Overweight mindset? what?!
That same thing happened to my best friend. She went from a size 16 to size 2 and she STILL thought at time she looked wrong in outfits. It took her mind A LONG time to adjust. She had to change her frame of mind. She logically talked her mind into it ...
Do most girls feel this way or am I just weird?
You are very mature, not weird. That is completely the right attitude. It is great you have many opportunities presented to you but I would not move forward with someone until you really know them and what they want from you. Also, dont become snobby (...
am I a loser 4 not wanting to give a guy a blow job?
HE is the loser for acting that way. Good for you for not doing anything you wanted to do! I am VERY PROUD OF YOU! It was a great opportunity in the end to see what a complete jerk he was.
my man problems
I dont know if he is cheating but he is definitely lying. And either way, he is not being respectful of you, Trust and communication is the cornerstone to any good relationship and without that, what do you have? My advice, confront him and if he does ...
Think it's ok to be gay?
Just because it is not for you, does not mean it is wrong. It is probably weird to you because it is foreign to you. People tend to fear what they dont know.
help me please
That stinks. Going to college will be a nice deviation from that scene. Your parents need to make you and your sisters a priority.
I would probably try talking to you mom about her drinking and bar hoping and your dad about his ability to focus on ...
What causes skin tags?
Not sure. I have them too. I know I need to go to the Dr and the cut them off really fast.
Why do my feet stink?
Sounds like you may have some sort of fungus. I had a boyfriend that had that problem - he had to get some kind of perscription from the Doctor and it went away right away. There was nothing he could do about it from the outside (washing, new socks, etc).
Need a new recipe
When you are ready to make Italian, let me know. I covert my family recipe for Manicotti and Meatballs!
What's up with guys!
Shy, scared of rejection, does not know what do do or how to make a move. Maybe he is plotting his move.. could be many reasons. As a female, I am careful not to chase a guy but I do "crack the door" of opportunity for him to walk through.
Friends mom died
Be there for her. There is no "cheering" anyone up because that is an unrealistic emotion for her to acheive right now. No 13 year old should have to lose her mother.
She needs to go through the pain and feel the sadness and the loss. She may grie...
I need bigger boobs
For now, go to Victoria's Secret and get a very padded, pushup bra. It will take what you have and push it up and together so it will actually look like you are a B.
If you go in the store, they are very helpful. Tell them exactly what you want and...
What do you think of people who talk ghetto?
Depends if he is the real deal or not. A suburb guy faking urbonics is a sad situation to see. It is absouletly100% not hot. For example, if I go to England next week and come back with an English accent, that is NOT HOT. That is sad.
But f that guy...
My man needs space give me advice please
I *TOTALLY* agree with mystery women. It is also in guys nature to chase. When we pull away, they come after us. Get yourself busy so he sees you are doing okay without him. Whatever you do, DO NOT Contact Him. If he calls you, okay but do not chase hi...
Stop making and being a mistake?
That is not a nice thing for him to say and must be awful to hear. What he is saying to you does not "define" who you are. Whatever his problem is, it is not right he (as an adult) is talking to you like that. DO NOT let him define your value - meanin...
Neverending misery
Okay! Please stop basing your value of yourself on what other people thing of you. Only you know you, what you've done, how good a person you are, etc. Popular or not popular, as long as you believe in yourself that is all that matters.
As far as h...
How do I get over a guy I see all the time? He broke my heart!
Breakups stink and it just takes time to get over people. Since you have such strong feelings for him still, I think you are doing the right thing by avoiding him as much as you can. You dont need to add insult to injury by being at the same place as t...
Ironic Situation
Your body will go into "starvation mode' as a form of protection because it is aware it is not getting enough calories to sustain which means it will drastically slow down how fast it expends energy.
For example, a 125lb person needs to each 1875 ca...
Do I owe her?
You went out of your way to do her a favor. You fulfilled your responsiblity. Once it was out of your hands, you can not control the US Postal Service competency. It is a little strange she did not get it. Did you address it correctly? If not, you shou...
Pregnant.
If you are pregnant and want to understand your options without your parents, call planned parenthood at 1-800-230-7526. They will discuss all of your options with you from having and keeping, to adoption, to abortion. If it is early enough in the pre...
Married with feelings for married friend?
No. You are the friend. She is married, you knew the boundries when you started to become her friend and know the boundries now. Respect them. Marriage is hard enough. I believe you should continue to be a really good friend.
Unless you master pla...
60% chance he'll pull through
Better than anything under 60%. PRAY! In your head, out loud. I wall say a prayer too. Also, if you are near him, talk to him. Let him know you are there and you can not wait for them to wake up. You know they are going to be just fine...positive talk ...
