Under stress and having trouble with my parents
Anti-prep,
First off..It is not your responsibility to make sure your parents love eachother and get along and are happy.
Remember...They made the choice to bring you in to this world..They should be the ones trying to make your life happy..helping y...
How to get my arm thinner?
jjjhehepoo.
OK..when you are watching some TV get 2 chairs. Place them about 2 to 3 feet apart.
Sit in between the 2 chairs on the floor so your feet and legs are straight out. Get in position so you are holding yourself up with your hands and arms ...
Too fat?
Brit,
You are fine..Try and look in to some kind of endurance/cardio training. You are not that tall so you want to make sure you stay strong and fit as you get older..OK?
You are not fat...To answer your question.
Familycoach
Get unsore after practicing dance?
IM,
Nothing you can do..It's just our natural body healing itself...But..still do your dance,workouts etc..and what will happen is you will work through the soreness..
Take more time to warm up and you should be fine, once your muscles get going..it ...
Was he using me?
Emo,
Just call b.f. and ask and tell him your concern.
Familycoach
Is it normal to just forget?
Dear Fau,
That is a sign of the after affects of marijuana use. The THC from marijuana is fat soluble..which means it stays in the fat tissues of the body. The brain (physically) is just fatty tissues..a womens reproductive parts are fatty tissues..Th...
Kennywood?
Ring,
No I have heard so much about it, but let me know if it's any fun.
Familycoach
Are there any adults who like laughing and acting weird and funny?
Anna,
Don't get caught up in how other people act.. You can't control them no matter how you are related. They are trying to control you to be how they want you to be. To answer your question...Adults, as we get older unfortunately get to concerned as...
Can't afford a truck I need to buy to get to work, what to do?
Super,
Don't worry about the truck for now...Try and find someone to take you to work...Now when you get to work be the best worker..go the extra mile..do other peoples work if you have to..and never complain. You will make yourself very valuable to t...
Smokers and ex-smokers
Dear Grass,
When you quit what really helps is to replaec it with cardio training. This really works on you if you smoke because you can really feel the effects of your smoking, you really feel what the smoke is doing to you. If you do no training you...
How do I quit smoking?
Fau,
Try and not think about quitting...Start an exercise routine..OK? I can give you some good cardio workouts..Will make you strong..give you endurance..through developing cardio. We will do this in steps.. to phase out your habit.
Familycoach
I feel scared when alone in the house(100.00%)
Dear Lur,
I don't know why that is..but a lot of people have these same types of negative feelings...Think about it..Why don't you have feelings of comfort..feelings that a loving spirit is in the house with you..I think it's all in your mind and how ...
How would I deal with this?(100.00%)
Kay,
Consider yourself lucky!! One of the ways you can always keep them in your life forever..is to adopt a lot of the traits you love in them..When you have kids and grandkids, deal with them on the same level as your grandparents deal with you..This...
What do I do if single and alone?
Kit,
If you think you are nice to others than just because you don't know a lot of people does not mean you are not liked. Treat people good and look for things/hobbies/sports that interest you. Then do it... and you will see that the people you mee...
Do you think I should visit my estranged mother?
Pook,
Before you do anything try and locate her by phone talk to her and play "catch up" over the phone. Don't get your hopes up as to how you think she will act..be strong and never allow another human being to control your happiness...No matter how ...
Singing / Acting Career
Jason,
Call your music teacher from high school..or a music teacher from a college that you know of. Ask them your question..I am sure they will put you on the right track.
Familycoach
Should I go to panama, fl for spring break?
Tab,
No don't go..You know down deep that you did not like your last visit.
Try and go somewhere else. You both could compromise.
If you do go just find out areas where the drunks laying all over etc... does not happen.
Familycoach
Am I ill?
go see your doctor...forget about funadvice with this one.
Familycoach
Age difference(100.00%)
Megan,
Not a big deal...Don't worry about it..If you guys have fun than go ahead and enjoy yourself. That really is not that big of an age difference anyway. Is he nice to you? Do you guys have fun together? Do you both like eachothers company Etc...I...
Going to tell my parents that I'm bi
Dear Ana,
Don't say anything now..It's not a big deal..you are kinda nervous about it..there is no need to go into it now..You know they may not take it so well (thats why you are nervous) let it go for now. Do other things, enjoy yourself with friend...
What should I do when my sister is mean to me?
Dear lul,
Tell your mom or dad. If that does not work, write a letter to your sister and write a letter to your mom and dad, explaining your feelings about how and why your sister is mean to you.
