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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.

blahblahblahhh's Advice
if you're having a dj, won't he already know what songs to play?
bananas, grapefruit, apples (they're filling so you eat less), oranges, etc.
I am a HUGEEE HUGE HUGE HUGE HUGE jason mraz fan, and I've been a huge fan since I was 9 years old. I have all his albums, his unreleased music, a million different concert versions of each song, and music he's made when was a teen, etc. I absolutely...
I'm sorry to hear about your break up, and it must be very hard to go through. personally I've never been in a serious relationship (I'm 16) but I do know a lot so hopefully I can help you answer a few questions. you said that you thought you guys ...
it depends on the couple. mine lasted a little over 2 months, but I dont think it was the distance that made me break up with him, I think it was just the timing and all the other things going on in my life.
he does sound like he really loves you, and I think you should definitely try it. trust me, I've been in a situation similar to this, and I didn't want to get into the relationship because they guy was 3 years older than me & went to school far away. ...
of course boys & girls can be just friends. my best friend is actually a guy, and we've been that way since we were really little. he's like a brother to me (which means we also argue and fight like brothers and sisters)
He is obviously no good for you, and you know it. It's become a habit for you to accept him, so he's now taking it for granted and thinking it's alright to see other girls. This is NOT okay, at all. No matter what he says to you, if he loved you he ...
I love nerds. We're all a little nerdy after all.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always p...
I would say make him prove to you that he really wants to be with you. Make him work for your attention, and not the other way around.
Maps - Yeah Yeah Yeahs :]
Reeses! I have a thing for peanut butter and chocolate.
You're perfect. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Have fun cheerleading :]
Nose! But make sure you only wear little studs... Or ear. I don't like eyebrow piercings.
Across The Universe, Strawberry Fields Forever, Revolution
'I live life day by day' yeah I couldn't think of anything else :/ I'm brain dead right now. OH. "I'm so brain dead right now"
Ask him questions about himself. Take it from there. Once you know what he's interested in, you can expand on that more. Compliment him. Guys love it when a girl notices something about them. So if he's wearing his hair differently, or wearing som...
I agree with what pinkpearl said also, but I took the question as "how long does it take before other people don't call it a rebound relationship." So if you were going out with someone for a year, broke up with them and started dating someone else th...
I think it depends on how long you went out with him. If it was a long relationship [a year, two years...] I'd say 3 or 4 months at the least. If it was short [a few months] I'd say 1 month or 2 months.
Um, I don't really understand the question. Or lack of one. But okay, I think you're freaking out a little, but that's understandable. I understand that you wanted this to be your big night, but I really don't think that these little things shou...
I tried it, and it tasted like paper :/
I'm sorry that you're in such a tough situation right now, however, this is really out of your control. You apologized, and even though you regret what you did, if your boyfriend won't take you back, there is nothing you can do. You made a mistak...
You need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel, because the more you keep it inside, the worse it's going to get. If you think that your boyfriend living with you is tearing apart the relationship, the only way would be to ask him to move out. If yo...
Wait it out. Don't jump into anything especially with his best friend. If you have any respect for your ex, you would wait for however long it should take for him to be okay. Dating his best friend, however, would probably not be the greatest idea. ...
Meganhead, thanks for the advice. I wasn't expecting to hear anything positive, but thanks for putting it that perspective. I'll continue working on trying to move on. I guess nothing really good can come out of this situation.
Tina toddler, you're my hero (:
Glutton for punishment? That makes it seem like I wanted this to happen. I didn't choose to like him, and it's really not that easy to 'get over' someone. As I said before, they've been on and off lately, so there's obviously something not quite rig...
I use proactive every day, and it works pretty well for me. I don't break out a lot, so I don't really know. It's different for everyone, because everyone's skin type is different. You can get a trial set, and use that for a month and see if you see...
Now that I think about it, I don't even think I really want to get over him, or wanted my feelings to 'deminish' for him. It hurts that I can't have him, but he can also make me ridiculously happy. Him and I are 'new friends' and I want to keep being...
Try doing streaks of blue with some green or purple right next to it :P That would be pretty cool.
Thanks for the advice about me feeling faint. I'll definitely try drinking more water and eating something small before I run.
You're cute, but how old are you?
PinkPearl and youknowme91, peanut butter and banana sandwiches are the BEST, but they're not weird or uncommon. Hm, well I eat sushi, raw fish. Probably cause my dad is a sushi chef, but that's also not very uncommon... I can't think of any at t...
no problem. does anyone else get extremely faint and dehydrated before and during they run for a meet? Cause during the indoor meets, I've been feeling that way, and after I run I'll feel sick. Does anyone know what I can do?
^ um, don't listen to her. That's not enough. First, you should exercise. You can't really lose weight unless you're burning more calories then you are consuming. Breakfast - I love low fat yogurt with granola and fruit. It's also really fil...
hey zach I have an acoustic Ibanez AEL20ETBS. I play mainly acoustic style stuff, whatever I happen to be listening to. No specific genre.
Hm, I don't throw, but I'm guessing you would start with the basic technique, like how to actually throw it, and stuff. Go from there, and see if they have a good arm for it. It might be hard if they have less than a month.
Keirstinkate: chill out, seriously. Just cause you might know something doesn't mean the whole world has to know it too. If you thought the question was so 'stupid' then why didn't you answer it properly? Okay well, iced tea is usually not serve...
Well, first of all I just wanted to say, good job! I'm proud of you, and your motivation to lose weight the HEALTHY way. It's depressing to see all these people go anorexic or bulimic, just to lose a few pounds. So, good job. Keep it up! My advi...
awesomee! I really hope to make Varsity next year! This is also my first year doing track, I started during Winter Track, and I'm doing spring track, and Cross Country next fall. I'll probably continue this throughout my high school career. It's fu...
I do the 800 and the mile. How bout you guys??
I think maybe being different can be healthy in a relationship. Couples who are into the exact same things don't always get along, because they get bored with each other easily. You've probably heard the phrase 'opposites attract' and most of the tim...
Maybe you meant to send someone a message? Or is this for the general public?
^ hahaha oops, yes cliche'. Remind me not to talk on the phone and type at the same time, cause that never seems to work out :T.
It seems kind of clique. Try to reach deeper and write what really comes to you; don't worry about the rhyming scheme, cause it seems like you're too focused on that. :] it's not bad though, keep working on it!
I play guitar. You can't learn from just reading how to 'play the guitar' online. Take classes. It's really fun once you have it down, but like all instruments, takes a while to get used to. I can give you tips on playing, but you have to learn m...
It's definitely been noticeable, and I do care about this. The English language is slowly changing, and it's not necessarily a 'bad' thing. I mean, think about how much our language has evolved from only 20 or 30 years ago. The thing that DOES b...
it IS fun! :] except I don't like sprinting :P but running is a lot more fun than I thought it would be when I first started. There are definitely the 'hard' days where you feel like you're going to die, but once you're done, you feel so much better ...
What exactly did you lie about? Funmail me the story and I could try to help you.