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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
fatesarrival's Advice
Pilates is a great way to lose inches and tone muscle without bulking up...give that a try.
I'm sure you've heard of pilates...try giving that out for a spin...a lot of other exercise regimines based on lower body build muscle (which in turn make your thighs bigger). Pilates builds lean muscle (sculpting), so it won't put on the extra buldge...
I have my tongue pierced and a tatoo on my pelvic bone and my parents still give me grief about it (and I'm 21 years old!). Our parents grew up in an entirely different generation than we did and they aren't used to how quote on quote 'WEIRD' kids are...
BMI is totally inacurate!!! If you look BMI up on the internet to where it originated from you will see that some guy in the 16th/17th century calculated the formula to figure out your BMI (which is (height(in) times height (in)) divided by weight (lb...
I agree with the others about the ingrown hair (but only if it looks swollen/puffy and red)...another possibility that pops into my mind is it could be a cyst (my mother actually had one removed as a teenager right around her armpit area). By all mean...
Here are some ideas: singing, dancing, hide-n-seek, try and see if she can help you around the house (or just give her a simple chore ie: picking up her play toys), make jewelry (ie: bead neckleces), if you are ready to let her try and use glue and saf...
Why are you wanting to put on weight? Is there any particular reason...ie: school sport (wrestling)? Gaining weight should be a snap unless you have some sort of thyroid condition. Just make sure you are gaining weight in a healthy manor. It's pret...
The more energy you burn the more your body will want to intake(consume). That's how your body works. Since you've changed your exercise regimine and it sounds like you're trying to lose weight...when you get hungry/crave something after eating a mea...
Being a first time mom...I've ran this senario through my head plenty of times...am I stimulating my child enough or too much?!!! The answer is truly different for each baby...because every baby reacts differently to each stimulant (whether it be taki...
Squats and lundges are your basic work outs to get thinner/toned legs. If you like aerobics; running, walking, taebo, and cycling are other ways to help you out.
Try soaking your clothes in warm salt water for a few hours, then spray it with oxy clean/shout or another form of stain remover...wash it on cold cycle in your wash machine. That should do the trick...it may come out with a lil left on if the stain h...
I agree with antichrist...take 2-3 tests (any brand will do)...and if you still aren't satisfied, go to your gyno or local health clinic and ask them to give you a pregnancy test or have your blood work done (blood linked pregnancy tests are 100% accur...
I'm not 100% sure, but I believe it takes 3-7 days, depending upon your percentage of body fat, for all hard drugs (I.e. cocaine, meth, ecstasy, etc.) to clear out of your system...it's marijuana that can take a month or longer to clear out of your sys...
Birth control isn't 100% effective...I'm sure you've heard that before...so yes you still can be pregnant. Taking EC (Emergency Contraception-morning after pill) within 72 hours of intercourse can prevent pregnancy, but also again, is not 100% effecti...
My OB/GYN told me it is very possible to have a period during pregnancy. It isn't the same as one you'd have when you aren't pregnant though. The brownish colored blood you mentioned sounds to me like this is what you are having (brown colored blood ...
I'd definitely get a hold of your gyno and schedule an appointment if you are really worried about the bleeding. If you are soaking a pad in an hour I'd immediately go to the hospital; that means something has ruptured or has been punctured. Having v...
Any home remedy or specialty drink you buy from a head shop isn't 100% gauranteed to help pass a drug test. A lot of it has to deal with the percentage of body fat you have...the heavier you are the longer it takes for a drug to go through your system...
Of course you can wear sunscrean (designed for tanning) when you go fake baking! :-D Sunbeds may not have UV rays being emmitted off from them, but they do have similar rays that are damaging to the skin just like from the sun. I've been tanning bef...
I personally haven't experienced this similar problem, but I do have 2 cats that are over the age of 20. Is your cat experiencing any health problems or does she seem to always be tired (sleep all day or not very active as she used to)? If she is may...
I've had plenty of nights where I've drooled in my sleep. For me personally when I narrow those nights down, the previous day before I really was busy and pooped myself out. When I sleep very hard I tend to drool almost every time, I also find that I...