How do you stop an abusive girlfriend?
I am sorry but for some reason if a man did that to a women, we would get the police involved. It is the same crime. She has a problem with anger management and she should not be in a relationship. There is nothing you can do. Save yourself, break up w...
How to get more confident?
It is a mindset. Like you almost do not care how people perceive you. You like yourself that much and therefor you carry confidence. Be yourself and dont apologize for it!
How to get over him or make him like me again
Go buy the book "It's called break up because it's broken" by Greg Burnhardt. It talks about breakup remorse. Trust me, breaking up is not easy. There was a reason you felt it necessary to break up with him over and over. Give yourself some credit. Mak...
I cheated on him.
He needs to make up his mind. His choices are fogive you and live in a trusting relationship again or be man enougt to admit he can not be part of the relationship because it drives him to do crazy things. If he is in it, he needs to fogive and move on...
Does anybody else agree with DOVE's campaign?
Real women! Kudos to Dove for taking a risk and stepping up. Hopefully other companies will follow once they see the success of Dove's Real Women Campaign. Real women = real revenue!
How to stop crying?
Crying actually releases something in us that sooths our nerves (I forgot what it was...seretonin?) so it is actually your body trying to sooth you. I would try taking deep breaths and readjusting your frame of mind when something hits you. None of us ...
Should I call my dad? (100.00%)
I would call your Dad back.It is best to talk to him before the cottage. You are probably both frustrated. He should not have yelled at you and he needs to find a better way to communicate when he becomes frustrated.
You can draw your boundries wit...
Bisexuality
Sex before marriage isnt okay in the bible either. Bi, Gay, Straight...if anyone really minds, they are not really going to be your friend so you wont care.
He wants me back
He wants to take advantage of you knowing you feel bad easily? He is not a nice person then. So, in turn, dont feel bad when you tell him - NO. You simply dont want to date him. He will get over it eventually. That is life. We all have to deal with rej...
Fantasy of mine
I am 37. Some of the best sex I have had was in my 20's with men in their 20's. Trust me, it doesnt get better with age automatically. It just depends on the guy. Focus on your man. You are young and will have plenty of time to explore.
Ex is going out with someone I'm jealous of
I second the advice above. Let him go. Dont let him steal your joy. It is hard and it hurts but I would like to see you with a man that loves you completely. It was mean what he said and that would hurt anyone's feelings. Let him go! Focus on yourself ...
Do women go for short guys or tall?
I have friends that have married men shorter, same height or taller. I dont think for tons of women that is in the top 5. If you are kind, funny, confident, honest, and treat her right - any height (tall or short) wont be an issue.
Marrelationship
Not cool for anyone. You, him or his wife. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Focus on them.
What does his dream mean?(100.00%)
I would not just no be alone with him but I would not be alone PERIOD. Who is this guy? Do you go to school with him? Does he have a violet history? If not, that does not mean anything. It is totally creepy behavior, even if he is just trying to intimi...
Shes confused
Give her space. I see most people come rebounding back if they see you backing off.
Virgin or not?(100.00%)
He needs to be able to trust you. You know your experiences. If you tell him and you tell him the truth and he chooses not to believe you, there is nothing you can do about that. It all depends on how you and your partner define virginity. Read this ar...
A1 Sauce
never saw the big deal about A-1. Probably b/c I am more about the chicken
How to forget things
Face the issue. Face the person if they hurt you or at least work it out in your head. Get angry, sad, feel it. Read about it, talk to others online about it, open up. Admit it that it happened. Our experiences do not define us. We are who we are. Some...
How to be more charming towards women?
Be kind, be yourself and be confident. Confidence goes A LONG way.
I swear, and a little sensen of humor goes a long way too (if you are not trying too hard - basically, lighten up!). But the most important thing is to be yourself and the women that ...
Help with surviving, being gay
I admire you for being true to yourself and coming out at such a young age. Many men painfully hide it and feel like they lived part of their life as a lie. You will really learn who your true friends are. Middle Schoolers can be tough on anything or a...
Emergency! Someone please help me!(100.00%)
You need to call either one of these numbers as soon as you can:
National Domestic Hotline 1-800-799-7233 OR
Domestic Violence Hotline of Chester County at 1-888-711-6270
They can tell you exacltly what to do to get you out of your situation...
Odd bump under my left armpit..under skin
You should absolutely get it checked out by a professional. It could be nothing or it could not and it it is something, they are best noticed earlier while small. I HIGHLY encourage you to get it checked out because that is an area you check for lumps ...
