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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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Dear Huma, Try not and worry....I know this is easy for me to say, but try and relax. your baby needs this. If you have a lot of tension buit up, physically this is not good for you OR the baby. Don't worry about your age either....A lot of women anym...
You need to just ask him....What does he say? Familycoach
Dear Detroit, You have a few choices you can make....BUT you have to take these steps if you want your life to be happier. If you are being hit and knocked around by your boyfriend (father of the baby) then just break-up with him. Tell him you no lo...
Dear Chili, Number one, just because he is a politician means nothing..nothing at all. Think of him as a store clerk. If he is not showing you the attention YOU want to see, then chances are good that he really doesn't care about you. Maybe at one ti...
Dear Nathan, What to buy is a exercise tension strap. You can purchase this at any Wal-mart etc.. You strap one end around a pole and the other around your foot and kick. The farther away from the pole the more tension. Try and do 20 sets of 12....e...
Dear Devil, Can you try and think of anything that someone has done to you to make you feel this anger? Not that this would be an excuse..but it would help me talk to you. Familycoach
Dear Chels, You are not being selfish at all. He wants to come to you....This is great, don't worry about being selfish. Being selfish would be you begging him to come live where you are WHEN you know he is happy doing what he wants where he is. Now...
Dear TOOHOT, It will just happen....It is something that can't be explained..BUT if some guy breaks- up with you because he "thought" you didn't want to make out, then it is best for you that he left. He is looking for one thing, and if you were my da...
Dear Criss, Confidence comes when you are sure about yourself, but people who are confident are not confident in all areas, which is perfectly fine. They are confident in what they know about....what they are good at....when they discover their intere...
Dear Malone, I just read your other question.. There is nothing wrong with YOU!! Some people (like your boyfriend) take a nice person (you) as weakness. They see someone who smiles, who is caring, who is genuinely a good hearted person, and they take...
Dear Malone, It sounds like he is developing his own interests....it may be a girl who knows. It sounds like either way he is not showing you the attention he once did. (For whatever reason) Try and talk to him and be honest and explain to him wha...
Dear Hottie, Do the following for lower and it will also get upper. 1 Lay on your back....Raise your legs about 6 to 8 inches off the ground (keeping them together AND kind of straight)....Once raised spread legs ALL THE WAY APART, keeping them 6...
Dear Metal, What type of exercise machine do you have access to? I can help you. You must get into cardio....this will not only do what you want physically, it will help you in your all around daily life. You must not exercise watching your look. E...
If your dad threatend to kill your boyfriend, you need to let boyfriend know and maybe he could go to the police. Try and calm it down before it goes crazy. You both are going to have to address the father. You could run away but thats not the answer e...
Dear James, If all is true and you are not trying to irritate her on purpose. Then what you have is a female that hates men....These types are alive and well among us. Just because they are females we tend to think (as guys) that it can't happen....a ...
I know what you mean.... One thing to try is NOT to judge....This judging (even when you are right) Can really eat away at you. I know myself..when I see or hear people express their greed, I really look at them as a self centered individual, all the w...
Dear Dance, Don't worry about how YOU think other girls should act concerning a taken guy. YOU do what you think is best and I can tell you that how you think is the best way.... So many times there is no loyalty towards a friend....It seems whateve...
What was your question? Familycoach
Dear Ball, This is very confusing....I know. You think why does he even have any feelings at all towards her when he loves you....right? The thing is this....You may be so close to him that he is talking to you like a best friend....Which is good. He ...
Pick the friend/friends that you want to spend the time with. Then invite your male friend to come out with all of you....;This way you can spend time with your girlfriends and also hangout with the guy that lives a half hour away. Then you and him can...
Dear Map, There is not ONE thing you can do....For what it's worth this happens probably millions of times a day to one person that is in a relationship. What happened in your case is that she got emotionally connected to someone else. Maybe someday...
The James Bond thing has been going on for about the last 4-6 years on New Years and actually throughout the whole Christmas break....I think it's fun because you can tune in anytime to a Bond movie and there is action either going on, or getting ready...
Go to a website like Martha Stewart or something like that, and ask that same question....Because I have no idea. Sorry. Familycoach
Karla, You want to REALLY go slow with this relationship..Continue to stay away, because there is NOTHING you can do for him....Think about it like this.. If he has manic depression, you going to be with him physically will make him happy for a few da...
I want you to concentrate SOLEY on YOU for a moment...OK? Forget about her and the relationship and answer yourself these questions WITH NO DENIAL.... Did you move to New York for reasons that would make you happier? If so concentrate on those reas...
