad does a tongue piercing hurt?
I got my tongue done a couple of months ago. For me it didn't hurt at all, but I have an extremely high tolerance for pain. It did swell but if you take Midol like the directions on the package it really helps with the swelling. You should only hav...
What could I do to make myself pretty?(100.00%)
We have all went thru the ugly duckling syndrome. From what I can see in your picture you are already turning into a beautiful swan.
What to do to make your feel better? Try a new hairstyle, I think something with layers would look great on you. ...
Cleaning nose pores
I have been using the St Ives apricot scrub followed by Sea Breeze astringent. It is helped clear up the blackheads on my nose. I've been using them both for about a month now and I love the way it has worked for me.
Bad hair day
I am 42 and right now my hair is in the best shape it has been in a long time. The length is down past my bra strap in the back. I use Image hair care products ( Intrakera conditioner and Shine Plus shampoo ) and take a daily vitamin. I wash my hair...
Will I be able to get my belly button repierced?
Odds are you probably didn't get it at the right depth in the first place so having it re-pierced might not hurt because they won't be going thru the same spot exactly. Just make sure to go to someone that has been doing them for awhile and be sure to...
Harrassing credit phone calls
Where I live if you tell them to not call work then they have to stop calling there. If you have given a promise to pay then they are not allowed to call until after that date as passed. Also they are only allowed to leave one message on an answering...
Average monthly cost of living?
Depends on where you live and what the cost of living is in your area.
There is no reason that you have to start out with a huge home and a huge debt. You could get a smaller place with an affordable payment and do quit well. As your income incr...
Do you dream during a coma?
I was in one for a few days after a wreck and I don't remember anything. But that isn't saying that it could be different for other people.
Peer pressure.
The friend obviously has some issues going on or she wouldnt want to run away in the first place. If it was me I would tell her that you dont want to run away but you still want to be her friend and you will be there for her if she needs to talk. I b...
How to start a divorce?(100.00%)
It really depends on where you live. I live in Tennessee and here is what I did. First, one of you has to move out. Preferably him unless you just really dont like where you live. Then you need to consult with an attorney. Most of them have a free...
What do you put in smoothies
I have a juicer so I make my own fruit juice, then mix that with yogurt and a few ice cubes in the blender. The amounts just depend on taste and what consistency you want.
How to make chocolates?
You can buy candy molds and the right kind of chocolate from Walmart back in the craft section. I used to make all the candies for my kids for the different holidays. I have several recipes for things like chocolate covered bon bons and things like t...
Am I a wuss for being against meat?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on everything. No one is a wuss for eating meat anymore than they are not eating it.
I personally love a good t-bone that is medium rare!
What to cook him?(100.00%)
Ask what he likes the best then get the recipe for it. If you'd like, I have a ton of recipes on my computer. Find out what he likes and let me know. I'll get you a great recipe for it!
How often do you usually drink Soda?
I used to be a Diet Sundrop freak. Anyone that lives in Tennessee knows what I'm talking about. I would drink at least a 6 pack of 20 0z bottles a day until I had my motorcycle accident. I wont go into the details but because of the wreck Iwas not a...
I want to go get my tragus pierced, does it hurt a lot?
A tragus is the little piece of cartelidge in your ear that is right next to your head.
I'm not going to lie either, it does hurt. But the pain is fleeting, it doesn't last long at all.
I got mine done then a month later had to have an emergenc...
Does he like me?(100.00%)
That's good to hear. To often we are ready to jump in with both feet to test the waters and they turn out to be shark infested. Just take it slow and see where it takes you both.
picture editing
I love photoshop. I use it to restore old photos and to make the skins for my forum.
Love is not love unless it is expressed.
The best way to show love is in your actions. After my accident my husband did so much to take care of me that if he never says I love you again I will always know he does.
What do you do when your love walks in the door. Do you go over to him and...
What kind of mutt?
What a cute puppy!!! I love the little sweater. Sorry, I have no idea what mix she might be though.
Does he like me?
What is the question? Are you wondering what do or what not to do?
If it was me I would just let it go on and see where it leads to. Have fun with it. You are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't make yourself crazy over one person.
My wife just cheated, what should I do?
From a woman's point of view, leave her. She obviously has no self respect. If you were seeing this thru the window, where were the children? Does she care so little that she is doing things like this with the kids in the house? To me what she is d...
Is it weird to date a shorter guy ?
He may not be done growing yet. One of my sons did not hit a growth spurt until he was 17. He is now 6'4. I'm only 5'3, there aren't many guys shorter than me,lol
How to tell my parents once I'm pregnant?