You can funmail me back after that.
Familycoach
Is this weight bad?
Dear Dollar,
What do you think? When you look in the mirror do you think you are overweight?
Funmail me back OK?
Familycoach
Examination halls, classrooms, and crowded places
Dear Ice,
Your past denial in how you would treat others is being called out through the problems you are having with you exams...Use it to change the way you treat people..No more name calling, no more faking, etc...Because you are finding out the ...
What kind of trampoline?
Dear Really,
Be careful on those things. If you remember in gym class we had a spotter all the way around and the teacher always stressed caution.
Familycoach
How to comprehend better?
Haw,
Try and see if you can get the info on a cd and listen to it over and over. This can really help.
Familycoach
Scared that if I get my ged people are going to see me as a quitter
Dear Ash,
Here is what you do..Make sure you stay in real close contact (daily) with the teachers that you are working with on-line. Make sure!! they know and understand your homelife. DO NOT keep this from them..If there is a day or days you were not...
What should I do for my birthday?
Dear ekell,
In my opinion Megan has the best advice for you concerning the friends...
As far as what to do...you could go to a movie..then to get pizza..then go get some junk food and watch movies until everybody zonks out...There is a fun night!!...
Divorce rate
Dear Steph,
Believe it or not divorce is at the lowest rate since the mid 1970's. I think we simply have so many ways to find statistics and when we see these numbers we think nobody stays married anymore etc..But we are at the lowest since the 70's.
...
How to make my stomach flatter?(100.00%)
Dear alwa,
First off..Don't worry about how your stomach "looks" Understand that we need strong stomach muscles for good back support. This may help you.
What to do??
When you are watching TV at night,morning whenever..I want you to start out doing ...
How long until my parents trust me again?
Dear Prince,
You are learning a wonderful lesson which is...You are treated the way you treat others..In this case it just so happens to be your parents. You are showing respect, showing consideration,showing the ability to listen with no confrontatio...
How to tell my parents once I'm pregnant?(100.00%)
Dear Cora,
I want you ot put the need to get pregnant on hold...It's Ok to want what you want..I am asking you to simply put it on hold. Would you funmail me with the response to the following questions? (with no denial...be open and honest with yours...
How to help my Mom with her drinking problem?
Dear Kala,
Your mom has really gone through a lot of horrific times in her life.
It is hard to tell her what she should be doing or should not be doing.
The trauma that she has encountered is really beyond most "advisors".
What I would have y...
Drinking at 13
Dear Yea,
I know you hate hearing you are to young for drinking...but you are.
Here is why...At the age of 13 (not just you but any 13 year old) you have not gone through different problems in your life that you will have to work out. It is called ma...
How to be good in both halves of a basketball game?
Dear Bubb,
Get to your games about a half hour early.
Go off to the side and do light streching for 10 min.
Go somewhere at the facility where you can start a light run..maybe on the sidelines or in the halls etc..
Get nice and warm..break a sweat ...
Is a PS3 worth $499?
Cliff,
If you can wait about a year or so maybe it will come down in price.
Familycoach
Should I quit now?
Dear Going,
Why don't you tell Mom,Dad,Teacher that you want to take one full month off.
For this month don't even look at a piano.
Just relax and don't allow yourself and parents and teacher to get uptight over this.
It could be a couple things..1...
How do I get to an acting agency?
Dear Holly,
Ask your agency about hooking you up with a good American agency and just have 2 agencies for each location.
Familycoach
Are steroids a threat to athletes' health?
Dear Ant,
Steroids do build muscle very fast. The problem is the tendons that hold the muscle are imune to the steroid drug, the gains they create and the daily workout movements. So what happens is you get stronger and can lift more weight but the te...
What should I do about my stage fright?
Dear Elf,
You know better than to quit something you love. Here is what you do..Practice an extra 1 to 2 hours a day. What will happen is your confidence level will shoot up and overcome that stage fright. Of course you will always be a little nervous...
What if my friend took my iPod?
Dear XM,
Ask her where and when she got it. Check out those sources.
If her story does not add up start laying off your freindship.
Still be nice but back off, be nice to her like you would be passing a stranger in a store etc..If she wants to know ...
Can you give me a workout to lose stomach fat?
Dear Heaven,
First of all,don't worry about working out to counter your physical look. I want you to concentrate on obtaining cardio,strength and endurance. To do this I want you starting with cardio first..it's easy..OK?
I need you to funmail me ba...
Is it too early for foreplay?