Today's society is totally focused on appearances now-a-days...that's why you see all these commercials that promote weight loss (companies who make these products make BUKOO BUCKS because of this fact) and why magazines are ONLY focused on the thin/be...
How are you feeling mentally/physically? Really sit down and think about this question, because you may be suffering from some form of depression/anxiety that is keeping you from accomplishing your tasks/goals. It may not be anything severe, but if y...
There really isn't a 'sure fire' cure to completely rid you of that habit but there are plenty of remedies you could try...1-would be a form of nasal strip (I.e. Breathe Right strips), 2-would be a special mouth guard you can request from your doctor, ...
First thing I can think of, which a couple have already mentioned, is that you have acid reflux. If your throwing up is combined with severe heart burn, indigestion, and/or an upset stomach, that very well could be the culprit. Another thing that com...
If you can't find anything that relieves your pain sweetie, I'd definitely schedule an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible. It could be something serious (I.e. throat infection). I know doctors are a pain sometimes, but I'd rather have t...
All that a diet pill is EXTRA energy (caffeine/guarana/taurine) and vitamins (such as the B vitamins) that enhance your energy and alertness. They don't melt off fat like they claim, total BS!!! You exercising and eating a healthy balanced diet is wh...
You're actually considered underweight for your height when it comes to a doctor's perspective. I'm 5'8 and a healthy weight range for my height is 145lbs-160lbs. I can go under/over 5 lbs. past that weight range before I'm considered under/over weig...
Some natural home remedies that I can spit out from the top of my head are a combination of warm water and salt (1-2 Tbl. salt per 1 cup of water) and then there is warm water and honey (1 Tbl. honey per 1 cup of water). Those are only temporary relie...
Depending upon how much cereal you eat, yes, it is possible to lose weight just by eating that alone, but not a very good idea to try out. For one, you basically will have to starve yourself (feeling hungry all the time, which can lead you to binge or...
Anything that involves cardiovascular activity (taebo, walking/ running/ kickboxing) is the best way to burn off high amounts of calories in one session. Those types of exercise stimulate your heart, which in turn stimulates your entire body (metaboli...
I have very curly/dry/frizzy hair myself and boy do I ever feel your pain. I've found that any heat style straightening product is best (gels/moose). Besides that, a high-temp ceramic plate straightener is the best to finalize the deal (ceramic plate...
Parents tend to be real sticklers when it comes down to pulling weight around as you've mentioned. The best advice I can give you is to give in to their incorrect assumptions of you not pulling your weight around (unless of course they're being abusiv...
I used to have a problem with energy drinks/energy pills (stackers), and let me tell you...they're fun to play around with at first, but can become very addicting when used in mass quantities. In my college days I'd pop 6-8 stackers and slam 3-4 energ...
First off, there's no harm in trying to bring the subject up with your dad. In doing so though be prepared for him to shut you down because he is a grown man and could be set in his ways and not open to any advice/lecturing. If/when you bring it up a...
There is such a thing as called pre-ejaculation (and sometimes it may not be felt by the man), so yes...there is a possibility that a girl can become pregnant even though a man hasn't went "ALL THE WAY"...the only real way to tell is to have her take a...
If feel strongly in your belief to hold out on sex until marriage, STICK WITH IT! Everyone is different (including you), so for me just to tell you that answer is not truly what will happen. Some women do feel discomfort the first time/the first coup...
Don't listen to Danielleee's criticism becca_boop...no question is a stupid question in the eyes of a tolerant/considering mind. In my honest opinion there might be a lil jealousy in the equation there. Are you attracted/interested in one of your fri...
Me, personally, being on top is the best way to be, because YOU have control of the situation. There's also a deeper penetration inside the vaginal canal that in turn will have a higher chance of reaching your g spot. It's going to be a little awkwar...
In most states it is ONLY illegal if there is a person over the age of 17/18 being sexually active with someone younger than 17/18. If that is the case than it is illegal, but since you both are under the age of 17/18 you have nothing to worry about l...