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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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I'd leave it alone. Nothing happened and it did occur during a crisis between them. Saying anything now would do no one any good.
First check and see if there are any shelters in your area. If you are able to start a shelter you would have to try to seek funding from churches, charities, civic organizations and local government.
"Is abortion wrong?" a·bor·tion (?-bôr'sh?n) n. 1. a. Termination of pregnancy and expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus that is incapable of survival. b. Any of various procedures that result in such termination and expulsion. Al...
You can't really stop them, you can only set an example. A lot of times people swear because the lack a good command of language or also because they think that it makes them look cool. You can try making suggestions to them but if they keep s...
I wouldn't worry about it unless there is pain or tenderness in that location also. If there is then it might be a sign of a hernia and should be looked into.
I, too, agree that you should move out and go to your grandmother's. He will only become more abusive. If he doesn't enter an alcoholic treatment program then your safety is going to be at risk -- for real!
It might simply be growing pains. If you're still in school, check with your school nurse.
You are simply lacking in confidence. You are afraid that "strangers" are going to be judgmental and that you might not be favorable in their sight. You're also afraid to look them in the eye because you're afraid they will be able to "see" into the ...
Sport hunting should be banned. Hunting for individual consumption is okay as long as all usable parts are utilized. Hunting as a commercial enterprise should not be permitted.
In the future, whenever you're about to do something, ask yourself if it is something that is good for you, something that will help you get closer to attaining your goals. What? You don't have any goals? That might be part of your problem. If...
If you are having problems or are depressed, below are a couple of sites that may help you: Worldwide: Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a s...
"Is abortion wrong?" a·bor·tion (?-bôr'sh?n) n. 1. a. Termination of pregnancy and expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus that is incapable of survival. b. Any of various procedures that result in such termination and expulsion. Al...
How about writing an article about it and submitting it to your local newspaper -- maybe the editorial section or "comments" section. If the local population realizes what's going on they may apply pressure to the schools to get their act together.
Sometimes being a father doesn't turn out the way we expect. Living, and the problems that come with living, sometimes distract us from our duties and responsibilities of being a father. I don't think that your father is purposefully avoiding yo...
Take a serious look at your life now and decide if the things you are doing now are really helping you get where you would like to see yourself in 5 to 10 years. If you are not satisfied with where you are or are heading then make an honest decis...
kar·ma (kär'm?) n. Hinduism & Buddhism. The total effect of a person's actions and conduct during the successive phases of the person's existence, regarded as determining the person's destiny. karma or karman (kär'm?, kär'm?n) , [Skt.,=actio...
No one is worth it who gives you ultimatums. You would be doing yourself a world of good if you end the relationship and open yourself up to the possibility that "Mr. Right" may be out there looking for you.
I think the world may well end in around a billion years. Sooner, if a large asteroid strikes the earth prior to the earth (man) having the ability to defend the earth. Considering the advancement in knowledge and technology of the human species...
If you are having problems or are depressed, below are a couple of sites that may help you: Worldwide: Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a s...
You have to be 18 or graduated from High School. To become emancipated sooner you would have to demonstrate the ability to care for and support yourself.
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I think you're 14 so I would imagine that your boy friend is 15 to 18. If he has a good job then maybe you could get by in an apartment. But if his job doesn't pay very much then you are going to need financial assistance either from his folks, ...
I don't mind seeing those questions getting "locked", but I think that the adviser who locks the question should first make sure that at least one answer gives links to hotlines or "help" sites. It's easy to forget that many many similarly situat...
Start thinking more positive. Negative events are not too likely to happen to you unless you purposefully place yourself in harms way. For example, I wouldn't go out walking alone at night. Most likely the shooting wasn't really random but even...
I don't know how it's done in your country but in most of the states in the U.S. the sentence might be like 15 years to life. That means that the person must serve at least 15 years before being eligible for parole. But parole doesn't have to be g...
Turn her on to the information below: If you are having problems or are depressed, below are a couple of sites that may help you: Worldwide: Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer h...
I would guess that your sister is fairly young. She may be keeping one like as a toy. This is wrong. If she can't support and take care of the twins properly and provide for their welfare for the next 18 years, then she should seriously consider ...
I would get something in writing from the Office of Military Justice stating that your conviction is not considered a felony by them. Then I would contact a District Attorney or lawyer in your state to find out what your state's laws state.
Worldwide Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a state of depression. http://www.befrienders.org/support/helplines.asp (If it's not an active link...
You are at an age where you are going through many hormonal and emotional changes. Sometimes this causes anxiety and even depression. I wouldn't worry about it but if there are other things in your life that are making you sad or depressed, chec...
Nature/evolution gave them the instinct to nurse. I think that there is leakage of milk by the mother animal enough for the baby animal to sense it but in any event the sucking instinct is so strong that if they get anywhere near the teat they will...
"What is the meaning of life?" The meaning of life IS eternity. This fragment which we currently inhabit "called life" is just a part of eternity which is but a classroom from which we graduate to other classrooms along the path toward Oneness in G...
It is true in some cities but not for colleges. Its purpose is go provide an atmosphere where there are less distractions in the learning environment.
It isn't possible that one child could be fathered by both of them, but it is theoretically possible if you had fraternal twins that each could be by a different father.
During a calm conversation, ask her. But be prepared to ACCEPT her whether she is or isn't, and let her know that. Be supportive of her.
No, I appreciate it because it lets me know that they are someone I don't need to waste my time on. There are too many other users who really want advice to worry about those few.
There's no problem. Stick to your guns and be true to YOURSELF. Don't let yourself be controlled by weak minded people who are jealous of your strengths. Take the opportunity you have during the next several years to absorb as much knowledge an...
Think seriously about it. Would YOU want to be treated the way that you're treating him?
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Not normally. However, if you were applying for some benefit or something in your state you might be required to show a marriage license whether you were married in your state or somewhere else.
Interesting info for tallest mountain: http://hypertextbook.com/facts/2001/BeataUnke.shtml Smallest mountain: (From Yahoo! - Answers) It's a complicated question because there's no standard definition of how high a mountain has to be. In ...
You should never judge a book by its cover. Its contents may surprise you.
If you can't find someone in person who you can regularly use as a sounding-board to vent your frustrations on, then find someone online. It will help you considerably if you find someone whom you can dialog with and discuss what it is that you get...
I agree with those who say you shouldn't have done it. However, your intentions were honorable. Life is a learning experience. Next time you'll know that there are better options.
o·va (o'v?) n. Plural of ovum. ovum (o'v?m) n., pl. o·va (o'v?). The female reproductive cell or gamete of animals; egg. [Latin ovum, egg.]
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If you are having problems or are depressed, below are a couple of sites that may help you: Worldwide: Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a s...
"Reincarnation?" Prior to incarnating into a physical body the entity chooses what it wants to accomplish and what the probable circumstances involving that body and its environment will be. When the situation is right the entity then begins t...
It depends on what kind of relationship you have with your mother. It could be that she is waiting for you to become sexually active so that she can be more "open" with you. "but she wants me to be checked for cervical cancer... " That's a go...
How old is your brother?