Need some help
Very Diffucult situation. I am sorry you are going throught this. Well, here is what I would do - I would give it a set time (tell him he can come back for a trial period). Set a time...12 weeks? If he has not started treating you as a priority or his ...
I have been messing around with my sister boyfriend
You are hurting your sister for your own gain. No man is worth that. He is a loser. You should stop hooking up with him and tell your sister to dump him.
I get nausea around boys I like
That is okay. Only do what you are comfortable doing. It could be for a whole bunch of different reasons. It could be fear of the unknow, it could be you are just not comfortable with that one person, it could be you just dont like guys. I would just n...
col_vil's Advice
That same thing happened to my best friend. She went from a size 16 to size 2 and she STILL thought at time she looked wrong in outfits. It took her mind A LONG time to adjust. She had to change her frame of mind. She logically talked her mind into it ...
Butt, teeth, attitude, confidence (but not conceided) and dispostion
You are very mature, not weird. That is completely the right attitude. It is great you have many opportunities presented to you but I would not move forward with someone until you really know them and what they want from you. Also, dont become snobby (...
HE is the loser for acting that way. Good for you for not doing anything you wanted to do! I am VERY PROUD OF YOU! It was a great opportunity in the end to see what a complete jerk he was.
I dont know if he is cheating but he is definitely lying. And either way, he is not being respectful of you, Trust and communication is the cornerstone to any good relationship and without that, what do you have? My advice, confront him and if he does ...
Just because it is not for you, does not mean it is wrong. It is probably weird to you because it is foreign to you. People tend to fear what they dont know.
That stinks. Going to college will be a nice deviation from that scene. Your parents need to make you and your sisters a priority. I would probably try talking to you mom about her drinking and bar hoping and your dad about his ability to focus on ...
Not sure. I have them too. I know I need to go to the Dr and the cut them off really fast.
Sounds like you may have some sort of fungus. I had a boyfriend that had that problem - he had to get some kind of perscription from the Doctor and it went away right away. There was nothing he could do about it from the outside (washing, new socks, etc).
When you are ready to make Italian, let me know. I covert my family recipe for Manicotti and Meatballs!
Shy, scared of rejection, does not know what do do or how to make a move. Maybe he is plotting his move.. could be many reasons. As a female, I am careful not to chase a guy but I do "crack the door" of opportunity for him to walk through.
Be there for her. There is no "cheering" anyone up because that is an unrealistic emotion for her to acheive right now. No 13 year old should have to lose her mother. She needs to go through the pain and feel the sadness and the loss. She may grie...
For now, go to Victoria's Secret and get a very padded, pushup bra. It will take what you have and push it up and together so it will actually look like you are a B. If you go in the store, they are very helpful. Tell them exactly what you want and...
Depends if he is the real deal or not. A suburb guy faking urbonics is a sad situation to see. It is absouletly100% not hot. For example, if I go to England next week and come back with an English accent, that is NOT HOT. That is sad. But f that guy...
TRUTH! In a nice, diplomatic way. Lying does no good for anyone in the long run. It will be a whole bunch of wasted energy!
I *TOTALLY* agree with mystery women. It is also in guys nature to chase. When we pull away, they come after us. Get yourself busy so he sees you are doing okay without him. Whatever you do, DO NOT Contact Him. If he calls you, okay but do not chase hi...
That is not a nice thing for him to say and must be awful to hear. What he is saying to you does not "define" who you are. Whatever his problem is, it is not right he (as an adult) is talking to you like that. DO NOT let him define your value - meanin...
Okay! Please stop basing your value of yourself on what other people thing of you. Only you know you, what you've done, how good a person you are, etc. Popular or not popular, as long as you believe in yourself that is all that matters. As far as h...
Breakups stink and it just takes time to get over people. Since you have such strong feelings for him still, I think you are doing the right thing by avoiding him as much as you can. You dont need to add insult to injury by being at the same place as t...
Your body will go into "starvation mode' as a form of protection because it is aware it is not getting enough calories to sustain which means it will drastically slow down how fast it expends energy. For example, a 125lb person needs to each 1875 ca...
You went out of your way to do her a favor. You fulfilled your responsiblity. Once it was out of your hands, you can not control the US Postal Service competency. It is a little strange she did not get it. Did you address it correctly? If not, you shou...
If you are pregnant and want to understand your options without your parents, call planned parenthood at 1-800-230-7526. They will discuss all of your options with you from having and keeping, to adoption, to abortion. If it is early enough in the pre...
No. You are the friend. She is married, you knew the boundries when you started to become her friend and know the boundries now. Respect them. Marriage is hard enough. I believe you should continue to be a really good friend. Unless you master pla...
