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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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Try and check out some martial arts studios. Look into jujitsu or mixed martial arts training. Make sure you sign up with a good feeling. This good feeling will come from the head instructor. You want nice people who have a genuine concern for their s...
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You could have the baby...Just remember all that will go with it...Forever. It's not like a pet or a toy. Parenting is not something you can choose when you want to do it...It's not something you can put on hold. People try and do this and their kids ...
Soap operas keep you interested by the drama they create. If you can stand watching e few episodes you can get caught up in the story's, and the drama. Familycoach
Yes it is fake. Familycoach
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Dear ZAU, You are VERY smart not to take anti-depressants. Someone (anyone) to talk to really does help..a friend..mom or dad..or whoever..it does help. Anyway, the feelings you feel are probably normal..what you are doing different than alot of p...
Take the friends you have and go out where ther is people like a mall or skating or a dance club etc.. Familycoach
You can't force him to leave..Try and stop cheating with him..If he wants you then..just to spend time with you..to hang out..etc.. then it will be more secure of a relationship. Familycoach
Andrech, No not a bad idea to call her..have fun and whatever you had to change make sure it improves you..Not change to pacify someone else. Familycoach
The top 3 that you seem to get along with and know the best. Keep in mind the others that may not know you that well, would probably not feel real comfortable staying anyway. You could have your party and maybe have the whole group go somewhere and ...
Do some fun things that you would normally look at and be hesitant. Do them anyway (so long as they are safe). Familycoach
I guess you could try and take up some hobbies. You could also start working out at a club. People that workout together tend to have alot in common and maybe this can carry over into other areas of your life. Good-luck. Familycoach
Dear Eye, Try and shoot issues that are a concern to the public....Something you believe in. Example....I believe kids are being drugged and traquilized into behaving a certian way, so it makes it easier to control the kid.... in other words, drugging...
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Dear Jen, First of all Bipoloar is not a disease like other physical diseases such as diabetes, emphizema etc.... For a doctor to tell you that you have a "disease" in the brain, (bipoloar) they must be able to show you what that of a normal brain l...
Dear dram, Try and comb your dog really good morning and night, outside. This will help. Familycoach
Dear Caram, Call up a good local real estate agency and ask them your questions. Good-luck!! Familycoach
No nothing wrong with it. Familycoach
Dear Tiff, You are learning a crucial tool in life....This is that you can't control other peoples actions. You want things to stay the same....but the people you look up to are going a different direction. There is not one thing you can do. I know w...
Dear This, If you were my daughter I would tell her to start distanceing herself away from the boy. It is obvious that you ( right now) don't feel that same connection that he wants you to feel. Maybe ease in the idea that you don't have the same fee...
Dear Hawk, You are going to drive yourself crazy with this one, because there is no answer to it other than what your wife told you. You and I are guys and we know how guys work, right? If we were single, we met a hot lady out and told her "You can s...
Dear Laure, You just tell her the truth as to how you feel towards the friend. Who really cares if grandma believes you or not. I know you want her to understand so you won't feel uncomfortable etc.. This is a good learning experience for you. Y...
Dear Chey, If you want to change thats great....But do it for you without denial of your motivation for change. Try this..Over the next 2 weeks "pretend"your ex does not exsist. Really make yourself believe this..Carry on your daily life without hav...
Dear Dani, A few things that I think are kind of neat. To get alittle more strength and cardio for sports try this. Get into the jumping position (like a squat but not all the way down) Jump up as hard as you can so you come atleast 5-6 inches ...
Dear Bron, Start this out by telling your mom what you do. Let her know what your doing. If she gets upset with you for being 10 pounds over weight, let me know. I can give you a workout if you want, but it has to be for you..not for looking good to o...
Dear Echo, If you are "willing to try anything" try this. Call some of your local bike dealers. They have to be bike dealers, not the bike section at a wall-mart, Target, etc. Actual bike shops that repair and service bikes etc.. Some of these shops m...
No you are not wrong..Do what you want..Remember the more you work the more your agent makes. So he/she may not really care as to what you want. Do what you want, have a blast as a kid and don't ever let anyone tell you what you should be doing. They ...
Rollerskating is always fun. Familycoach
Dear Hardworker, Try asking neighbors to do yardwork. Pass out flyers advertising that you wash cars at your home. Try some of those things and see what happens. Familycoach
Dear Jian, You got alot to handle here. The problem is, that it really is not your problem. So many people get stuck with the problems their spouse brings with them into the second marriage. The fact that you even care enough to ask for help demonstra...
Dear Caw, Call you doctor and make an appointment. Familycoach
Dear Miss, TRY and not take this situation to serious. I KNOW this is easier said than done. Understand a few things. The close part of this relationship is only 4 months....(not long), also understand that there is nothing wrong with you, so the fact...
Dear Typi, Mrs. Marshall said it best for your situation. If you do all that she tells you and the mom still hates you, there is nothing you can do. I would kind of go slow as far as marriage goes. A bad relationship with a parent-in-law can play hel...
Dear Deb, Why don't you have somebody do a background check on him, and then show you/him the report. I would think if you called local police to find a company they use that does background checks, you could use that same company. May cost you a few ...
Dear XO Try doing jumping squats. Get into jumping position and jump up landing on your toes to soften the impact. Do 25 in a row. That is one set. Do 6 sets of 25 rest 1 minute between each set. Do this every other day. Have fun. Familycoach
When you ask a question, try and have a few follow-up questions to shoot out at them right away. For example: If they answer "this way" to your question have a few questions to give them "quickly" that will cover the angle they are going down. Be ready...
Find some of the problems in your school that people are concerned with. Ask different kids of all types and get some input....Maybe you could even do a video on how all of us really desire the same things in life. From the jocks, to the goth, to the ...
I self published two books. When you self publish only get the minimum, maybe 200 to 500 copies. Then try and have a friend book you on different tv shows that would be interested in the content. You will make more per copy, but it is way harder to get...
Dear Hoot, Sounds like a fun part time job. Familycoach
Dear Bridie, Try not and worry about making sure people (including family) understand you and your beliefs. This is a good learning experience for you to develop this crucial element in living life free from caring what people think of you and your be...
Dear Jay, Only go if you want to. If it brings you comfort..go. Do not go to make anyone happy etc... Familycoach
Dear Isabelle, Because you won't see him until next month.The next time you see him....Tell him that you missed him.. Tell him you have fun with him and that you did not realize it until now. You could even say "let's not go that long again without ha...
Dear Wanna, There is more to this..for example. Think of the last time they "yelled" at you. PLEASE tell me what started the yelling (in detail) from the VERY start of the conflict and how you handled it. I will then give you whatever type of help I ...
Dear Cheerleading, Your friend has a lot to deal with. She is probably scared of mom. If she was not scared of her tell her to call the police the next time she is attacked by mom. If she is scared of mom and wants to run away tell her to fun mail me...
Dear Tycoon, I would throw out all shoes, work shoes, etc.... and socks, keep feet dry as possible. Hope that works. Familycoach
Ask your friends and then decide together.
By the way don't worry about gaining more weight..Be happy with you body. To increase your strength you are going to have to increase your reps and sets of reps. Start by doing everything you are doing now, just increase it to maybe 10 sets of 12 reps....
Dear Tibe, Again don't worry about the figure. Just start exercising developing a knew way of life for yourself, everything else will work it's way out. If you tell me what exercise machines you have available to you, I will give you your workout rout...
Dear j, You are not doing near enough reps and sets of those reps, from now on do this. When you do a sit-up you never come all the way up or all the way down. Starting position: Start down keeping your head and shoulders off the ground. Knees r...