Dirty,
You are a red blooded normal boy..It is very normal for you to want to do this stuff with your girlfriend, but for now just try and control your thoughts to where you don't constantly think about it..This will help you through the wanting to fo...
What's wrong with Britney Spears?
Britney way back was manufactured by a bunch of adults and maybe even the mother. If you remember some of her early videos and songs she did, at the time she was very, very young to portray this somewhat of a sex symbol ( to sell records) She was pushe...
Am I being too old fashioned?
No..In fact if you are her friend you could help her. Make her understand that her actions show you and her kids that she does not really love her children.
So many times we hear "kids first" etc..It means nothing..to me anyway.
Maybe you could throw...
familycoach's Advice
Anti-prep, First off..It is not your responsibility to make sure your parents love eachother and get along and are happy. Remember...They made the choice to bring you in to this world..They should be the ones trying to make your life happy..helping y...
jjjhehepoo. OK..when you are watching some TV get 2 chairs. Place them about 2 to 3 feet apart. Sit in between the 2 chairs on the floor so your feet and legs are straight out. Get in position so you are holding yourself up with your hands and arms ...
Brit, You are fine..Try and look in to some kind of endurance/cardio training. You are not that tall so you want to make sure you stay strong and fit as you get older..OK? You are not fat...To answer your question. Familycoach
IM, Nothing you can do..It's just our natural body healing itself...But..still do your dance,workouts etc..and what will happen is you will work through the soreness.. Take more time to warm up and you should be fine, once your muscles get going..it ...
Emo, Just call b.f. and ask and tell him your concern. Familycoach
Dear Fau, That is a sign of the after affects of marijuana use. The THC from marijuana is fat soluble..which means it stays in the fat tissues of the body. The brain (physically) is just fatty tissues..a womens reproductive parts are fatty tissues..Th...
Ring, No I have heard so much about it, but let me know if it's any fun. Familycoach
Anna, Don't get caught up in how other people act.. You can't control them no matter how you are related. They are trying to control you to be how they want you to be. To answer your question...Adults, as we get older unfortunately get to concerned as...
Super, Don't worry about the truck for now...Try and find someone to take you to work...Now when you get to work be the best worker..go the extra mile..do other peoples work if you have to..and never complain. You will make yourself very valuable to t...
Dear Grass, When you quit what really helps is to replaec it with cardio training. This really works on you if you smoke because you can really feel the effects of your smoking, you really feel what the smoke is doing to you. If you do no training you...
Go to your high school and talk to your teachers that organize plays. Familycoach
Fau, Try and not think about quitting...Start an exercise routine..OK? I can give you some good cardio workouts..Will make you strong..give you endurance..through developing cardio. We will do this in steps.. to phase out your habit. Familycoach
Dear Lur, I don't know why that is..but a lot of people have these same types of negative feelings...Think about it..Why don't you have feelings of comfort..feelings that a loving spirit is in the house with you..I think it's all in your mind and how ...
Kay, Consider yourself lucky!! One of the ways you can always keep them in your life forever..is to adopt a lot of the traits you love in them..When you have kids and grandkids, deal with them on the same level as your grandparents deal with you..This...
Kit, If you think you are nice to others than just because you don't know a lot of people does not mean you are not liked. Treat people good and look for things/hobbies/sports that interest you. Then do it... and you will see that the people you mee...
Pook, Before you do anything try and locate her by phone talk to her and play "catch up" over the phone. Don't get your hopes up as to how you think she will act..be strong and never allow another human being to control your happiness...No matter how ...
Jason, Call your music teacher from high school..or a music teacher from a college that you know of. Ask them your question..I am sure they will put you on the right track. Familycoach
Tab, No don't go..You know down deep that you did not like your last visit. Try and go somewhere else. You both could compromise. If you do go just find out areas where the drunks laying all over etc... does not happen. Familycoach
go see your doctor...forget about funadvice with this one. Familycoach
Megan, Not a big deal...Don't worry about it..If you guys have fun than go ahead and enjoy yourself. That really is not that big of an age difference anyway. Is he nice to you? Do you guys have fun together? Do you both like eachothers company Etc...I...
Dear Ana, Don't say anything now..It's not a big deal..you are kinda nervous about it..there is no need to go into it now..You know they may not take it so well (thats why you are nervous) let it go for now. Do other things, enjoy yourself with friend...
