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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
erin182's Advice
I thought it happened when the times right but seen as I just found out today I'm pregnant before I went into my last exam to leave uni, not the best time! :) have a chat with your gp, or maybe your boyfriend has a low sperm count? it could be a numb...
you are not a slut, been pregnant doesnt make you a slut, you have to do whatever you feel is right, for you and the baby, whats meant to happen will and whats meant to be is, don't let someone tell you to do something you dont want, it'll be hard but,...
mine healed in about 3-4 weeks? and it didnt hurt at all, the only thing that was painful was the clamp and that just feels like a little nip :)
as far as I know the only thing that makes your boobs bigger is a boob job, a push up bra, padded bra or gel pads in your bra, NOT flexing sorry :)
not bad cheek for a '9 year old' eh! I'm a smiley ! half english half australian and live in aussie, nearly 19, live with my boyfriend, laugh all the time, but I get in trouble for my gob sometimes because I say what I think, not always a good thing...
noo I bloody well dont missus I want opinions to help me! because whatever I do I want to stick to it and that be it so I want to be sure! :)
I've got pictures of me when I was blonde and when I was brunette but I duno? :S
I know where your coming from, I've lied to my boyfriend dylan about it before, because I have a few male friends and he does get really jelous so we argue a lot when I love my friends as brothers and nothing more, and I said I was going out with just ...
well, you could try and make a move, and judge things from there by her reaction, it could be a number of things, she could be playing mind games, she could be trying to be polite, showing off, shy, nervous, or telling the truth, could be loads of reas...
it does hurt but its over so fast you only feel it for a little while, the only thing I dont like is that you can hear it, but it really is over in seconds and it'll just be sore for a few days like any piercing would be.
erm, its nice but a bit plain just been honest, you'd of got a bubbily comment normally but I don't like people who brag about things and are full of theirselves, weather its great or not.
awww your gorgeous, ignore nasty comments, just jelously! good luck! x
I think of myself as english because I was brought up there, but my dads english and my moms australian, I moved back t oaustralia when my mom and dad divorced when I was 11, my boyfriends half italian half australian, so seen as were both mixed I dont...
bloody hell you should me in my shoes for a day I eat everything! I'm not very weight concious though because I dont care, I dont pile it on heavy because im always running around at work and at home and running after someone doing something etc, but ...
sambuca is nice, or malibu and coke! cocktails make good party drinks, get a cocktail book and they tel lyou the best ones and how to make them
you wont go to hell, ignore the religion when it comes to this, as long as you have one before three months, lemmalism3568 said, its just a little seed at that point, you wont go to hell, if people say you will then why is god in heaven for allowing hi...
ignore these jerks! ITS AN ADVICE WEBSITE. why be on it if your going to be total idiots. why not put them in a summer cap for some space? day care? youth clubs? get a babysitter so you have some space? go on holiday with your husband and leav...
shes your mom and she loves you, so expect it im afraid! I'm nearly 19 so younger than you, and I've just got an apartment with my boyfriend, my mom wasnt so bad about the idea because we've been together 5 years, but if you look at my asked questions...
I agree yeah, but what does the colour of ones skin matter and how does that make a difference to an actual person? my boyfriends italian and my step brothers girlfriends black, there people in their own skin and I love them, I dont see how been black...
I'm not going to give you a bashing about this at all Dan, I have been with my boyfriend 5 years, we both work hard, I'm studying to get a career, thats what I want before marriage, we love eachother and we can't afford a fancy wedding right now with ...
I've wore a write dress to a funeral before, and I wore black heels and like a long showl draped round my sholders, I know blacks for funerals but I think the person thats died wouldnt want it to be all dak and dismal, I want nobody in black at my fune...
I HATE racism, I really really do hate it, I think its horrible. I wont say anymore because it'll just be me saying I hate it I hate it haha
I'm probably going to get cr*p at my answer after this but I'm a non believer, well I'm not but I'm unsure really, I lawyas have been. I've never been brought up to believe or not in anything, so I don't know, I think there must be something up there b...
its never to late! don't you watch dancing on ice? they have never even been on ice before and there they are dancing andeverything on it, amazing, go for it if thats what you want to do, good luck!
