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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
exu1r's Advice
ignore him. it cant be simpler than that.
it definitely exists. if your a jehovahs witness then you would know that your God loves u. if your talking about relationships then it IS overrated but it does exists. think of all the couples who have been happily married and till "death did they par...
hey, you know I feel a lot like that sometimes. I feel like a complete inadequate when everything I do fails. when I never succeed. when everyone does better than me without even trying. when no one makes friends with you no matter how hard you try. bu...
find another guy. quick and simple fix to your problems. there are 6 billion people in the world. of which over 200 million are in america. 100 million of them are guys, of which at least 10 million are below 20. I'm sure you can find another guy in t...
okkk... this one is simple. if your fashion style is out of place where you are at, then it is natural for people to aviod u. being different is good, but only when you know that people around you accept u. for now just try to blend in with the fashion...
for guys who are just looking for quick sex and a short feel good high, looks would mean everything. and a hot body. the guys would naturally be drawn to u. dressing scantily and acting all sluttish; the boys would swarm to u. but I really think you...
u might be hurt from past relationships, but dont ever let that stop u from living ur life. just be bold and go out there and meet new people. dont u have colleagues from work? start from there!
hey looks like ur going through the mid life crisis. be more open about urself! if people online can talk to u, chances are people in real life would! try and be a happier person and u'll find that life's actually worth living.
take caffeine. it helps. a cup of coffee or tea and im awake for the next 12 hours.
stress sometimes screws up ur period. food changes, extreme exercise, anything. u start to worry only when ur period comes 28 days late.
i told u.
depends. if it brought back good memories i would. i keep letters and stuff from all my exs. including pictures. just to remember past experiences. but i dont look at them real often.
if the boy who pushed you down the stairs had sex with you against your consent, you have a right to report him to the police for rape. and I strongly suggest you do that. tell your parents too. you seem to be a very mature girl who understands the sit...
its great. good mix of carbs for energy and protein. but work out less. cut it down to 2-3 times a week. ur muscles need time to grow and recover. if not they'll stay the same size.
your boobs are made of 80% fat. if u want to lose weight, be prepared to lose from there. and i think 112 pounds is quite a healthy weight. if u wanna feel healthy, exercise more and eat right. if u are determined to lose weight, then its the same ...
get him to wear a condom. he'll last longer,
haha. it seems u really cant get over him. both of u can still be friends and such. but if guys are really nor interested, we wont be running back to u for a while. but we would still want to be friends with our ex girls anyway. so go ahead and continu...
well, the only way to test it out, c*m again and see whether it smells.
in my personal opinion, no. i am quite certain that he is only going to use u for sex, and take advantage u. please make the right choice here. dont go out with guys so much older than u. many MANY girls have been forced into sex with their older boyfr...
both of u make a wonderful pair!
its great that u get everything out of ur system. this is my advice. keep ur friendship strong with him. both of u can still be great friends, just not emotionally attached, move on to other guys. u said that 3 guys are after u. if u like them, then no...
if your boyfriend truly loved u, he would definitely know that u are still there for him and u will always be giving him support. and if he loves u, he probably wouldnt want u to end up in jail. so in my opinion, dont risk it.
i'll keep it short and simple and just answer ur question. yes we guys really love oral sex. we really do. its one of our favorites. but that being said, dont give it to him unless u really feel comfortable with doing so. your boyfriend is lucky to hav...
ok so obviously ur feeling rather unsure of urself. you've heard this countless times, but just be urself, and be confident and happy about it. guys like a confident young woman who accepts herself for who she is. approach him, and start a normal conve...
some do some dont. honestly none are scarcely close to the effect of a healthy diet and exercise.
i shall not answer ur question. take it as a nil.
ur gonna hate me for this, but there's a reason ur parents are like that.. i dont mean to be critical, but alot of young girls out there are having sex with boys 6 years older than them. boys who just take advantage of young girls. ur parents are just ...
