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hey im jasmine
ive got blue and black hair now
when ive got air in my lungs
and a skateboard in my hand... im happy
i love to skate
and i collect skateboards as well (73 so far)
im an artist...i paint, sew, draw, create ect
as well as that i also make dolls, jewellery, clothes, shoes, bags, hats and just about everything else
I love Piercings! I have got 36 of them
no tatts yet though = no money either
i love riding skateboards from the 1970's
i like spandex pants!
I play guitar and drums
I can juggle, and do lots of other stuff
Im pretty old fashioned and old-school
I love horror, I sleep in a car bed
i like to wear stupid looking hats
i always wear the same jeans
and I definantly don’t take life too seriously
i love ZOMBIES! :D
and i love romance in almost all its forms
I don’t believe in any religion
i dont respect any of it either
...words dont hurt me
I do what i love, and dress how i feel
I pretty much live in a world of my own...
and were all mad here :]
i know a lot about a lot of different things,
so im just hear to give you all advice :]
balamuk's Advice
Oh, guys, and one bad news for you: women whose sexual appetite is very low do exist! They are called frigids and you should stay away from them. And no marriage, OK? :D
Well, you should thank your religion for that result. You got married to a woman whose sexual compatibility is unknown to you. And your wife should be more than just your best friend! I mean sexual attraction! Try therapy, both of you. Go see a psycho...
In the same way that you could tell that the round Earth might be square.
Well, safina, it's a little difficult to answer your questions because it's complicated by the fact that you are a bi married couple (!), but I will try to give you some general adivce. First of all, I don't understand how can your husband be interest...
Ask him, not us! :))
After at least 2 hours. Ha ha!
It's pretty cool that you are in a band (I hope it's not a choir :)) Yes, a song that would hint at her would be nice, but just not now. FIrst you have to fix your confidence, be relaxed when you are around her and eventually make some funny comments a...
I wanted to say the same thing as locoluna...I mean, you are just being jealous, just go out with your friends and it will be ok after a while. What he did was bad, I think you are on the right way now...
First of all, I am sorry for your nickname! :)) Short answer is, yes, he's used you, but he didn't do it too much on purpose I think. He just wanted to have sex with you, I hope you understand that. :) And then, he thought that he is better with his gf...
Well, I guess it's a connection problem first and then it's because he is ashamed of what he does, but in the same time he enjoys it. Unfortunatelly, I don't know the solution for this one, 'cause porn can be addictive. Don't ask me how I know! :))))) ...
If you aren't like that anymore and you trust that, you will just tell him and he will know.
Just let your friends know you are a lesbian and they will find somebody for you...the world is small, you know? just don't hide what you want.
Why are you asking us? Let me consult my crystal ball. Oh, yes, she likes you! Do you feel satisfied now?
Break up immediately from this shit!! Disgusting behaviour from his side! And you are a weakling, you know that? I know it's not easy, but it has either to stop or to choose you for good. I wouls suggest stop.
OK, so you know it's your fault first for fighting endlessly with him. And now you want him back. It can be done but not too easy. I really don't know how to do it and I don't like tricks, so send him a message in which you ask for his help, invite him...
Ok here's how you should do: you have to behave towards her like her boyfriend (man) and not like her sidekick. Cut off the compliments, they don't help much. Pretend to be unsatisfied of something (not too much though), it will raise her interest. Whe...
My advice is to tell him what you feel without any problems.
Just tell her nicely, sincerely, kindly but firmly. And listen to that song, Nada SUrf - Popular. ;)
You HAVE TO tell him how you feel about, but in a nice way, and stop being so afraid that he would dump you. Because fear is the path to the dark side... ;)
True, that's not helping your chances, it makes you look needy. You should do something about it, not ur friend. Let the boy make the first move but invite him without actually telling him. I hope you understand me :)
Youw weigth is good, relax.
NO. Be subtle and they will understand.
Yes, stop being like that! What's happened to you was normal! Too much shyness is no good. Visit a psychologist.
It might but it isn't! The truth is even more horrifying :))
Yes you are a confused girl indeed. Confused by yourself. 10 months and no sex! You are lucky to still have him around you!
Very hard, if not never! It takes a lot of time. The answer is: WITH TIME.
You are damn allowed :) But talk to him, don't yell, ok? :)
Good advice arabfilly! :) Well, the situation is complicated, so you'd better reserve a full day to discuss openly about your problems with your...guy. Mention this: truth, child, future, love. Good luck!
This is the type of questions that I prefer, because everybody has been through this, so good advice is really welcome in this case. 6 months and talking about marriage so often - weird!!!! Ok I think you should win her back, BUT!!!! she is a little...
WOW! This is one strange situation! :)) Basically, arabfilly is right, although I feel like she's exaggerating! I would say 2 things: do as your feel like and 2nd, do it as long as you don't lose control. And also think about where things are going, if...
Good question. First, you need to find out the motives. Talk to him and tell him that you feel you can't continue in this manner so ask him what can you help him with not to be like this and solve the problem or you will solve the problem by leaving hi...
Files remain unharmed.
Well, he's probably cheating on you so try to find out why. Better ask him, maybe it's your fault or who knows. Anyway, don't take it too hard on yourself; if you can do something about it, do it! And of course, get some treatment :)
Go out, read many advices and books, but get an outgoing life first, make more friends and things will come by themselves. It's better for you to find somebody, not your parents.
Don't worry too much about it, honey :) Anyways, there are some ointments that can help your little budies to grow. Ask in a drug store, not here :)
Say:"Hi, would you like to dance?" :))
F**k as much as you can, carelessly!!!! :)) Stupid question...
Yeah you probably are. Those kids in US don't learn many things in school :)) The best place is in a bed and don't worry, the girl will be more experimented than you and she will guide you through your 1st experience. It's easy and nice so you needn't...
Yeah, try to find the hydrant! :))
Impossible to say, ha ha! Do I look like a fortune teller?! :)) "He said he loved me, is it true?" :))))
Pop the question? Do you want to marry her or what? Wait, no, just go out with her? Man, the smoother, the better. E.g.: Would you like to hang out sometime?, I am going to the gym, wanna join me? Come on, do you want to be fluffy your whole life? :) I...
You hardly make sense. Meeting his parents? :)) This one is funny. Where do you pick them, lottery? You want to wait and date other men when you'll be 21?! That's really weird to say. Come on, ask you female friends for tips how to discourage guys. Say...
Break up for a while, let him know that, and take advantage of the time spent alone to clear your feelings. Both of you and especially him.
This one is not one of those unforgivable things ;) He likes you and you constrained him back then. Don't miss your CHANCE to get back with him.
Yes he is :))
Just wait and you will figure it out with time.
Well, girl, I am impressed by your good attitude and I really liked your story and the way you dealt with it. Bravo! By making up those things or at least exaggerating them he was trying to make you jealous, to make you more into him, to make you want ...
Yes, tell him what you want and that you will break up with him if he cannot give you what you need in your relationship.
Ok, the guy likes you. Careful though! You might lose a good friend for a lover. You seem to be a great girl... He is testing you to find out if you like him as much as he likes you. Next time you are together, ask him if he feels well next to you and ...
You're on the right track, but I hope you have learned something from your previous bad experiences. Which is...stop being such a stalker or creating that impression!!! Girls need space, got it? Let her come to you! Stop being so possessive! Quit datin...