Better than anything under 60%. PRAY! In your head, out loud. I wall say a prayer too. Also, if you are near him, talk to him. Let him know you are there and you can not wait for them to wake up. You know they are going to be just fine...positive talk ...
I am sorry but for some reason if a man did that to a women, we would get the police involved. It is the same crime. She has a problem with anger management and she should not be in a relationship. There is nothing you can do. Save yourself, break up w...
It is a mindset. Like you almost do not care how people perceive you. You like yourself that much and therefor you carry confidence. Be yourself and dont apologize for it!
Go buy the book "It's called break up because it's broken" by Greg Burnhardt. It talks about breakup remorse. Trust me, breaking up is not easy. There was a reason you felt it necessary to break up with him over and over. Give yourself some credit. Mak...
He needs to make up his mind. His choices are fogive you and live in a trusting relationship again or be man enougt to admit he can not be part of the relationship because it drives him to do crazy things. If he is in it, he needs to fogive and move on...
Real women! Kudos to Dove for taking a risk and stepping up. Hopefully other companies will follow once they see the success of Dove's Real Women Campaign. Real women = real revenue!
Crying actually releases something in us that sooths our nerves (I forgot what it was...seretonin?) so it is actually your body trying to sooth you. I would try taking deep breaths and readjusting your frame of mind when something hits you. None of us ...
I would call your Dad back.It is best to talk to him before the cottage. You are probably both frustrated. He should not have yelled at you and he needs to find a better way to communicate when he becomes frustrated. You can draw your boundries wit...
Sex before marriage isnt okay in the bible either. Bi, Gay, Straight...if anyone really minds, they are not really going to be your friend so you wont care.
He wants to take advantage of you knowing you feel bad easily? He is not a nice person then. So, in turn, dont feel bad when you tell him - NO. You simply dont want to date him. He will get over it eventually. That is life. We all have to deal with rej...
I am 37. Some of the best sex I have had was in my 20's with men in their 20's. Trust me, it doesnt get better with age automatically. It just depends on the guy. Focus on your man. You are young and will have plenty of time to explore.
I second the advice above. Let him go. Dont let him steal your joy. It is hard and it hurts but I would like to see you with a man that loves you completely. It was mean what he said and that would hurt anyone's feelings. Let him go! Focus on yourself ...
I have friends that have married men shorter, same height or taller. I dont think for tons of women that is in the top 5. If you are kind, funny, confident, honest, and treat her right - any height (tall or short) wont be an issue.
Not cool for anyone. You, him or his wife. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Focus on them.
Good question. I dont understand it either. Is the south upset about the outcome of the Civil War still?
I would not just no be alone with him but I would not be alone PERIOD. Who is this guy? Do you go to school with him? Does he have a violet history? If not, that does not mean anything. It is totally creepy behavior, even if he is just trying to intimi...
Give her space. I see most people come rebounding back if they see you backing off.
He needs to be able to trust you. You know your experiences. If you tell him and you tell him the truth and he chooses not to believe you, there is nothing you can do about that. It all depends on how you and your partner define virginity. Read this ar...
never saw the big deal about A-1. Probably b/c I am more about the chicken
Face the issue. Face the person if they hurt you or at least work it out in your head. Get angry, sad, feel it. Read about it, talk to others online about it, open up. Admit it that it happened. Our experiences do not define us. We are who we are. Some...
Be kind, be yourself and be confident. Confidence goes A LONG way. I swear, and a little sensen of humor goes a long way too (if you are not trying too hard - basically, lighten up!). But the most important thing is to be yourself and the women that ...
I admire you for being true to yourself and coming out at such a young age. Many men painfully hide it and feel like they lived part of their life as a lie. You will really learn who your true friends are. Middle Schoolers can be tough on anything or a...
You need to call either one of these numbers as soon as you can: National Domestic Hotline 1-800-799-7233 OR Domestic Violence Hotline of Chester County at 1-888-711-6270 They can tell you exacltly what to do to get you out of your situation...
You should absolutely get it checked out by a professional. It could be nothing or it could not and it it is something, they are best noticed earlier while small. I HIGHLY encourage you to get it checked out because that is an area you check for lumps ...
Very Diffucult situation. I am sorry you are going throught this. Well, here is what I would do - I would give it a set time (tell him he can come back for a trial period). Set a time...12 weeks? If he has not started treating you as a priority or his ...
You are hurting your sister for your own gain. No man is worth that. He is a loser. You should stop hooking up with him and tell your sister to dump him.
That is okay. Only do what you are comfortable doing. It could be for a whole bunch of different reasons. It could be fear of the unknow, it could be you are just not comfortable with that one person, it could be you just dont like guys. I would just n...