I really don't mean to be rude but you are not ready to get pregnant. If you cant spell it then you don't need to do it. For your sake and the sake of any future kids please finish your education. You won't regret it if you do.
Why do so many y...
Long distance trouble
You probably dont want to hear this but at 14 this is just one of many times you are going to be in love. Moving is a traumatic event in anyone's life but especially in someone your age. I went to 4 different high schools in 3 different states so I d...
What is the best way to get rid of your hair?
I have really delicate and sensitive skin. Shaving for me used to be a real chore until I tried shaving with hair conditioner. Vash is giving you a great technique to use. It is pretty much the way I do it except that I use Suave conditioner instead...
Do I need to go see a doctor?
The symptoms you are describing could be from many things, epilepsy, migraines, even tourette's (sp?) Only a doctor can rule things out and give you a definitive diagnosis.
Why does it hurt when I go to the bathroom?
Cranberry juice in itself will not cure an infection. It will however help relive symptoms. You can get a pill called AZO over the counter that will also help the symptoms. You do need to see a doctor to see if it is an infection or possibly somethi...
Why do I get pain after sitting?
Great advice, go to the doctor. Have you fallen or sat down really hard lately? You may have fractured your coccyx and didn't even realize it. If it continues you can get a special donut cushion that will help ease the pain when you are sitting.,
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you ask and he says no then at least you won't go thru life wondering and asking yourself "what if?"
If she has had a really hard time with past relationships she could be using "Lee" as a buffer. You cant get hurt if you cant make a commitment. If it was me I would just ask her about. Ask, not confront. You dont want to spook her since she has ...
And if you don't grow out of it, so what? There is nothing wrong with showing your emotions. I still cry whenever I watch the movie Ghost and I have seen it at least 50 times,lol You are a sensitive person and to me that is a good thing. It shows t...
If she isnt hurting anyone by being weird then leave her be. We all have some degree of delusions of grandeur.. You all are still young, have fun while you can and learn to treat others with compassion instead of contempt.
I am so sorry to hear that you and your mom are having to go thru all this. I will add you both to my prayer list.
Rule of thumb: If you can wear it to church you can wear it to a funeral.
Thick hair can be a pain. Mine is so thick that I have to keep part of it shaved off on the underside of my hair, around the back of my neck, or else I have headaches. It takes a good 45 minutes to dry it and about that long to use a flat iron it. A...
Leggings are like a thick pair of tights without the feet. I like to wear them under my jeans when I'm on my Harley. They are great at keeping the cold air out.
Ok, I am fixing to really show my age here,lol When I was a teenager, I really hated the curlers in my hair overnight too so my mom showed me how to do it the old fashioned way. Get an old pillow case or towel form your mom. Cut it into 1" wide stri...
I got mine, Conair, from Walmart for around $20.00 No more than I use on it was a great price and works fine for me.
Google the Jockey Store. They have great padded bras that have changeable straps so you can wear them with any shirt or dress. There is no way to increase your breast size in the time frame you want.
Drink lots of water. Proper hydration is very important for all hair types. Per my doctor, for proper hydration, take your weight and divide that in half. That is how much water you should drink every day for normal hydration. You should add more...
I had both of my tragus done, both helix, my eyebrow and the middle part of my ear on both sides for a total of 7 piercings, all at the same time. Yes, it hurt like hell but I went thru all the pain at once instead of going thru it each and every tim...
My son started using oil of olay bar soap and his cleared up most of the way. He was like you and had it on his back too. I couldnt get him to use anything on a regular basis until he started using my soap,lol
Most dark haired females have the same problem. I prefer to tweeze what I have. You would think after all these years it would give up and go away,lol The first few times can hurt a little but if you apply a little witch hazel (which you can get at ...
My advice, before you decide to get a tummy tuck is to make sure you are going to keep the weight off. If you are not willing to do that then you are wasting time and money. If you don't eat right, it will all just come back. My sister thought that ...
I just had mine done a couple of months ago and my cousin, who did it, owns his own shop and has won many awards for his work. Here is my advice. Buy some MIdol. It helps with the any pain and really helps with the swelling. Get a big bottle ...
I got my tongue done a couple of months ago. For me it didn't hurt at all, but I have an extremely high tolerance for pain. It did swell but if you take Midol like the directions on the package it really helps with the swelling. You should only hav...
We have all went thru the ugly duckling syndrome. From what I can see in your picture you are already turning into a beautiful swan. What to do to make your feel better? Try a new hairstyle, I think something with layers would look great on you. ...
I have been using the St Ives apricot scrub followed by Sea Breeze astringent. It is helped clear up the blackheads on my nose. I've been using them both for about a month now and I love the way it has worked for me.