guys NEVER EVER EVER like really skinny girls. ask most men out there and 95% would say they girls more full bodied. i've seen anorexic girls who are really gaunt, and its a real pity cause they'll be much prettier with more fat on their frame. so stay...
but how do i really look? i quite curious about that too.
i dunno, whats that?
increase ur weight? try dieting. not just any dieting but do crash dieting. starve urelf for a month, then start whacking up food. u'll put on the pounds like crazy if that's what u really want, reason: when u deprive ur self of energy for long periods...
i'm probably gonna get bashed down for this but i believe there is a God. firstly the voice of God can only be heard if u let him. its was never a loud booming voice even in the old testament. its a soft yet clear voice that can only be heard if u keep...
gasmanobt said what i wanted to say. just as there are some bad christians, there are also bad buddhist and muslims etc. so yes christians are not perfect and neither do we claim to be. bush made a bad decision and so did christian america. but remembe...
set some goals in ur life. spend the first five minutes of ur day telling ur self u WILL accomplish what u set out to do, and u will NOT be lazy, u'd be surprised to how much 5 mins can do ur life.
well if u ask me its always important to have friends. so i think it would be best in finding a group of friends. i think u should go back to ur old group of friends as they seem quite open to having u in their group. there will always be akward momen...
if you've bonded with some one u'll end up feeling more comfortable around the person. and both of you will mutually enjoy each others company better. its hard to describe but basically if you dont feel any different toward that person, chances are, ...
what do u mean by uptight? thanks.
i may be only a kid but i know alot about my parents and their broken relationship. my dad's having an affair and always yells and gets pissed off easily. my mom cant stand it either and she used to cry alot. but both my mom and i got over him by trust...
same when i was in love with this girl, i kept looking at her when she didnt notice. so the best way to tell if a guy is looking at u, pretend not to notice him and then suddenly whip ur head around to see whether he's looking at u. he'll probably quic...
haha this is the nth time ur asking about that one guy, and this is the third time i'm replying u. YES guys do such things to make themselves appear more hard to get and attractive to girls. but as i've said in my other post, dont fret it. its very com...
hey, i know this is gonna sound hard to do, but dont waste ur time on such an insensitive person. especially if he knows ur still hurting from the broken relationship. even if its only to make u jealous, it wasnt very nice of him. if u wanna fight bac...
i've been there. and its not a nice feeling at all. the hard way is to give it time. i took a long time to get over my ex. but i did eventually. the fastest way is to go find someone else. that will take ur mind off that person. another time when some ...
heyhey calm down. firstly the healthiest way to lose weight is slowly. when u lose weight too fast u end up losing muscle weight instead of fat weight. the result? u end up having a higher body fat % with less muscle to burn fat. exercise will definite...
negative calorie foods do exist but their negative calorie value isnt a whole lot. like maybe -15 cals for a whole stick of carrot? isnt alot, so dont count on them to lose weight. HOWEVER, if they are eaten in replacement of calorie dense foods, then ...
many would die to have your body. BUT in many cases, its the person who thinks they eat alot when they actually dont eat as much as they percieve themselves too. so basically, u dont have to spend money on taking pills, but focus more on gorging yourse...
the way we do now. loving others just as God would. and God's teachings and methods will always remain unchanged through the decades.
boobooloogoo has been making some nasty comments i noticed. but its ok. i feel that asians are sort of being considered a second grade race in America. but i guess thats reality.
the best thing to do if he truly is your good friend ask him again whether still sees u as a friend or something deeper. if he sees u just as a close friend, then he is probably just like a big brother always keeping watch and caring for u. move on to ...
i agree with aznmonkey. he does seem to be interested in you. if u still have feelings for him u should talk to him, and build up ur friendship with him. and maybe u can patch up the relationship and start anew. just dont make the same breakup mistakes...
i used to suffer from low self esteem. but then i met God and i realised that i was fearfully and wonderfully made in the Lord. as long as i was beautiful in God's eyes, i didnt care what others thought of me. if ur not a religious person, then, just r...