Dear lul, Tell your mom or dad. If that does not work, write a letter to your sister and write a letter to your mom and dad, explaining your feelings about how and why your sister is mean to you. You can funmail me back after that. Familycoach
Dear Dollar, What do you think? When you look in the mirror do you think you are overweight? Funmail me back OK? Familycoach
Dear Fau, What is your present height and weight? I need to know this before I answer...OK? Familycoach
Dear Ice, Your past denial in how you would treat others is being called out through the problems you are having with you exams...Use it to change the way you treat people..No more name calling, no more faking, etc...Because you are finding out the ...
Dear Really, Be careful on those things. If you remember in gym class we had a spotter all the way around and the teacher always stressed caution. Familycoach
Haw, Try and see if you can get the info on a cd and listen to it over and over. This can really help. Familycoach
Dear Ash, Here is what you do..Make sure you stay in real close contact (daily) with the teachers that you are working with on-line. Make sure!! they know and understand your homelife. DO NOT keep this from them..If there is a day or days you were not...
Dear ekell, In my opinion Megan has the best advice for you concerning the friends... As far as what to do...you could go to a movie..then to get pizza..then go get some junk food and watch movies until everybody zonks out...There is a fun night!!...
Dear Steph, Believe it or not divorce is at the lowest rate since the mid 1970's. I think we simply have so many ways to find statistics and when we see these numbers we think nobody stays married anymore etc..But we are at the lowest since the 70's. ...
Dear alwa, First off..Don't worry about how your stomach "looks" Understand that we need strong stomach muscles for good back support. This may help you. What to do?? When you are watching TV at night,morning whenever..I want you to start out doing ...
Dear Prince, You are learning a wonderful lesson which is...You are treated the way you treat others..In this case it just so happens to be your parents. You are showing respect, showing consideration,showing the ability to listen with no confrontatio...
Dear Cora, I want you ot put the need to get pregnant on hold...It's Ok to want what you want..I am asking you to simply put it on hold. Would you funmail me with the response to the following questions? (with no denial...be open and honest with yours...
Dear Kala, Your mom has really gone through a lot of horrific times in her life. It is hard to tell her what she should be doing or should not be doing. The trauma that she has encountered is really beyond most "advisors". What I would have y...
Dear want to, Looks like Mira has the good ideas for you. Familycoach
Dear Yea, I know you hate hearing you are to young for drinking...but you are. Here is why...At the age of 13 (not just you but any 13 year old) you have not gone through different problems in your life that you will have to work out. It is called ma...
Dear Shell, Start to distance yourself from this "friend". Does not matter how long you have been friends. Familycoach
Dear Bubb, Get to your games about a half hour early. Go off to the side and do light streching for 10 min. Go somewhere at the facility where you can start a light run..maybe on the sidelines or in the halls etc.. Get nice and warm..break a sweat ...
Cliff, If you can wait about a year or so maybe it will come down in price. Familycoach
Dear Going, Why don't you tell Mom,Dad,Teacher that you want to take one full month off. For this month don't even look at a piano. Just relax and don't allow yourself and parents and teacher to get uptight over this. It could be a couple things..1...
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Dear Holly, Ask your agency about hooking you up with a good American agency and just have 2 agencies for each location. Familycoach
Dear Ash, Try an exercise bike..Do about 10 to 12 miles a day. Familycoach
Dear Ant, Steroids do build muscle very fast. The problem is the tendons that hold the muscle are imune to the steroid drug, the gains they create and the daily workout movements. So what happens is you get stronger and can lift more weight but the te...
Dear Elf, You know better than to quit something you love. Here is what you do..Practice an extra 1 to 2 hours a day. What will happen is your confidence level will shoot up and overcome that stage fright. Of course you will always be a little nervous...
Dear XM, Ask her where and when she got it. Check out those sources. If her story does not add up start laying off your freindship. Still be nice but back off, be nice to her like you would be passing a stranger in a store etc..If she wants to know ...
Dear Heaven, First of all,don't worry about working out to counter your physical look. I want you to concentrate on obtaining cardio,strength and endurance. To do this I want you starting with cardio first..it's easy..OK? I need you to funmail me ba...
Dirty, You are a red blooded normal boy..It is very normal for you to want to do this stuff with your girlfriend, but for now just try and control your thoughts to where you don't constantly think about it..This will help you through the wanting to fo...
Britney way back was manufactured by a bunch of adults and maybe even the mother. If you remember some of her early videos and songs she did, at the time she was very, very young to portray this somewhat of a sex symbol ( to sell records) She was pushe...
No..In fact if you are her friend you could help her. Make her understand that her actions show you and her kids that she does not really love her children. So many times we hear "kids first" etc..It means nothing..to me anyway. Maybe you could throw...