Dear Sarah, Try not and worry about being someone or something you're not. Just go and have fun.....BE yourself....You're not going to look stupid. Think of it like this......If you are just being yourself and someone "thinks" you look stupid becaus...
Dear Tera, The only thing that is "wrong" is that you are only 14. You simply may not have had a boyfriend opportunity yet. YOU KNOW you are not ugly (Which is good) or else you would not put your picture up for people to see. Don't worry about bei...
Dear JS, You can tell her how much you love her....so she knows for sure where you stand. But she really may not want to have a relationship with you. For whatever reason. It (emotions) is just one of those things we can't explain. Look at it a few ...
Are you a man or a women? Familycoach
Dear Southern, Sure....enjoy yourself. It does all depend as to what they are saying he did. If he is a hurtful, mean person. If he is just an idiot etc....You can find this out for yourself.....So here is what to do. First of all if you are around...
Dear Mjax, The fact that you are excepting your feelings, and trying to change your attitude is a HUGE step in changing this hateful attitude toward different races. You are not in denial, so this should be pretty easy for you, and you are right when ...
Dear KT, I want you to listen to me!! You are ONLY 11!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe that you (at this age) have to even worry about something like this. You are suppose to be doing kid things,playing etc.... NUMBER ONE Tell your boyfriend that if he...
If you guys are going anyway, call her today and tell her you and you friend are coming to NY and take charge. Enough with the wondering if she/her friends will like you etc.... Call her, tell her you guys are coming in and you really want to see he...
Dear Nicole, This is tough.. You would like to deliver some hurt to them and then watch them suffer....Right?? The problem with your feelings is that it never stops....Today you want you ex to suffer. What happens when you get (in your mind) hurt by...
You need to go out, have some fun...play pool, go to a movie, then dinner..etc.....let loose. let your feelings for him fly. From the sounds of things your connection with eachother is almost there. GO GO GO!! Have fun. This is an exciting time for you...
You cannot MAKE anybody like you....If you like this person go ahead and let them know subtley. If they respond....you're in. If they don't....then don't worry about it and move on with you life. For the future try not and make it a goal to MAKE someon...
Dear Just You really can't question your emotions....There are no clear-cut answers to explaining emotions whether you are gay or straight. It's OK to let them go without wondering why you feel the way you do. Don't judge yourself and don't get to u...
Dear Master of disaster, There are to many what if's that you are worrying about. If you are able, go to NYC during or right after the holidays. If you go during she may say she has alot going on with family and friends and is to busy. What I would d...
Dear Nicole, For what it's worth to you, this happens all the time. If it helps, you are no way alone with this type of problem. As you work through it what is happening, is that you are maturing and growing emotionally. I really believe this is why ...
Fracture, I answered this but I don't know where it went...anyway here is what to do. The next time these bullies pick on you and bother you,simply tell a teacher ( that knows you well). After a few days or weeks they will probably start back up aga...
APPLY THIS ANSWER TO YOU....OK? I cannot tell you the companies, however if you or someone you know are looking for work and their past record is holding them/you back, try starting your own business. A good area is window washing for businesses. I l...
Dear Dees, This is a real problem for people to deal with. A few things: As far as you are concerned, honor his decision in whatever he decides to do. Try not and pressure him in any direction....and you can do this. We have no idea as to why he feels...
Kim, The fact that you still love him means (in your opinion) you want to be more than (just friends). You are using the "just friends" line to stay close to him in the hopes that someday he will start to love you more than "just friends". People do ...
There is a free paper called clevescene.com. I hope I am allowed to put this up..It is free. Go to this site click classified, far right has a list of cities click on yours or closest, go to jobs, go down to showbiz/auditions. A total list of things g...
You must workout! This is a no brainer. if you are able really workout strong. If you would like, I would be happy to give you a few routines to get you started and build up endurance. fun mail me..OK? Familycoach
It WILL build your confidence in this area...just do it! Familycoach
One time each day try and speak to a person about a different subject....you choose it. Try and do this with total strangers, like a check-out clerk or some worker at some stores around where you live. What you will do is get better at speaking to peo...
Maybe you have a gift.... Like an investigator, or an attorney. Try not and question yourself about the fact that you like to ask questions. If you look at interviewers for TV or radio, they are very smart and educated from all of the questions they as...
Being that muscle weighs more than fat start putting on muscle (naturally). I like push-up and pull-ups. Start the following workout if you're healthy and physically able and you may want to consult your physician. When you are sitting around w...
Only my opinion....but that 70s disco sound is fun to me. No anger,no hard messages, nothing political, nothing violent. Just fun, getting together, getting along listening to music,dancing. Donna Summer Earth, Wind and Fire K C and the sunshine ba...