I am 42 and right now my hair is in the best shape it has been in a long time. The length is down past my bra strap in the back. I use Image hair care products ( Intrakera conditioner and Shine Plus shampoo ) and take a daily vitamin. I wash my hair...
Odds are you probably didn't get it at the right depth in the first place so having it re-pierced might not hurt because they won't be going thru the same spot exactly. Just make sure to go to someone that has been doing them for awhile and be sure to...
Where I live if you tell them to not call work then they have to stop calling there. If you have given a promise to pay then they are not allowed to call until after that date as passed. Also they are only allowed to leave one message on an answering...
No where near enough in my opinion.
Depends on where you live and what the cost of living is in your area. There is no reason that you have to start out with a huge home and a huge debt. You could get a smaller place with an affordable payment and do quit well. As your income incr...
I was in one for a few days after a wreck and I don't remember anything. But that isn't saying that it could be different for other people.
The friend obviously has some issues going on or she wouldnt want to run away in the first place. If it was me I would tell her that you dont want to run away but you still want to be her friend and you will be there for her if she needs to talk. I b...
It really depends on where you live. I live in Tennessee and here is what I did. First, one of you has to move out. Preferably him unless you just really dont like where you live. Then you need to consult with an attorney. Most of them have a free...
I have a juicer so I make my own fruit juice, then mix that with yogurt and a few ice cubes in the blender. The amounts just depend on taste and what consistency you want.
You can buy candy molds and the right kind of chocolate from Walmart back in the craft section. I used to make all the candies for my kids for the different holidays. I have several recipes for things like chocolate covered bon bons and things like t...
Grape nuts, slightly warmed in the microwave.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on everything. No one is a wuss for eating meat anymore than they are not eating it. I personally love a good t-bone that is medium rare!
Ask what he likes the best then get the recipe for it. If you'd like, I have a ton of recipes on my computer. Find out what he likes and let me know. I'll get you a great recipe for it!
I love carrots. I eat them just about every day and I still have to wear glasses,lol
I used to be a Diet Sundrop freak. Anyone that lives in Tennessee knows what I'm talking about. I would drink at least a 6 pack of 20 0z bottles a day until I had my motorcycle accident. I wont go into the details but because of the wreck Iwas not a...
A tragus is the little piece of cartelidge in your ear that is right next to your head. I'm not going to lie either, it does hurt. But the pain is fleeting, it doesn't last long at all. I got mine done then a month later had to have an emergenc...
That's good to hear. To often we are ready to jump in with both feet to test the waters and they turn out to be shark infested. Just take it slow and see where it takes you both.
I love photoshop. I use it to restore old photos and to make the skins for my forum.
The best way to show love is in your actions. After my accident my husband did so much to take care of me that if he never says I love you again I will always know he does. What do you do when your love walks in the door. Do you go over to him and...
What a cute puppy!!! I love the little sweater. Sorry, I have no idea what mix she might be though.
What is the question? Are you wondering what do or what not to do? If it was me I would just let it go on and see where it leads to. Have fun with it. You are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't make yourself crazy over one person.
From a woman's point of view, leave her. She obviously has no self respect. If you were seeing this thru the window, where were the children? Does she care so little that she is doing things like this with the kids in the house? To me what she is d...
He may not be done growing yet. One of my sons did not hit a growth spurt until he was 17. He is now 6'4. I'm only 5'3, there aren't many guys shorter than me,lol
I really don't mean to be rude but you are not ready to get pregnant. If you cant spell it then you don't need to do it. For your sake and the sake of any future kids please finish your education. You won't regret it if you do. Why do so many y...
You probably dont want to hear this but at 14 this is just one of many times you are going to be in love. Moving is a traumatic event in anyone's life but especially in someone your age. I went to 4 different high schools in 3 different states so I d...
If you google video jug you will get directed to a site that has a ton of hot to videos on make up and hair. Even at my age I found some of it helpful.
I have really delicate and sensitive skin. Shaving for me used to be a real chore until I tried shaving with hair conditioner. Vash is giving you a great technique to use. It is pretty much the way I do it except that I use Suave conditioner instead...
The symptoms you are describing could be from many things, epilepsy, migraines, even tourette's (sp?) Only a doctor can rule things out and give you a definitive diagnosis.
Cranberry juice in itself will not cure an infection. It will however help relive symptoms. You can get a pill called AZO over the counter that will also help the symptoms. You do need to see a doctor to see if it is an infection or possibly somethi...
Great advice, go to the doctor. Have you fallen or sat down really hard lately? You may have fractured your coccyx and didn't even realize it. If it continues you can get a special donut cushion that will help ease the pain when you are sitting.,