I'm doing law, politics and maths at uni, love it, people say it's boring but it's whatever interests you!
take a look at my pictures, my hairs different in nearly everyone of them I change it quite a lot, yeah I've had bad experiences but so does everyone, everyone gets a screw up with hair at least one point in their life, I do my own hair now since the h...
me and my boyfriend was like this when we first got together! you think ugh, god, but you will learn to relax around eachother, spend more time with eachother, communicatings important, tell eachother about yourselves, when you was little and that, yo...
drinking lots of water is good for you, apparantly 8 glasses a day is what we should drink, and sometimes if you feel hungry during the day and you have a glass of water, your not hungry anymore because your body was actually dehydtrated not actually h...
you cant hit a vein I dont think but I would advise not to do it yourself, I don't wear one anymore but I got it done about four years ago, and it hurt about 4/10 my friend did it herself and she said it hurt about 8-9/10 and hers went infected, even...
I'm an erin! haha :) Lucy katie louise ebany skye cerys ella honey fiona I love all those names x
well it dpeends, because your on your own it could be your mind playing tricks, because even if I'm in my apartment on my own when my boyfriend works late I think I see figures darting past the door or hear every single creak, what makes me feel better...
well I'm not going to tell you who to be with, and your obviously in split minds, but if it was me, id rather be with someone I loved and who loves me, than with someone who only notices im there when it suits them. if you want that though, seen as yo...
I've had both done when I was younger, my nose hurt more than my lip
I wanted to shave mine when I went into high school and my mom wouldnt let me, I hated it because I was dark so the hair stood out, and in gym class I felt so embarrassed because most of the girls shaved their legs, I think I was about twleve when I st...
theres no age restriction good luck
well its up to the person, depends what type of person you are, but I don't really follow a cliche or a certain style, I dress how ever I want to and believe in been my own person instead of been labelled. Erin
thanks a lot for the advice everyone (:
human nature I suppose isn't it I wish there was other ways around killing eachother, it seems so wrong, but thats the world we live in, x
well put it this way, do you really want to be talking to a friend when your about 30, and she says how special her first time was, and yours was with a guy you idnt really care about because you thought sex wasnt a bit deal? make the mistake if you w...
it depends on the guy really I think, what sort of person they are not that I'd overly know, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity together, and since we've been together 5 years, he's the only person I've ever been with (: it should always be speci...
I like chrissy_x3 's answer age isn't important I'm nearly 19 my boyfriends nearly 24 everyone thought oh my god thats so bad thats discusting at first, but it's not, we've been together for like 5 years? and just moved in with eachother age IS ju...
well im not married, but I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, so I guess things can sometimes get a bit repetative, as we both work all week, saturday night is our only time to ourselves, sometimes we have a night out seperatly, which makes me mi...
the gum is harmful, go to your doctor and ask for some advice, and yes, as a smoker I know how very hard it is to quit!!! good luck and congratz on the baby :) erin x
I'm not sure but as the first answer to your question says, I don't really agree, I think it's cruel, I had my ears pierced when I was five, and not because I wanted to, I didnt know why the hell this women was coming at my ears with a needle gun, my m...
why don't you ask this guy why he is doing this? if you feel embarrassed to come right out and ask him, e mail him or text him, he might have more than friendly feelings for you, or for whatever reason, he might just like pleasuring girls, but if you ...
yeah, theres lots of different types of fringes, I have a diffierent one quite often, I just got a new one :)
er, neither ta? why would we wan to pick one? :S
whatever suits you, but I prefer bikinis really, erin x
get more involved in charitiys maybe, theres tons, cancer, animals, children, homeless etc, just anything to make us more socially aware that we can make a difference and there are so many different causes to choose from and we can make a difference to...
well iguess you can say I bleached mine, I went from dark brown to blonde, it is a risk, hairdressers don't advise it or anything but its upto you, my hairs perfectly healthy and in good condition, I'd never bleached it before that, look into it more ...