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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
buringirl8's Advice
No skinng jeans..it will make you look bigger
I've tried creams on every part of my body..lol...sure it may help a little..and I mean non noticable little to other people. Exercise and weight training is what tones you not something you'll pay mega bucks for...
gee..I don't know if you have symptons that early...guess you could wait till 11 Jul and see if you get your period again or just go get a drugstore test kit. Question: you are engaged right...curious as to why you would want to get pregant before you...
Simple...tell him you really feel that he is Haressing you and if he doesn't stop ...you will report him to the authorities for Haressment.
You could try buying something at the drugstore for that to try first...but if it's not gone within a week you will have to see a doctor. At which time you may have to tell Mom.
If there isn't trust now the marriage will probably not survive...Sorry to be so blunt but that is the way it is. He sounds like he may have a committment issue and is not ready for marriage. You may want to search your heart and make a decision ...
I beleive the needs of a man and the needs of a woman are very different. A man needs to be 1)Respected..2) He needs recreational companionship..3) Sex A woman need 1) Love..2) Conversation..3) Affection A man expresses what he is thinking and...
I would think that you have to decide who or what is most important to you...Gabby or her b/f ...
As long as you have excepted Jesus as your savior then you have salvation. In time you will want to please the Lord...we all slip up from time to time...we are human. Ahhh...so you listen to rap? Did you know that there is a lot of Christian rap out ...
Tell her the truth about how you really feel...Girls are very emotional and , yes...they do cry. If you approach it in a caring way, she will be hurt but she does deserve the truth...that way you both can move on.
I think you are doing a great job. You are being honest with him and yourself. If you feel that you can only offer him friendship right now then that's fine. Don't be pressured and go with your heart...Great job
Maybe you are really stressed out and guilty about this and that's why your period is not coming. Does your mother have to go into the docs office with you? Even though you are 16 you can tell her you would like a minute to talk to the doc on your own...
Love yourself and don't expend your time and energy on jealousy. Jealousy will just eat you up inside if you let it. Remember ...what you do to other people seems to have it's way of coming back to you.
If a boy is cheating on his girlfriend it usually means that he's really not that into her. He thinks there's something better . Think about this quote..."Don't make someone your Priority when they are making you an Option"
That's a tough one as you don't want to loose her friendship. She may not even want to beleive you if you did tell her, which would put a strain on your relationship with her... Does the guy know that you know he's cheating? If he does then he doesn't...
I just have this to say..."Don't make someone a Priority , when they make you an Option"
You have to love yourself...Everyday pick something about yourself that you like...it can be a physical body part or even a nice trait you have like You are knd to people. The attitude you put out is what you receive back... Keep positive thoughts ab...
You know...God loves you anyway. If going to church in tank and shorts is really what's in your heart to do then I guess you'll do it. The religious people will probably give you some nasty looks but the people who love regardless of what you are wea...
What happens if you don't marry him...will you keep getting into sexual relationships and think it's ok because you think you will get married to the person...it's a circle ...and we use it as an excuse I'm afraid.
You know what, that's between you,your boyfriend and God. If you guys are being convicted then try not to put yourselves into lustful temptations. Have an honest think on whether the relationship has been built on sex...it will survive if it wasn't......
Firstly ,I had to search the meaning of Malevolent...it means to do evil and harm to someone. I don't see God being that way at all. Would God have his son die on the cross for us if that were so? Does God strike you down dead when you sin? No. I see ...
I don't know everything that's in the bible but I have never read anything about reincarnation, so I'm thinking it's not off God. and a false teaching.
Any bible is good ...I enjoy "The Good News"...it doesn't have the thees and thous so it is more understandable to read. I also enjoy my student bible which is NIV by Zondervan. My suggestion is to go to a christian bookstore and pick a few and sit dow...
First ...your Dad and Mom love you very much. Talk to your Mom and let her know that you would like to see your Dad...she may know how to reach him. You mentioned pray for you...lots of churches have people you can talk to...or an older person you can...
First off ...start by asking for forgiveness and also forgive yourself. We all stray sometimes. If you are struggling in a certain area you can talk to a trusted friend or mentor...maybe the church. Sometimes we need someone to keep us on track and be ...
Yes...a platonic friendship is very special...it's someone you can trust with your heart...no matter what...
We all sin ... you are no different then the rest of us. And if the people you are talking too keep telling you your are sinning ...then I would have to say that those people are not compassionate and caring. We should try to help one another...not con...
I believe hunting is ok. After all, that's why God put animals on this earth. Plus I think that it's in man's nature to desire the hunt. I don't however agree with killing, just for the sake of killing.
For myself I find if I limit my carb intake and walk at least 4 times per week for approx 45 min, it keeps my weight good. I eat the most at morning time, less in afternoon and have a light supper. I also limit the things that are White in my diet...l...
Love is not only a feeling but it's a choice...you choose to love. If it's a new relationship then it's probably lust... Take the lust out of the equation and see where it leads you. The difference between a man and a woman is that A man loves to ...
It sounds like your Dad has low self esteem and is struggling with being a man. I don't know what the situation but men need to be respected and appreiciated..this allows them to feel that they are providing for their family. Even though they are stro...
Women are attracted to mystery and danger. They aren't attracted to the safe guy. It's our human nature as men and women. google David DeAnglo...he has good insite on attracting a woman.
Have you looked at volunteering...it can be very rewarding.
It sounds like he may feel a little insecure around your friends. Insecurity causes people to want to control the person they are with. You may have to address this problem ... not in anger ...but start with I Love You and really tell him how it makes ...
go online and google BMI...Body mass Index...this will tell you the healthy weight. I'm 5..3 and 130lbs
well, if you know you haven't done anything then you know your not pregant. If you are not sure take a drugstore test. If it's negitive then go get a doc check.
Religions are made by man. Having a relationship with Christ is what's important. If you r looking for a starting place...look for multi or non denomanational churches.
I had it done approx 6 years ago. The procedure takes about 1 min per eye. You can go online to read about it. After the procedure you will be able to read the time on a wall clock immediately and you will have to wear dark glasses for a few days. I th...
The humble heart is still out there in a lot of people. Some people who flaunt their stuff do it out of fear. A fear that if they don't ,they won't be excepted for who they are without the stuff. I'm thankful for what I have been given and not what I...
I believe that the only way to the Father is through Jesus. I think you have to believe Jesus is the son of God. You receive Salvation by believing ... not by doing.
I would go get him some food with the money I wanted to give him. That to me would be a better act of kindness then the money itself.
Agnostic is when you are not sure if there is a God. In this world we all want some kind of proof.It seems like if we can't see it then we don't believe it. It has not been proven that God Didn't create this earth. The Bible tells me He did. We who be...
There's nothing wrong with you! You are overwhelmed by the everyday thing in life. We all have been there at one time or another. When I have been that way I had to actually take 10 minutes and Quiet my mind. Wipe out the negitive thinking and meditat...
First off ..no...your Dad doesn't hate you. He may be going through a lot right now with his new family. If you have his email address...maybe you could tell him how the situation is making you feel...sometimes it's a start to write it out rather the...